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CaliKid24
January 6th, 2014, 02:30 AM
I have a friend who I see very often, we have been best friends for a few years. He doesn't know that I am bi, but lately when we are at my house playing video games or something we will stare at each other for extended periods of time. We never discuss anything sexual between the two of us, but we do usually talk about girls. Lately I have been growing more attracted to him, but I don't know if I should bring it up. I'm not sure if there is any mutual curiosity with him or if I am just too horny lol. What should I do?

Seahawks15
January 6th, 2014, 03:33 AM
If you confess to him you could either wreck the friendship or make it stronger.

ksdnfkfr
January 6th, 2014, 03:34 AM
with you being close friends a long and and you being 18,
i think you should be able to tell him you are bi and see
where it goes from there.

kinger
January 8th, 2014, 06:21 PM
I would start by just talking about sex in general try and get a fell for what he likes and doesnt like. Then maybe ask him if he has ever thought about experimenting and see where that goes. By the time you have talked about those things you will know weather or not its a good idea to tell him your bi and attracted to him

joejoe
January 8th, 2014, 06:38 PM
If you don't feel comfortable openly talking to him about sex/bisexuality, then you could give him some hints. If he is a real friend, then he won't get upset

From Chris
January 9th, 2014, 04:15 PM
I have a friend who I see very often, we have been best friends for a few years. He doesn't know that I am bi, but lately when we are at my house playing video games or something we will stare at each other for extended periods of time. We never discuss anything sexual between the two of us, but we do usually talk about girls. Lately I have been growing more attracted to him, but I don't know if I should bring it up. I'm not sure if there is any mutual curiosity with him or if I am just too horny lol. What should I do?

Hey there CaliBoy! I would be very careful where you proceed with this topic between your friend and you. Depending on his views on the matter, it could make him worry and upset and even distance himself from you, which is not good. However it can also lean the other way, in which he accepts you and it makes your bond stronger. :) If you plan to tell him, prepare some reasons as to why you like him, how it doesn't make anything different between you two, and that you're not a different person.

-From Chris