Sexuality Question ?

[jeremy96]

If you are not attracted to girls at all and you are sexually attracted to guys but not emotional can that make a person gay for a guy ?

[dingleberryz]

yeah that makes you gay

[AlexOnToast]

I would say that it makes you gay, HOWEVER, only you can ever tell for sure.

[Aleks96]

I think it does make you gay.

[jeremy96]

I was just making a thread that's it, no big deal.

[Daniella98]

Maybe you are bi and picky and all girls around you are just unattractive :-)

[Danny Phantom]

I don't consider it gay just because of the simple "not emotionally attracted to guys" part. I don't know what to label it but labels aren't necessary.

[Gifford]

1. If you are not attracted to girls at all and you are sexually attracted to guys but not emotional can that make a person gay for a guy ?

2. I was just making a thread that's it, no big deal.

Hold on here. You posed a serious question and what followed were a number of replies, most suggesting you may be gay. So, if you didn't like the way that was going and couldn't handle the idea of being gay, you then post the second one, downplaying the relevance of the first one by saying, in effect, "Oh, I was only kidding the first time, I was just making a thread, it's no bit deal".


I've got news for you, it IS a big deal. How totally disrespectful of you to post something and then say you were only fooling around, you were really only kidding. What's the matter with you?

I believe the first question you posted WAS entirely real. First you said you have no attraction for girls, sexually or emotionally. That means you are definitely NOT str8.

Then you state that you are definitely sexually attracted to guys; but you state that you don't have emotional feelings for them. (Maybe you won't LET yourself feel emotion for them to protect yourself from being gay)

You have to be capable of emotional feelings for one or the other. Do you plan on going thru life alone, never having a love relationship with anyone? You already know it's not going to be with a female.

You need to explore your sexual attraction to other guys, meaning you're going to have to sooner or later find a guy who is turned on to you and you can share a sexual experience together. You'll have to do this with several guys to get sex experience and also to explore your emotions with guys. I suspect that you'll meet a guy who will cuddle you, spoon with you, kiss you gently on the neck, care for you, show you he's there for you, and look terrific to you, because there will be a guy who will express that, and you may fall in love with him.

That's fabulous. All of us here would like to find something like that, depending on the sex of the other person.

Do you have a fear of being gay? In your mind, is there something wrong with being gay? You as much as said so in your #1 statement above.

- Josh

[killerrockyroad]

Yes it kinda does

[jeremy96]

Hold on here. You posed a serious question and what followed were a number of replies, most suggesting you may be gay. So, if you didn't like the way that was going and couldn't handle the idea of being gay, you then post the second one, downplaying the relevance of the first one by saying, in effect, "Oh, I was only kidding the first time, I was just making a thread, it's no bit deal".


I've got news for you, it IS a big deal. How totally disrespectful of you to post something and then say you were only fooling around, you were really only kidding. What's the matter with you?

I believe the first question you posted WAS entirely real. First you said you have no attraction for girls, sexually or emotionally. That means you are definitely NOT str8.

Then you state that you are definitely sexually attracted to guys; but you state that you don't have emotional feelings for them. (Maybe you won't LET yourself feel emotion for them to protect yourself from being gay)

You have to be capable of emotional feelings for one or the other. Do you plan on going thru life alone, never having a love relationship with anyone? You already know it's not going to be with a female.

You need to explore your sexual attraction to other guys, meaning you're going to have to sooner or later find a guy who is turned on to you and you can share a sexual experience together. You'll have to do this with several guys to get sex experience and also to explore your emotions with guys. I suspect that you'll meet a guy who will cuddle you, spoon with you, kiss you gently on the neck, care for you, show you he's there for you, and look terrific to you, because there will be a guy who will express that, and you may fall in love with him.

That's fabulous. All of us here would like to find something like that, depending on the sex of the other person.

Do you have a fear of being gay? In your mind, is there something wrong with being gay? You as much as said so in your #1 statement above.

- Josh


No, I don't mind if I be alone the rest of my life.

[Zachary G]

Hold on here. You posed a serious question and what followed were a number of replies, most suggesting you may be gay. So, if you didn't like the way that was going and couldn't handle the idea of being gay, you then post the second one, downplaying the relevance of the first one by saying, in effect, "Oh, I was only kidding the first time, I was just making a thread, it's no bit deal".


I've got news for you, it IS a big deal. How totally disrespectful of you to post something and then say you were only fooling around, you were really only kidding. What's the matter with you?

I believe the first question you posted WAS entirely real. First you said you have no attraction for girls, sexually or emotionally. That means you are definitely NOT str8.

Then you state that you are definitely sexually attracted to guys; but you state that you don't have emotional feelings for them. (Maybe you won't LET yourself feel emotion for them to protect yourself from being gay)

You have to be capable of emotional feelings for one or the other. Do you plan on going thru life alone, never having a love relationship with anyone? You already know it's not going to be with a female.

You need to explore your sexual attraction to other guys, meaning you're going to have to sooner or later find a guy who is turned on to you and you can share a sexual experience together. You'll have to do this with several guys to get sex experience and also to explore your emotions with guys. I suspect that you'll meet a guy who will cuddle you, spoon with you, kiss you gently on the neck, care for you, show you he's there for you, and look terrific to you, because there will be a guy who will express that, and you may fall in love with him.

That's fabulous. All of us here would like to find something like that, depending on the sex of the other person.

Do you have a fear of being gay? In your mind, is there something wrong with being gay? You as much as said so in your #1 statement above.

- Josh

awesome points you have made Josh. thats so cool of you to tell it like it is.

[sqishy]

I'm saying you are attracted to the same gender, but 'gay' is a label that has fuzzy edges on what it covers. You are curious for sure though. The rest might take time to resolve.