i need help so much

[jmx100]

Well it all starts with me never saying no to some one when they say I need to ask you some thing or me making a joke and I go's in to more than a joke ok well I was txting one of my mates on bbm (I don't have it any more sorry) and he said to me "soooo what u want to talk about" and I said as a joke "guys why not nice hot guys lol" and he said ok cool and I was like oh cool if you cool with that and he told me he was bi and shit but he know I had a bf at that time and with in a week or more I asked him out because me and my bf where over :( any ways and in school we did some shit and all that and one day my mate got my phone and txt him some shit and me and him where over as well and I was :mad: and sad and well with in a month or more I was going out with this girl and me and her where getting on and one day he asked me to go with him some where and I did and he tried kissing me and I said no and said that I was going out with some one and I felt bad about that and some time after some one told everyone me and him went out and that I was bi I said yes to any one who asked me if I was bi but not to going out with him because he told everyone we was not and I did not what for him what happened to me and still happens to me with people saying shit about me and all that but sorry is im going every where but I need to ask how I can talk to him because i don't talk to him so people don't start on him and if he try's kissing me and i just want to know if im doing the best thing or a bad thing .......well if any one wants to talk to me about it then pm me or just comment any ways see yer .ps if you all want to tell your storeys it may help some people and maybe me and if u do ill try my best to help you out but can some one help me out see yer all soon i hope

[Brice]

Its always best to tell the truth, no matter who it offends. The truth is something people need to hear. You never know who you could be inspiring that's still "in the closet." So keep telling the truth.

[From Chris]

Well it all starts with me never saying no to some one when they say I need to ask you some thing or me making a joke and I go's in to more than a joke ok well I was txting one of my mates on bbm (I don't have it any more sorry) and he said to me "soooo what u want to talk about" and I said as a joke "guys why not nice hot guys lol" and he said ok cool and I was like oh cool if you cool with that and he told me he was bi and shit but he know I had a bf at that time and with in a week or more I asked him out because me and my bf where over :( any ways and in school we did some shit and all that and one day my mate got my phone and txt him some shit and me and him where over as well and I was :mad: and sad and well with in a month or more I was going out with this girl and me and her where getting on and one day he asked me to go with him some where and I did and he tried kissing me and I said no and said that I was going out with some one and I felt bad about that and some time after some one told everyone me and him went out and that I was bi I said yes to any one who asked me if I was bi but not to going out with him because he told everyone we was not and I did not what for him what happened to me and still happens to me with people saying shit about me and all that but sorry is im going every where but I need to ask how I can talk to him because i don't talk to him so people don't start on him and if he try's kissing me and i just want to know if im doing the best thing or a bad thing .......well if any one wants to talk to me about it then pm me or just comment any ways see yer .ps if you all want to tell your storeys it may help some people and maybe me and if u do ill try my best to help you out but can some one help me out see yer all soon i hope

HI there! I think it's important to tell the truth, so if someone is spreading rumors that you're going out with that guy then simply reassure them that you are not. There isn't much you can do to stop a rumor however, so just let it run it's course. It shouldn't matter what it's saying as long as you know the truth. :) I would tell the guy you're in a relationship, and you are not looking to do anything relationship wise with him and just want to be friends.

-From Chris

[AlexOnToast]

I think the others have summed it up here, The truth should always prevail in these sort of situations, otherwise you end up getting tangled in your own web of deciet XD

[jmx100]

HI there! I think it's important to tell the truth, so if someone is spreading rumors that you're going out with that guy then simply reassure them that you are not. There isn't much you can do to stop a rumor however, so just let it run it's course. It shouldn't matter what it's saying as long as you know the truth. :) I would tell the guy you're in a relationship, and you are not looking to do anything relationship wise with him and just want to be friends.

-From Chris

hay and I know what you are saying and in my school being out is not a good thing I go to an all boy school and it may seem like a good thing but its not because most people hate gay or bi people and where im out now not many people will just walk past me like they used to they will take the piss out of me and my mate told me the way he told everyone we was not going out and he said it was like he hated me and I don't blame him because I turned him down when he was trying to ask me out the 2rd time and also because I not many people like me because im my own person and I don't let people tell me who to be but yer any way I don't want hating me any more because I told the truth I would love to tell the truth but I don't know what to do tell the truth and my be he may want to kill me or keep on hiding it :confused:

[jmx100]

HI there! I think it's important to tell the truth, so if someone is spreading rumors that you're going out with that guy then simply reassure them that you are not. There isn't much you can do to stop a rumor however, so just let it run it's course. It shouldn't matter what it's saying as long as you know the truth. :) I would tell the guy you're in a relationship, and you are not looking to do anything relationship wise with him and just want to be friends.

-From Chris

and I cant just reassure them that I did or not going out with a guy because they all know im bi now and not many people would believe that but thanks for the advise any way and well hope to talk more

[photojared]

hey dude! so yeah the others summed it up pretty well and its great advice but since you're at an all boys school it complicates to a different level, the best advice is to let the rumor run its course and find your true friends that you can hangout plus don't allow the others to get satisfaction of how you react, just be honest with people and the boy and as long as you know the truth you don't let it affect you, best of luck, hope everything goes well