How does a fetish affect a relationship?

[Marius44]

I'm thinking of asking this girl out at school for the first time. We danced quite a lot at the Christmas dance and we had a lot of fun together during that night.

I'm really tempted to ask her out but I have a bit of a query. For a few years now, I've had a strong clothing fetish where I'm turned on by the sight and wearing of tight clothes (tights, wetsuits, etc) and I'm not sure how this will go down if I try to introduce this fetish into the relationship. My fetish has gotten to the point where I can almost not masturbate without wearing something tight or looking at people wearing things.

So, if I say to her that I have this fetish, how do you think she'll take it, and if I ask her to join in, do you think she will?

Also, is anyone in the same situation as me?

Thanks,

Marius.

[AlexOnToast]

hmmm well I would say build a relationship ffirst, then when you are both comfortable with each other, indroduce the kinks :L TBH If you are going to try introduce your fetish (or any sexual stuff really) into the relationship right at the bigging, most ikely it wont work out well :L

[Marius44]

hmmm well I would say build a relationship ffirst, then when you are both comfortable with each other, indroduce the kinks :L TBH If you are going to try introduce your fetish (or any sexual stuff really) into the relationship right at the bigging, most ikely it wont work out well :L

I'm not going to introduce it at the beginning. It will probably stay out for a few weeks, depending on how things go.

[LuckyEddy]

I disagree with this advice. Don't wait too long. Once you guys start making out, tell her she would look really sexy in something tight. If she gets mad at you, just try and play it off smooth and say Its not my fault your sexy or something along those lines. If you make it seem weird, it will be weird. If you make it seem normal, it will be normal. People are impressionable like that.

[nik511881]

you should totally not tell her about it. If your relationship with her ends in a bad way, she can tell everyone about your dirty secret. Anyway, fetishes are supposed to be kept as a secret... never tell anyone about your secrets because they can be used against you.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Well, if she does wear tight things when you are together just say she looks really nice in [insert clothing]. Your not being blunt and she might wear it more because of her feeling she looks good in them and wanting to look good for you. Just hold back with full on telling her about it until the trust is fully there, on both parties, and you feel appropriate.