yviedarling
January 11th, 2014, 12:36 PM
Let me tell you about my friend. Before i knew i was pregnant, me and him were just about to enter a relationship. He didn't care i was pregnant, and even offered to say he was the dad since he knew the real father would never own up to it. He even offered to let me stay with him. Well, i ended up moving to another state instead, and while i was down there he met this girl and started dating her, yadda yadda yadda. I didn't mind, me and my ex had gotten back together and were doing great.
Well, right before i moved again, my friend found out his girlfriend was pregnant. he still stuck around, and all that, but i kinda had suspicions that he got her pregnant on purpose because he was jealous because me and my ex were back together.
i told his girlfriend he she would probably be better off having a backup plan in case he wasn't a good of a father as he started out to be (i found out he had been hitting on other girls and such.) She didn't listen, but I was just like, ok, it's on her.
Well, just this week, they started fighting because apparently he moved out of her parent's house without her, and she had been trying to get him to see their son and he keeps saying he's too busy. But, i know that isn't true, because for the past two weeks he's been asking me when me and noah are coming over, which is weird because i never planned to go over there in the first place. Too awkward.
and he keeps offering that we could stay with him if me and my mom get into a fight, which makes no sense because me and my mom don't fight anymore.
He offers to give us rides to get noah shots and other stuff like that.
Him and his girlfriend were fine up until a couple weeks ago, and me and him barely talked, and now he's making an effort to talk to me everyday.
And i'm just like that's a stupid thing to do, because his girlfriend HATES me.(for reasons i'm not aware of.)
I've only met her once, and it was extremely awkward because he kept staring at me, but he was like across the room even though me and her were sitting next to each other.
Every time me and him talk he brings up the fact we used to like each other, and i don't get the point in bringing it up anymore.
I know it's long, sorry. I'm just wondering about you guys' opinions. No worries, I am NOT getting involved with him or anything, I don't have feelings for him anymore, either. It just sounds weird to me. Opinions?
Well, right before i moved again, my friend found out his girlfriend was pregnant. he still stuck around, and all that, but i kinda had suspicions that he got her pregnant on purpose because he was jealous because me and my ex were back together.
i told his girlfriend he she would probably be better off having a backup plan in case he wasn't a good of a father as he started out to be (i found out he had been hitting on other girls and such.) She didn't listen, but I was just like, ok, it's on her.
Well, just this week, they started fighting because apparently he moved out of her parent's house without her, and she had been trying to get him to see their son and he keeps saying he's too busy. But, i know that isn't true, because for the past two weeks he's been asking me when me and noah are coming over, which is weird because i never planned to go over there in the first place. Too awkward.
and he keeps offering that we could stay with him if me and my mom get into a fight, which makes no sense because me and my mom don't fight anymore.
He offers to give us rides to get noah shots and other stuff like that.
Him and his girlfriend were fine up until a couple weeks ago, and me and him barely talked, and now he's making an effort to talk to me everyday.
And i'm just like that's a stupid thing to do, because his girlfriend HATES me.(for reasons i'm not aware of.)
I've only met her once, and it was extremely awkward because he kept staring at me, but he was like across the room even though me and her were sitting next to each other.
Every time me and him talk he brings up the fact we used to like each other, and i don't get the point in bringing it up anymore.
I know it's long, sorry. I'm just wondering about you guys' opinions. No worries, I am NOT getting involved with him or anything, I don't have feelings for him anymore, either. It just sounds weird to me. Opinions?