Is it worth waiting for her?

[Eurasian guy]

There's a girl i really like and she likes me too. She is so beautiful, funny and smart but she is also 3 years younger then me. I am 17 and she is 14, and because of the new government regulations or something she is only starting grade 9 this year, and I will be starting university this year too. And the thing is i will probably meet a lot of girl next year and my feelings for her are starting to fade away. And i'll be finished with University before the graduates high school!!!
I'll be earning some serious cash before she even finishes high school. (I'll be qualified and my mum owns an accounting firm that i will be employed into after i complete uni)


And i know 3 years doesn't sound that huge in terms of age, but i am 4 years a head of her in life. And not sure if i should keep my options open and fine someone else, or just stick with her. This is a girl i can see myself waking up to or even marrying. But maybe it's just a crush and i should move on and find someone my own age.

If you were in my place what would you do?

[Were]

okay,if you really like her and she likes you,the you can wait if she is willing to wait too,don't break her heart if she really likes you

[Blood]

If you see that your feelings are starting to fade away and that you'll get with other girls when you go to the university, break up with her. It's better to leave her now than to stay with her and wind up cheating on her. This is just advice; you're the only one who knows how much you truly like her and how long you're willing to wait.

[Romaana]

Matireial items wont mean nothing without someone to cherish you. If you really do like her wait and if you think it could progress in to something i mean at the end of the day your going to uni and theres gunna be loads of girls there shes going to high school ansd tlike wise loads of guys there. Just go with what you feel is right or at least give it a shot to see where you end up with her

[Eurasian guy]

okay,if you really like her and she likes you,the you can wait if she is willing to wait too,don't break her heart if she really likes you

The last thing i wanna do is make her sad. And i feel less for her with every morning. But i feel that i gotta do what's best for me and her. And right now i don't think that we should be together. Our lives are going into different pathways and i see her in it. But for now. I don't see a relationship.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

There's no really yes or no to this really. All you can really do is let time do it's work. If you do find other girls and your feelings begin to fade for her, then that's just that. The same applies to her too. If she starts to meet other guys and her feelings fade for you, then there's nothing you can really do. If you really love her and same goes for her, you guys will still like each other even after the couple of years.
All the best~ c:

[fordgtguy]

move on shes 4 years younger because if shes starting high school next year and youre starting university thats 4 years. I say move on shes way to young

[ksdnfkfr]

The last thing i wanna do is make her sad. And i feel less for her with every morning. But i feel that i gotta do what's best for me and her. And right now i don't think that we should be together. Our lives are going into different pathways and i see her in it. But for now. I don't see a relationship.

You just answer what I was thinking before I read this.
The age gap is going to continue getting bigger before it
gets smaller. I think you are seeing this the right way.

[Were]

The last thing i wanna do is make her sad. And i feel less for her with every morning. But i feel that i gotta do what's best for me and her. And right now i don't think that we should be together. Our lives are going into different pathways and i see her in it. But for now. I don't see a relationship.



well and good,then follow your heart and end the relationship

[Eurasian guy]

move on shes 4 years younger because if shes starting high school next year and youre starting university thats 4 years. I say move on shes way to young

She's not starting HS, in Aus it's 5 years. Her first year was my last year. Theres 3 years difference between us. I'm a bit younger then the people in my class and she is older then her class. But i know what you mean.

[Eurasian guy]

There's no really yes or no to this really. All you can really do is let time do it's work. If you do find other girls and your feelings begin to fade for her, then that's just that. The same applies to her too. If she starts to meet other guys and her feelings fade for you, then there's nothing you can really do. If you really love her and same goes for her, you guys will still like each other even after the couple of years.
All the best~ c:

Thanks for your advice. Helped in more ways then one :)

[Eurasian guy]

You just answer what I was thinking before I read this.
The age gap is going to continue getting bigger before it
gets smaller. I think you are seeing this the right way.

Thanks, yeah.

btw, nice name. It's pretty biblical =P

[fordgtguy]

She's not starting HS, in Aus it's 5 years. Her first year was my last year. Theres 3 years difference between us. I'm a bit younger then the people in my class and she is older then her class. But i know what you mean.

Oh sorry i thought i read somewhere she was starting high school, 3 years difference when she turns 18 is different but at this time i think its a little to far apart. Theres people who are married are are 10-15 years apart later on it doesent matter but now it does you know?