I love my Best Friend

[Wolfie]

Last night, my friend threw this party. At about 8 we got bored and started playing Truth or Dare. I got dared to kiss my best friend (the host of the party) so in the end we did, and I really liked it. But I don't want to ask her put in case she says no and it ruins our friendship. But she seemed to like it aswell. Help!!

I am 13/14 and Male.

[The Batman]

try and be casual about it at first don't just automatically come out and say i liked kissing you just be like I had alot of fun at your party and then ask her what was her favorite part you see where I'm getting at don't come out and say just lead her to it

[byee]

Last night, my friend threw this party. At about 8 we got bored and started playing Truth or Dare. I got dared to kiss my best friend (the host of the party) so in the end we did, and I really liked it. But I don't want to ask her put in case she says no and it ruins our friendship. But she seemed to like it aswell. Help!!

I am 13/14 and Male.

Awww!!! Of course she liked it, otherwise she wouldn't have done it, silly! Even in truth or dare, if the dare is really gross, no one does it! She did it because she wanted to. So, no need to ask, it would be embarassing and awkward for both of you.

Ask her to go do something, to hang out somewhere. Forget the kiss, it was a signal that she's probably OK hanging with you. Lucky guy.

[Wolfie]

Cool, Thanks! We're both going to this party on Friday, so I could try and ask her gently maybe....? I dunno, but I want to ask her soon, unlike my last girlfriend when it took like 5 months for me to build up the courage >_<.

[Atonement]

Really, I wouldn't pursue a relationship with a best friend. If it doesn't work out, your friendship will be ruined forever. Just, my point is be certain that you could give up the friendship should it not work out.

[byee]

Cool, Thanks! We're both going to this party on Friday, so I could try and ask her gently maybe....? I dunno, but I want to ask her soon, unlike my last girlfriend when it took like 5 months for me to build up the courage >_<.


well, just enjoy the evening with her, and if it goes well, when you're getting ready to leave, suggest that you get together 'soon', and talk in the mean time to discuss the plans.

No courage is needed here, she seems to already like you. Courage is only needed when there's either ome doubt, or if you're over reaching in some way, a lot of guys think they have to ask for too much on the first try. Asking to 'get together soon' is easy! Just relax and if the evening goes well, it will seem natural, just don't ask for more!

[Mikel14]

my bestfriend likes me alot too and i wouldnt mind going out with her but i knew that would come to end eventually so i said no since we were best friends... basiclly what im saying is would you rather a best friend for the rest of your life or a girlfriend for like 8 months?

[Wolfie]

I can see what your saying, but there is this connection between us. It may sound really cheesy, but there is :P Thanks for the help guys!

[roneryasian]

My best friend likes me it's really creepy. Approach her but don't weird her out.

[GotTheGoods]

That's cool - if you liked it then I say you should just do what you feel is right.

However, I have liked good friends/best friends in the past - and I have actually dated 2 of them - for some reason I cannot develop a crush on somebody that I am not good friends with. I am now still good friends with both of those girls, so to those who say that it will ruin your friendship forever, that's absurd, as long as you continue to treat her well after the breakup. I have liked girls who are my friends who have NOT liked me, quite strongly actually - for no reason other than that they just don't have those feelings and don't want to 'ruin' the relationship. Again, I'm still great friends with them - it was awkward at first but we grew over a very short time to be great friends again.

I say that if you do like her and have any suspicion that she might like you, go for it, but do it in person or over phone and make sure that you're not too forward - let her speak and respect her decision.

Good luck!

[Gumleaf]

so to those who say that it will ruin your friendship forever, that's absurd, as long as you continue to treat her well after the breakup.

i disagree. although some times people can remain close friends afterwards, often it can result in the ruining of friendships. i've seen it happen with friends of mine. so it is important to weigh up your friendship if you are wanting more.

[Atonement]

so to those who say that it will ruin your friendship forever, that's absurd, as long as you continue to treat her well after the breakup.

This is odd, because I went out with a great friend, best friend probably and broke up with her. Now, she and I are great friends again, but also, we never really got serious anyway. We are probably best friends and maybe even better friends after it.

But, ultimately I am not saying go for it. This could really complicate a relationship and possibly ruin it. Mine almost got ruined even though it worked out in the end

[Chatsworth]

I really wouldn't know to much about it or what to do. I think I would just go with your gut man. Hope it all works out for you:D