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That1AJ
January 6th, 2014, 02:44 AM
Ok. So for the past year and a half or so I've been having these weird crazy gay sex fantasies. Some include friends,doctors, and sometimes even family(like uncles, cousins, and brothers. Never parents I'm not that messed up) So basically what I want to know is am I the only one? is there away to get rid of these fantasies? What's causing them? Is this normal or jut extremely wierd? Please help. I NEED TO KNOW!!!!

splash
January 6th, 2014, 05:18 AM
Hi there,

Don't worry! It's normal!

I was like you last year, I had so many fantasies i thought i was gay at times even though i liked girls, but obviously its surprising for you, i understand. Nowadays i get them a lot less, but whenever i do get one, i breath in for 10 seconds, then breathe out slowly, and repeat. It worked for me dozens of times!

Pulp501
January 6th, 2014, 06:33 AM
I've never had that but it's probably normal, just crazy hormones. You can dream about anything but it doesn't matter unless you act on it

marc_not_mark
January 6th, 2014, 08:54 AM
To be honest I've heard of way crazier stuff and the things you mentioned pale in comparison to them. It's totally normal and there is really nothing that no one hasn't already thought about. Internet rule 34 (google it).

ksdnfkfr
January 6th, 2014, 09:04 AM
Most everyone in puberty has crazy stuff going through their heads.

AlexOnToast
January 6th, 2014, 09:28 AM
I think its just hormones :) you'l be fine dont worry

Curious24
January 6th, 2014, 10:34 AM
How old are you. It might be your hormones.

Shadow08200
January 6th, 2014, 10:47 AM
Don't worry my friend, it's just the hormones in you that are raging. I had fantasies like that once to where I thought I was gay, but I eventually figured it out. How to get rid of them? I don't think there's really a way to get rid of them. I would say just keep yourself occupied and try not to think about it. It's completely normal, not weird.

The Dan
January 6th, 2014, 10:55 AM
You might be bi. But its most likely just your hormones going crazy so dont feel bad about it.

scyth
January 6th, 2014, 11:17 AM
Dont worry its normal, its just part of you finding out your sexual orientation. There is nothing wrong with them and most likely will go away with time. even family part of it is pretty normal. there was a report that most young men have sexual fantasies about their mother at some point during puberty. how true that is i dont know.

From Chris
January 6th, 2014, 01:02 PM
Ok. So for the past year and a half or so I've been having these weird crazy gay sex fantasies. Some include friends,doctors, and sometimes even family(like uncles, cousins, and brothers. Never parents I'm not that messed up) So basically what I want to know is am I the only one? is there away to get rid of these fantasies? What's causing them? Is this normal or jut extremely wierd? Please help. I NEED TO KNOW!!!!

It's simply just curiosity. :) I wouldn't worry about it, they'll go away in time! Many boys get curious and that comes out in different ways, such as yourself having sexual fantasies with other men. Oh, and in case you were wondering, that doesn't make you gay. :)

-From Chris

Catholic Guy
January 6th, 2014, 02:03 PM
Everyone is curious that's just your mind's way of expressing your curiosity, what you need to do is maybe explore those fantasies in someway, or just ignore them and accept they are part of growing up and will go away eventually (that one is probably the better idea).

ryanpeterson832
January 6th, 2014, 02:24 PM
It means you are going through puberty.

everlong
January 6th, 2014, 05:42 PM
Strange sexual fantasies are never abnormal, no matter how stupid, gay, or strange they are. I have tons of strange sexual fantasies, and I love them. I just don't share them with anybody.

kinger
January 6th, 2014, 07:13 PM
very normal man dont worry

Brown13
January 6th, 2014, 08:23 PM
That really is extreme but also just means that your hormones are working properly and you are just very interested/curious in sex. Whatever you do just know you are normal

hope that helped :)

saltlife2014
January 6th, 2014, 08:30 PM
Dont feel bad , im the same way.

Jtyler
January 6th, 2014, 11:30 PM
Most everyone in puberty has crazy stuff going through their heads.

^^^^

Rabbit2016
January 7th, 2014, 12:42 AM
I've had similar thoughts running through my head, your fine

mww113
January 7th, 2014, 12:45 AM
Totally normal. I don't think anyone should try to restrict their fantasies.

killerrockyroad
January 25th, 2014, 11:06 PM
Its normal it your hormones

Loca
January 26th, 2014, 08:20 AM
Hormonal Fantasy

topher3141
January 26th, 2014, 09:43 AM
these are very normal and caused by hormones

Promans
January 26th, 2014, 06:57 PM
I wanted to fuck corpses for a while. Man, puberty fucks your head.

hockeyfan
January 26th, 2014, 07:09 PM
Ok. So for the past year and a half or so I've been having these weird crazy gay sex fantasies. Some include friends,doctors, and sometimes even family(like uncles, cousins, and brothers. Never parents I'm not that messed up) So basically what I want to know is am I the only one? is there away to get rid of these fantasies? What's causing them? Is this normal or jut extremely wierd? Please help. I NEED TO KNOW!!!!

How old r u? How far r u in puberty?

Zachary G
January 26th, 2014, 07:14 PM
wow, dude. I can understand your confusion about the fantasies, but i think they are normal and related to your hormones because i am only 13/14 and have crazy things running through my head at times as well. you cant let your fantasies define you, they are just fantasies, not reality until you make them real. ya know? in time i am sure (and hoping) that they will go away.

Voodo
January 28th, 2014, 06:41 PM
i know what you mean. For me its been friends, feet and cgi before!

Liam Peter
January 29th, 2014, 08:14 AM
i know what you mean. For me its been friends, feet and cgi before!

I have the same thing but im wondering what is CGI?

blarg2011
January 29th, 2014, 10:26 AM
dunno what cgi means... lookd up in urban dictionary but there's a lot of meanings XD hahaha

anyway...

wow, dude. I can understand your confusion about the fantasies, but i think they are normal and related to your hormones because i am only 13/14 and have crazy things running through my head at times as well. you cant let your fantasies define you, they are just fantasies, not reality until you make them real. ya know? in time i am sure (and hoping) that they will go away.

u make a good point... but there'snothing wrong if they doesn't go away (excep for the family part :P) i mean... the worst that could happen is that he turns out to be gay or bi... and that isn't even a bad thing....

just don't be scared bro..