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Bananas Are Amazing
January 9th, 2014, 07:26 PM
So me and my crush are on the same class, but we really don't know each other, because she's that quiet type and I'm pretty shy with girls. We've had some signs that we like each other, like watched her in the class and she has watched back and when we make eye contact both looks quickly away :rolleyes:
Today I took a move and asked her number, I noticed that not only me, but she too was pretty nervous. She asked why I want her number and laughed a little bit. Not in a bad way, she was just so nervous? Well I told her that she would probably guess why and she gave the number. I asked is it okay to call or do I send a message, and she said, again nervously, that if I'd call she wouldn't probably answer.
So I sent her a message that it would be nice to meet someday, get to know each other etc. And that's the problem (?) . She hasn't answered,
and I sent the message over 6h ago. What do you think she thinks?

And keep in mind that when I talked to her and she said se wouldn't probably answer, few of her friends were nearby, and it might be pretty awkward situation when a wild boy arrives and asks for a number. So she was very nervous. Probably more than I was.
But yeah.. If she doesn't answer should I talk to her at school, not like ask why you didn't answer to me and scare her, but like did you get my message and if she gets.. I can't find the word.. If things like get hard, u know, tell her that it's okay and tell her more about my feelings.

Hope you understand what I'm trying to say, I'm really tired. Thanks.

IcaJess
January 9th, 2014, 08:07 PM
Its seems you should relax A bit, there are many reasons as to why she couldnt reply in 6 hours. I think you should just ask her if she got your message and take it easy. (:

WeAreOneRepublic
January 10th, 2014, 03:28 AM
Agree with above, try not to over think things mate, you are only in year 9 or so. Just follow what Jess said above.