What do I do?

[Arkius]

So I am not really sad about my life or anything, so don't worry about that. However, I do have a really hard time with girls. I'm not very attractive and I don't really care about that to be honest, but it seems girls do. I'm not saying all of you guys do, but just hear me out. I'm really a nerd and everything, admittedly, but I just have one question. How do you even start a relationship with a girl? It is weird because I have friends that are girls, and I do actually like some of them but they all are in relationships. It is also odd to me, I really don't like many of the girls i'm around. I thought about posting this because recently I saw this girl, she made some comments on what I was doing and I realized we had very common interests, and she was really cute but I thought "what am I going to do about it? I didn't do anything, and I don't think I could have. I just don't really get how I'm supposed to get into that kind of a relationship with a girl, since I don't really do anything that attracts girls

[chieko]

Being a nerd is not really bad at all, if you want to just go with the flow then you can be yourself for all you want. Remember that you are not born to please and be liked by everyone. Girls can like a guy for who are just they even they don't do anything. They can get attracted to you even though you don't do anything to attract them. But i think it's still better if you'll exert an effort to make yourself the best of you. If you liked your friends then you were friend-zoned, aren't you.

If you feel like you need an improvement of yourself then you should start caring and do something because its for your own good anyway. I don't know if you show or give motives that you're interested to a certain girl, it seems like you don't since you don't even know how to start a relationship. If you don't want to have a hard time with girls anymore, then try to do something. Regarding to that girl you were talking about, try to be nice to her and find out if she likes you too.

[Mohamed]

actually it sounds so great with this new girl you got to focus on your interests together .. and to answer your question most relationships start exactly as in your situation when they find things that interest both of them so I would say keep it cool as I think this is going very well for you.. good luck :-)

[nik511881]

make a Tumblr account. Girls dig that.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

make a Tumblr account. Girls dig that.
Girls do not fall in love because you have a tumblr account, they aren't that shallow.


And just be casual and ask her if she wants to hang out a place where you can do something of the common interests. And don't worry about not being that romantic, some girls find hopeless romantics cute(depending on the degree) and it can help. Use humour, make funny references but don't plan out a convo. Keep it good mate