Get my best friend to love me and date me

[Zosozeppelin99]

Im a guy and im in love with my best friend. We know eachother very well. Shes crazy , i mean this in a teasing way, and i love it, shes the most beautiful girl ive ever seen. We had been friends for almost a year and then we were best friends and i began to want to be even more than that so i finally asked her out (face to face) and i straight up told her "i love you". After a very painful WEEK of wating for her answer, she said no and i avoided her and we didnt talk for like 2 months. It felt like forever. Now, which is several months later, we are totally chill and we are besties again, but still like her. A LOT. I want to do all the cute stuff with her. Shes in my head 24/7. How can i get her love me back? I want to date her so badly!! Its what i want most. Im starting to get depressed again like last time so please reply!!!!

[Ainsleyshea]

love is different you may love her but she might love u back spend lots of time with her do lots of stuf for her if she still don't like u then it might be time to move on and feeling depressed is a state of mind blank your mund and think of other things like art aftershave boxer shorts

[ksdnfkfr]

How to you get her to do what you want?
Maybe you can put a spell on her.
Or maybe give her a love potion.
Or maybe you can hypnotize her.
I don't mean to be flippant cause I know you are in anguish,
but what I am trying to get across is that you can not get her to feel what you want.
The best thing you can do is be her bestie without trying any strategies and either
she will fall in love with you that way or not. Right now it sounds like you have a
brother sister thing going. If so, it's not that she doesn't love you but thinks of you as
a brother so romance is like ew.

[dingleberryz]

once a girl friend zones you, you have a very little chance of being able to date her, if I was you I would just move on and try to forget her as soon as possible because if not you're gonna end up develop even more feelings for her which will end up in you getting your heart broken

[chieko]

You can still do those cute stuff but you know the boundaries. It doesn't mean you can't enjoy her company anymore. If you do your best and don't give up there's a possibility that she will fall in love with you too. Don't set yourself in a misery if you know you have a chance. Obsessing about this may just drive you to depression.

However, if it is already sure that she can't love you back, I think sticking up to her is just so wrong knowing that you will not receive anything in return. You'll just get repeatedly hurt. What if she found found a boyfriend? or a guy that she really likes? I don't really mean to look at the negative side but when realization comes deeper, you'll know that pursuing someone who can't love you back just hurts and it's more painful to move on if you had already made a lot of memories with her.

You'll only get hurt at the end if you did so much and put up so much with this person. I'm sorry, but you can't make someone love you back if the feeling is not mutual. She might love you as a best-friend and that just it. I've been in your situation and the girl's situation, Well. I guess unrequited love happens all the time and happens to everyone. I know it's hard and it's not that easy. If you really loved someone it's hard to move on and just ignore things. But it's still not worth being stupid on someone who can't love you in return. If she can't really love you just remember you have a long life and there are plenty of people out there. You deserve to be loved and cherished, not just you offering the love. So help yourself and make the best move, don't regret whatever happens.