What to doooo

[spaz]

Ok so my girlfriend and I have been together for a while.. Well we've been technically off and on since last April. But I took her virginity in October. Somehow her 21 year old sister found out and is doing everything In her power to keep us apart. I don't know why the fuck she thinks she's in charge of my girlfriend all of a sudden but it's kind of making me mad. I don't know what to do. I honestly want to do everything in my power to make her mad. But I feel that will just make things worse. I love this girl like crazy. More than anything. Please, tell me what I should do? Or if I can do anything?

[Ainsleyshea]

tell her sister that u love her like crazy and show it she cant say no then

[spaz]

tell her sister that u love her like crazy and show it she cant say no then

That would work in a perfect world... I might try.

[workingatperfect]

There's not much you can do. Your girlfriend needs to figure out a way to handle it, it's her family.

[ImAurora]

Ainsley summed it up pretty well. You just need to prove to her sister how much you love the girl and that she's not just an object to you, since that seems to be what the sister is thinking. And also, all things considered, I wouldn't be surprised if she's been doing it with a few guys when she was your gf's age, haha

[spaz]

That's the thing, her sister was a hoe .-. So yea she was much worse than my girl is.

[workingatperfect]

What can her sister really do though? She's not her guardian I assume? Like, has she tried just telling her to fuck off and going out anyway?

[Living For Love]

Talk to your girlfriend about it. Say that her sister is really annoying you but there's nothing she can do to make you leave your girlfriend, so it's better if she just gives up.

[Blood]

Hey, Adam.

This situation really sucks. But in all honesty, if your girlfriend actually loves you and she wants the relationship to work, she's going to eventually tell her sister how she feels, and have her back off. Have you tried talking along with the sister to get her to understand how much you love your girlfriend? I hope everything works out for y'all.

[spaz]

What can her sister really do though? She's not her guardian I assume? Like, has she tried just telling her to fuck off and going out anyway?

No she is t her guardian. That's what pisses me off. But if I did that it would just add to the fire.

That's the thing is that she's told her sister countless times that neither of us want her to do what she's doing. And her sister does it anyways. It's like she's doing it just to piss us off. Me and my girlfriend have talked about it. We don't know what to do.

[RavleIncarnate]

If the sister can't realize you love your girl, she's too retarded to be able to tell you what to do in your relationship. She isn't the one you got involved with in that specil way boys and girls can get involved with, and although I understand that she wants to be protective of her kin, but she must come to if she doesn't know that this relationship between you and your girlfriend has not one thing for her to control and that she should not influence your relationship. She should be supportive of her sister's happiness.

[joejoe]

Explain to her sister why you care about her... Love her... And so on. I think that her sister would have some relief knowing that her sister is dating a "good guy".

[workingatperfect]

I don't see what's so hard about this to be honest. Her sister doesn't control her, why is she letting her? From what I can tell, she doesn't need to do anything other tell her back off and do what she wants.

But maybe I'm missing something. What exactly does her sister do to keep you apart?

[nik511881]

I don't see what's so hard about this to be honest. Her sister doesn't control her, why is she letting her? From what I can tell, she doesn't need to do anything other tell her back off and do what she wants.

But maybe I'm missing something. What exactly does her sister do to keep you apart?

@workingatperfect, she's her guardian.

K, I'm gonna try be more appropriate with my advice this time.

You should write her (your girl's sister) a letter. Girls dig letters... and it's a formal way of settling disputes. Writing her would show that you're really serious about the girl.

I may be out of line here, but, you should also see this from another angle. Maybe, the sister is jealous because she's missing out on the action (maye she's secretly into you). Maybe, the sister thinks you're irresponsible and you might get her sister pregnant. Either Way, you should totally confront her... maybe she just prejudge you.

[spaz]

@workingatperfect, she's her guardian.

K, I'm gonna try be more appropriate with my advice this time.

You should write her (your girl's sister) a letter. Girls dig letters... and it's a formal way of settling disputes. Writing her would show that you're really serious about the girl.

I may be out of line here, but, you should also see this from another angle. Maybe, the sister is jealous because she's missing out on the action (maye she's secretly into you). Maybe, the sister thinks you're irresponsible and you might get her sister pregnant. Either Way, you should totally confront her... maybe she just prejudge you.

No she's not her guardian.

To be honest I'm one of those guys that prefers to face people up front, and talk it out face to face.

But she's literally stopping my girl from leaving the house to be with me. One night, me and Maddie (my girl) were supposed to go to a friends house for a little get together. Her bitch sister decided she wanted to tag along. But drive her own car. And right when we walked out the door she pulled Maddie aside to talk to her and told me to go wait in my truck. So I did. Maddie comes over, opens the passenger door, she's in tears at this point by the way, and says Meagan (bitch sister) won't let her ride in the truck with me. So she rode with meagan. Then when we get there, we sit down for five minutes, and Meagan makes her leave and they drive off.

[Pyrotheseus]

I get that she's being ridiculous, and its unacceptable, but she just wants to protect her sister. I'm not saying that this is okay, its just her dumb way of trying to look after her. Have you tried having a conversation about this directly with her, and explaining that you understand why she does this, and that you aren't just some douche looking for a lay?

[workingatperfect]

Yeah, I still don't get the problem... How old is your girlfriend? Unless she's like 14, why can't she just be like "No, I'm riding with him, end of story." That's what I would do. Like I said, her sister isn't her guardian, so your girlfriend does NOT have to do what she says. It's really as simple as saying "No." If you show that it won't work, she'll most likely stop.