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xshanan
January 9th, 2014, 07:57 AM
Hi everybody! Could you give me some advice?

Well, I have a crush on a boy (my schoolmate), he is younger than me. He is so cool, funny, handsome, smart, arrogant(sometimes), and annoying (thats why I like him :p). Aaaaand so many girls at my school like him. My friend told me he has a crush on someone at my school (That makes me sad.)

He has a sister and his sister is my friend, she knows that I have a crush on her brother, but I think she doesn't like if I have crush on her brother. So yeah..
And anyways.. My mom and his mom are best friend :) but I never told my mom about anything I mean this crush things.

I dont know what to do.. I never talked to him because I am too shy. I've ever tried to forget him but I cant. I am getting more tired now. I want to text him but I dont know what to talk about..

Can anyone help me? :(

Sincerely,
Shanan :)x

AlexOnToast
January 9th, 2014, 08:39 AM
You could just get talking to him on FB? If you really want to make any sort of impression, just talk to him. just MAKE SURE you act like yourself, because from my experience, guys making yourself sound impressive or acting like something you arent get you nowhere...Good Luck :)

ksdnfkfr
January 9th, 2014, 09:34 AM
Sounds like you already have some advantages going between sister and mom, so you are hardly a stranger. So talk to him the same as you would anyone else. Don't Make it harder or more complected on yourself by over thinking it. It's just talking to someone.

WeAreOneRepublic
January 10th, 2014, 04:10 AM
Get your mum to organise something with both families, god way to talk and he won't know you made it for 1 purpose only. Your friends should not have a great influence if any on your relationship choices. Just become friends and then move it forward from there if things feel right, just make sure you look at things before making any irrational decisions.

ImagineRepublicCity
January 10th, 2014, 09:12 AM
You should go for it! :D
Talk to him as if he were just a friend and get to know him more. It doesn't even have to be complicated things. Just start of by saying hey and talk about recent things like maybe "Excited about school?" or "Any New Year resolutions?" Just simple things like that. Normally that branches of to other things and when you get stuck, just go onto a different question. Never say things like "Well this is awkward...ahaha..." because that'll just make it really bad. After a bit just invite him to things with a couple of mates or something. He may get the message that you like him. Also, flirt a little bit if you like. It doesn't have to be big, just little things.
Be careful though because if he does like someone else, you should do things slowly, just in case.
I hope everything goes well for you. All the best~ :D