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trid
January 8th, 2014, 03:28 PM
I find it can be a fun thing to do with people, especially if they are receptive to it. It's just odd to try to put into words, because nothing bad has happened but I just want to be sure. Are there ways that you've might've gone a bit far with the flirting?

Though I'm a bit of the blunt type when it comes to something serious, if I had to reassure someone I'm not being a pervert or I was playing and not wanting it to lead to anything physical. Just sometimes hard to pick up vibes of others when you're having too much fun with your doing.

AlexOnToast
January 8th, 2014, 03:30 PM
Meh, i'm not the flirty type...I dont wanna lead people on coz it's just cruel

trid
January 8th, 2014, 03:35 PM
It's not about leading people on so much. In a way, just fun to try to play around with words to admit to someone you think they're attractive. It's not like I do it with complete strangers. Just sorta been thinking about is, since after sometime when my low gets low and it gets built up to be social again, I can get a bit over-excited in having fun with people.

deregisterme
January 8th, 2014, 04:27 PM
I think flirting can be a bit like sarcasm, if you know that the person you're flirting (or being sarcastic) with is going to take it in the way it's meant or intended, it's fine. If you're not sure and think they might be offended, is it worth the risk. I've done both with some people and avoided it with others

scyth
January 8th, 2014, 04:41 PM
its much easier to do it with someone you know though, cause usually they would know what you mean, and if not you'd just be able to tell them you were joking.

tbh, half the time i dont know if i'm flirting or not, nor do i even know how to do it, consciously

Harley Quinn
January 8th, 2014, 06:39 PM
P101 :arrow: Relationship and Dating, a better fit there.