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Seemyheart
January 8th, 2014, 08:16 PM
In the past 6 months, I've sort of lost interest in actually dating someone... before that, I liked having a bf, and I liked feeling wanted and stuff, but stuff happened and it really messed me up, and I'm much better now, but now, I have lost that interest in dating... I don't know if this is normal, or if I'm just weird??
I mean, I wouldn't mind or complain if I started dating again, but it just isn't one of my top priorities anymore...
IcaJess
January 8th, 2014, 09:10 PM
Thats completely normal, it might just be a period where you're not really interested in dating until your ready for something serious. Either that or you may just not be feeling it and thats fine (:
Hollywood
January 8th, 2014, 09:17 PM
I'm going through the same thing. I used to want nothing more than a girlfriend, but now? I'm just not that interested, I'm too focused on my day-to-day life and trying to get myself on track to stop and start trying to date people. I'm just too preoccupied.

You're absolutely fine, people just go through different phases of interest, that's all :)
Seemyheart
January 8th, 2014, 09:31 PM
I'm going through the same thing. I used to want nothing more than a girlfriend, but now? I'm just not that interested, I'm too focused on my day-to-day life and trying to get myself on track to stop and start trying to date people. I'm just too preoccupied.

You're absolutely fine, people just go through different phases of interest, that's all :)

Yeah! I'm busy with my extracurricular activities I'm in, and I really am trying to get my best possible grades in school.

Thats completely normal, it might just be a period where you're not really interested in dating until your ready for something serious. Either that or you may just not be feeling it and thats fine (:

I don't think I want anything serious, I'm 15... right now, I just want easy and fun and absolutely NO DRAMA haha


Thank you for posting:)
Living For Love
January 9th, 2014, 07:31 AM
It's normal, we all go through those kinds of moments when we just feel numb and don't want another person company. Focus on what is really important for you now, and if a possible relationship comes up, go for it only if you want to and feel prepared for it. You're still pretty young, you have lots of time ahead of you.