Friend and me please help ?!?

[Thisguy69]

I have recently been hanging out with a really close friend and we are jerking off together and have an extreme desire to have oral with him.... I have a girlfriend and I love her. Does this make me gay because I don't like males but just In the
moment I feel like it's just two buddy's helping each other out should I asks him next time or should I not ... I am so confused !0.o

[sdude]

Nothing makes u gay, u are or u aren't or somewhere inbetween...Do you have a sexual relationship with your gf? If u do, then you would be cheating on her at the least...if you aren't and are just exploring with your friend, then it's probably cool and better than getting your girl pregnant!!

[ksdnfkfr]

^ that

[mrmee]

It's most likely curiosity. And curiosity killed the cat, if you know what I mean.

[Pulp501]

Listen to the first guy

[Brown13]

If you think he would be fine with that then go for it. You arent really gay/bi unless you also seek a romantic relationship with guys so you are safe there too

[jacobjb10]

It's just curiosity

[randyboy]

Do whatch feel feel whatcha do if it feels right and he is ok with you... then turn the lights low and take your times. Let him touch you too and who knows have you known him long

[Liam TWB]

Doing sexual stuff with a male friend doesn't mean you're gay. If you had sexual attraction and romantic feelings for him, then maybe you're not fully straight - you could be bi. More likely, you're just experimenting and having fun together. Oral is a step further on from jerking together and you both need to be certain that you both feel comfortable with it. Have you wanked each other yet? That could be a kind of intermediate step to see if you feel ok just touching the other guy.

The other thing to consider is how you feel about your girlfriend - if you're also having sex with her, then maybe you need to ask yourself if you're being fair to her by doing stuff with your mate. Only you know how you feel, so its up to you to decide.

Good luck and have fun :)

[From Chris]

I have recently been hanging out with a really close friend and we are jerking off together and have an extreme desire to have oral with him.... I have a girlfriend and I love her. Does this make me gay because I don't like males but just In the
moment I feel like it's just two buddy's helping each other out should I asks him next time or should I not ... I am so confused !0.o

IT most certainly does not make you gay. :) It's normal, don't worry.

-From Chris

[ComfortableInChaos]

Unless you ONLY want some other guy's dick, you're not gay. If you want dick AND pussy, this means you're bi. If you just want pussy, you're straight. It's not like doing things makes you completely gay. You're probably trying to find out which of these describe you the most or you're probably just trying to do something casual. Blow jobs mostly happen from girls, so this would be something that you're trying to do for him and him do for you so you wouldn't cheat on her with another girl. This could be why... Anyway, I would say go for it and talk to him about it.

Don't just be all:

"CAN I SUCK YOUR COCK!?!"

Just be all like:

"Hey, bro. I don't want this to change our friendship and I know it's a little bit different... but I wanted to talk to you about maybe doing something... you know, helping a bro out... if you know what I mean. If you do it to me and I do it to you, then maybe we could help each other out every once in a while."

[Your Captain]

Just ask him. If he says wtf then just say you were joking. Its not gay your just curious

[Catholic Guy]

Just ask him if he's cool and then do it if not don't and it's not gay just curiosity, doesn't have to effect your girlfriend either because she won't know! You're just performing an experiment like in science

[drcupcakes27]

I have recently been hanging out with a really close friend and we are jerking off together and have an extreme desire to have oral with him.... I have a girlfriend and I love her. Does this make me gay because I don't like males but just In the
moment I feel like it's just two buddy's helping each other out should I asks him next time or should I not ... I am so confused !0.o

I used to do the same. I still have girlfriends. It's not gay unless you feel attracted to him. Even then it might not me. Nothing really makes you gay until you decide you don't like girls anymore. Helping a friend out, or even getting a little extra doesn't change your sexuality.

[Robinblake]

Theres nothing wrong with it, just curiosity.

[randyboy]

I don't advice you to do that, you are definitely straight but rember this is the hormones talking.

Hey I don't agree trying stuff out is really OK it ain't hormones its called havin a good time, are you a "sending you to outta space" morman or on the farm amish ;)

If 2 people enjoy what they do to each other and have no probs be they guy and girl girl and girl guy and guy who cares and t'aint no body's buisness.

I guess the only exception is hetro sex where a guy needs to make sure his little tadpoles don't go for a swim. Ware and use a CONDOM always regardless, 9 months later it's too late.

God I sound way serious, but hey-ho u know what I mean, let the guys alone and let them find out and see what they like. Remember: WOT SHE DOESN'T KNOW ABOUT CAN'T HURT HER.

Be a Nike Jus' Do It !:yummy:

[randyboy]

It's most likely curiosity. And curiosity killed the cat, if you know what I mean.

Yeah and guess wot

And faith bought it back again meeee-oooooow:yes:


one of my Teacher's little jibes as she says


Viz: Have faith m8 in yer own curiosity worry about the missis laters Love is a bit diff to having some pvt pleasure... .

Refer to 1st post end of. Cock is Cock Clunge is Clunge (see the inbetweeners love that word for a Girl CLUNGE (kerr lunn ge) all can go together.

Great name for a bar or club: Cock and Clunge or C&C :yeah::yeah::yeah:

[daniel 2014]

Your fine go ahead! Ive done the same with your situation. Go for it.

[AlexOnToast]

You would be surprised at the massive percentage of guys who have similar situations. You are just curious, and curiosity is what makes us human....Don't feel like you have to held back by social pariahs, If this is how you feel then it is'nt for anyone else to judge you...

[randomness2345]

Just curiosity. Perfectly normal, so it doesn't make you gay.

[Jstr]

no you should not experiment with him because that will be cheating on your gf. which is wrong
other then that its curiosity but its still wrong to do I with him unless your single

[SkiJoey99]

You'd probably be best off just not having oral with him.

[superstarB]

Your just curious but if you do go that stretch and do oral and like it you might want to consider being bi (assuming you have a strong relationship with your girlfriend) so it is also cheating on your girlfriend if you do the act, I would not if I were you.

[Darksoul13]

It's normal to have those thoughts and no, it does not make you gay.

[kinger]

I have recently been hanging out with a really close friend and we are jerking off together and have an extreme desire to have oral with him.... I have a girlfriend and I love her. Does this make me gay because I don't like males but just In the
moment I feel like it's just two buddy's helping each other out should I asks him next time or should I not ... I am so confused !0.o

It normal to feel that way at your age. I was in the exact same situation and when my buddy said he would give me one if i gave him one i did it. Its just experimenting and it made our friendship even closer. I would say if you wanna do it go for it man but i wouldnt tell your girlfriend

[KoolKid96]

I have recently been hanging out with a really close friend and we are jerking off together and have an extreme desire to have oral with him.... I have a girlfriend and I love her. Does this make me gay because I don't like males but just In the
moment I feel like it's just two buddy's helping each other out should I asks him next time or should I not ... I am so confused !0.o

U seem to be curious from my pov, unless u're attracted to him like how u're attracted to ur gf, then maybe u're bi

[kenny89]

ur just helping each other out
im str8 and i do this with friends

[rambo_24]

thats normal, a lot of people do that

[dontfiguremeout]

Honestly to me I think that's a bit weird for a straight guy. A straight guy wouldn't really want to be blowing off a guy. Plus being curious is about curious in size and stuff like that. But yeah, I don't think straight guys would want to be doing anything sexual with guys.

[Andrew2499]

I have had a gf and still did things with my friend. It doesnt make you gay, you are just curious.

[badboy96]

just want to try it most likey

[JollyToes]

I think a lot of guys have those thoughts. I don't know if you should act on it though bc of your gf. If you two have a strong enough relationship maybe you can be open w her abt your feelings.