Addicted to Masturbation

[trackostudio]

I need help to solve my problem.
I started masturbating at the age of 12, but at first, I didn't know anything about masturbation, and I did it everyday !
When I entered my 13, I realized that the thing I've done this far is called masturbating and I also read that masturbating is not good.
Since then I've tried to stop masturbating by reduces the frequency bit by bit, but still failed. My best to not masturbate is only 10 days, and after that I masturbate every 3 or 4 days.
Also I like to watch porn, started when I was 14, I watched so many porn to masturbate or sometimes I read adult stories and still working til now (15 and 8 month)
I really want to stop masturbating, BUT I don't have a strong commitment. People keep saying by making yourself busy is the best way, but that's not working for me.
My internet provider has blocked so many porn sites but still I have my favorite unblocked site....

So what do you think ? what should I do so I can quit masturbate, or at least do it once every month... or maybe year...

Thanks :)

[Seahawks15]

Keep yourself occupied with physical activities.That is what I do.

[Living For Love]

First, don't watch porn, at all costs! It makes you wanting to do it really badly. Then, whenever you feel the urge, listen to some music, get to another room of the house, go near your parents and ask them what they're doing or something, just go somewhere to keep you distracted. Good luck!

[trackostudio]

Thanks a lot guys :)
Should try it from now...

[Kochanek]

Every 3 or 4 days is far away from addiction. I am sure it is even far away from the average how often teenage boys masturbate - I guess most of them daily or even more. And masturbation does not cause any harm or illness.

You would be "addicted" in the sense of the word, if you masturbate so frequently and cannot find an end of it, so that it interferes your allday life - perhaps missing appointments or coming late and neglecting duties because of masturbating.

For me, waiting 3 or 4 days would interfere my allday life. I would be so itching horny all the time, that I would not be able to concentrate on anything.

Enjoy it, whenever you need it!

[From Chris]

I need help to solve my problem.
I started masturbating at the age of 12, but at first, I didn't know anything about masturbation, and I did it everyday !
When I entered my 13, I realized that the thing I've done this far is called masturbating and I also read that masturbating is not good.
Since then I've tried to stop masturbating by reduces the frequency bit by bit, but still failed. My best to not masturbate is only 10 days, and after that I masturbate every 3 or 4 days.
Also I like to watch porn, started when I was 14, I watched so many porn to masturbate or sometimes I read adult stories and still working til now (15 and 8 month)
I really want to stop masturbating, BUT I don't have a strong commitment. People keep saying by making yourself busy is the best way, but that's not working for me.
My internet provider has blocked so many porn sites but still I have my favorite unblocked site....

So what do you think ? what should I do so I can quit masturbate, or at least do it once every month... or maybe year...

Thanks :)

It's a tough thing to quit masturbation. I've tried it personally and couldn't do it! But i don't really think it's a bad thing if in proportion. :) Keep yourself busy, with other people, in places you can't masturbate!

-From Chris

[stormrocko]

Pretty sure about every teen boy does it frequently and nothing is proven to why it is bad for you. It's burns calories too :P

[trackostudio]

Great guys :) but I'm still curious
Does masturbation cause infertility ?
I'm pretty afraid of that...

[Harley Quinn]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: P101

[mww113]

I wouldn't worry about it. Why do you want to stop so badly? There is nothing wrong with it. And every 3-4 days is not even that frequent.

[roadwarrior]

Stop being horny all the time, and try to do other things like going outside and play with friends ...

[AlexOnToast]

It's a scietific fact that masturbation has no negative effects, in fact it has many physical and mental health benefits..... and every 3-4 days is NOT EVEN CLOSE to addiction... if you were doing it more than 3 times a day, then maybe i would consider cutting down. For a teen boy, you are actually pretty below average in terms of masturbation, the average is around 1-2 times per day. Can I ask what has made you think this??

[trackostudio]

It's a scietific fact that masturbation has no negative effects, in fact it has many physical and mental health benefits..... and every 3-4 days is NOT EVEN CLOSE to addiction... if you were doing it more than 3 times a day, then maybe i would consider cutting down. For a teen boy, you are actually pretty below average in terms of masturbation, the average is around 1-2 times per day. Can I ask what has made you think this??

Well I read some info about masturbating and they say it can bring harms to you, and my school invited a doctor, maybe a sexolog I don't know. She said that too much masturbation is not good, so I thought that 3-4 days is pretty often (._. )

[Living For Love]

Great guys :) but I'm still curious
Does masturbation cause infertility ?
I'm pretty afraid of that...

Scientifically, I think there's no known connection between masturbation and infertility issues.

[trackostudio]

Scientifically, I think there's no known connection between masturbation and infertility issues.

Phew... no worries then :)
Thanks Tiago :)

[Were]

i for one quit doing it,i always told myself that it never existed and i also avoided watching anything that would turn me on and if i did,i never thought about masterbating and after some time i even forgot about it and i have taken almost a year with out doing it

[deregisterme]

Well I read some info about masturbating and they say it can bring harms to you, and my school invited a doctor, maybe a sexolog I don't know. She said that too much masturbation is not good, so I thought that 3-4 days is pretty often (._. )

Once every few days is not much! Most of the time, I've heard guys want to give up for religious reasons or that they feel guilty. In fact masturbation apparently aids against pancreatic cancer in men as it keeps the pancreas "active"

[joejoe]

Uh.. You aren't addicted. Every 3-4 days are very low amounts of masturbation. It's completely normal, and you do not have anything to worry about

[Atempinfer]

Well.

[Hercules]

Quieting is extremely hard. I read this article http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2013/12/04/infographic-provides-stunning-look-at-pornographys-impact-and-what-happened-when-some-chose-to-give-smut-up/ and I think the website mentioned could be a help to those wanting to stop. I haven't used it, but the suite is a community of people who want to stop. It takes everything to have to stop and you have to resist the temptations.

[trackostudio]

Masturbating is great! It's not bad for you, although some (most) religions looks down on it. I myself masturbate about once everyday before going to bed, easier to sleep xD

Of course it's easier to sleep after masturbate :p
Masturbating needs energy and some say it's worth of running arround a football pitch :rolleyes:
And yes, the reason is religion...

[Sanctum]

Yeah, just try to spend your time
I dunno listen to music or do sports.

[Dark Hatred]

I realized that the thing I've done this far is called masturbating and I also read that masturbating is not good.


And that my friend, is where you are wrong.

Masturbating is GOOD. It feels good and is good for you.

Reasons:
1. Refreshes the semen

Various researches have suggested that ejaculation helps sperm count and motility. You’re replacing old sperm with fresh ones and this is good for fertility.

2. Reduces stress

Masturbation is nothing but simulated sex and is a great stress-buster. Masturbation releases hormones like dopamine and oxytocin, which helps us feel elated. There is no better way to let off some steam and it actually helps people sleep as well.

3. Prevents sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)

The one positive aspect where masturbation scores over sex is the fact that the chances of catching STDs is zero. It’s the safest sexual practice possible.

4. Reduces chances of prostate cancer

A 2003 Australian study observed that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were less likely to develop prostate cancer. Masturbating flushes your system and prevents cancerous cells from building up.

5. Ups your game

For long masturbating has been linked to people who don’t have or can’t get sex partners. This is a gross misconception. Turns out people who masturbate more are likelier to last longer in bed. Think of it as net practice, the more you practice the better you get. This doesn't hold true only for men. Masturbating will allow women (who have a more erogenous zones) to discover their body properly, to find out what buttons to push and then tell her man how to please her. Masturbating regularly can also allow you conquer that embarrassing premature ejaculation and gain better control.



As you can see, it is VERY good for you. Masturbation cannot harm you IN ANY WAY. It doesn't effect penis growth, girth, make you go blind, grow hair on your hand, make you not last as long, it is not a "sin" if you don't do it because of religious reasons...the list goes on.



Now, go jack off.:P

[alexkun]

its perfectly normal to masturbate, just dont let it become more important than things that really matter.. like your family.. or going out with friends.. when you dont care about any of the things i mention because you just want to do it.. then you have a problem.

[Jtyler]

Pretty sure about every teen boy does it frequently and nothing is proven to why it is bad for you. It's burns calories too :P

Haha true

[nklarke]

I've quit for 2 months, first you really need to want this, you must put your head in a 5 years old body, have fun by watching cool movies. You must try to find a girlfriend (if you don't have of corse) for love not for her hotness, don't talk about sex, if someone says anything about it then just leave. Start doing sports, if you already do then do more, perhaps at home. Don't stare at yourself, don't look at your dick, the secret here is you must believe in something. I will explain the girlfriend part, you need to believe in pure love, in happiness, focuss on finding a cute girl, that cute girl that you just want to cuddle and kiss and not very much interested in having dirty sex. You will be happier if you stop, you just need to believe it. I didn't do much, I just believed I could and I did. You might have wet dreams, not to worry, your body needs to release the sperm, it will happen a couple of times. After that it will stop. Good luck!

All your text was very interesting until I read "dirty sex". Why the sex is dirty? So you were born and you exist thanks to a dirty act?

[salty]

Masturbation is a healthy part of getting to know you body. We all do it a lot. Don't worry about it

[Rapp]

i know what you mean, a great way is to get your mind off the subject, try music, or even working out, go on a run