Confused , surprised or ... ?

[MattyH]

Last Friday three good friends of mine and I had our weekly training in the sport club. After that we have the opportunity to use the local sauna in the building. I was the first in the sauna and waited for the others. After all, they came in and sat down beside me. They had all the time her towel wrapped around her hips while I sat on the towel. I noticed how they take turns over to look at me, but I thought nothing of it except why do they not put off their towels and sat on them like me. When we went to take a shower they put off their towels only in the showers and there I noticed that all three were circumcised. This was obviously embarrassing them, because they are constantly turned away from me all the time, but looked curious about my private parts if they could. They must have thought “lucky guy, still has his foreskin”. They all had the typical Germany style low and loose circumcision. It must have been done as a child to them because there were no color differences at their whole penis. I'm confused. How many are still circumcised in sports club with us? Am I the only uncircumcised? I have two sleepless nights behind with. We all go into the same class and one sits right next to me. Should I ask my parents if I could get circumcised? The thought of being the only uncircumcised makes me uncomfortable. I like circed so ... What style should I take, if I decide to get cut? The same as the ohters or another? Too many questions. I hope you can help me how to deal with the new situation.

[Ainsleyshea]

well to be honest I believe having a foreskin is better feeling wiles having a fore skin and depending on the area you live in some men or woman which you may like. foreskin or no foreskin don't mater it don't change you it you chose if you want it done go for it

[From Chris]

Last Friday three good friends of mine and I had our weekly training in the sport club. After that we have the opportunity to use the local sauna in the building. I was the first in the sauna and waited for the others. After all, they came in and sat down beside me. They had all the time her towel wrapped around her hips while I sat on the towel. I noticed how they take turns over to look at me, but I thought nothing of it except why do they not put off their towels and sat on them like me. When we went to take a shower they put off their towels only in the showers and there I noticed that all three were circumcised. This was obviously embarrassing them, because they are constantly turned away from me all the time, but looked curious about my private parts if they could. They must have thought “lucky guy, still has his foreskin”. They all had the typical Germany style low and loose circumcision. It must have been done as a child to them because there were no color differences at their whole penis. I'm confused. How many are still circumcised in sports club with us? Am I the only uncircumcised? I have two sleepless nights behind with. We all go into the same class and one sits right next to me. Should I ask my parents if I could get circumcised? The thought of being the only uncircumcised makes me uncomfortable. I like circed so ... What style should I take, if I decide to get cut? The same as the ohters or another? Too many questions. I hope you can help me how to deal with the new situation.

It's completely your choice if you want to get circumsized. :) Just to blend in with others probably isn't the best reason but if it makes you more comfortable then why not? :)

-From Chris

[ksdnfkfr]

This is probably only going to be something you will care about in
your early teens, so you may not want to get something done that
will last forever. Besides you said that it seemed they were embarrassed
about being circumcised and were thinking you are lucky for having a
foreskin.

[nklarke]

Firstly, I've to say that is quite hilarious that you mentioned several times that they took turns over to look and looked curious about your private parts but you did the same stuff to see they are cut and moreover with details "there were no color differences at their whole penis" :lol::lol::lol:

Now, about your question.
I'm cut and very happy with that BUT I don't consider that you should get circumcised just because most of your friend are cut, it doesn't make sense.

You should investigate about the advantages and disadvantages and if the balance if positive then you should do it, because you consider it's better (as I consider also) but not because other people is like that.

[Shadow08200]

If you feel uncomfortable with not fitting in, then I say get circumcised. They seemed to be surprised and super curious that you had an uncircumcised penis. I am uncut, but most of my friends are cut. I don't worry about, and I don't think you should either.

It's a really silly reason to get cut because your friends are cut. Are you happy being uncircumcised?

I can't say if you're the only one uncircumcised in your sports club, but more than likely there are a few that are just like you.

[AlexOnToast]

Last Friday three good friends of mine and I had our weekly training in the sport club. After that we have the opportunity to use the local sauna in the building. I was the first in the sauna and waited for the others. After all, they came in and sat down beside me. They had all the time her towel wrapped around her hips while I sat on the towel. I noticed how they take turns over to look at me, but I thought nothing of it except why do they not put off their towels and sat on them like me. When we went to take a shower they put off their towels only in the showers and there I noticed that all three were circumcised. This was obviously embarrassing them, because they are constantly turned away from me all the time, but looked curious about my private parts if they could. They must have thought “lucky guy, still has his foreskin”. They all had the typical Germany style low and loose circumcision. It must have been done as a child to them because there were no color differences at their whole penis. I'm confused. How many are still circumcised in sports club with us? Am I the only uncircumcised? I have two sleepless nights behind with. We all go into the same class and one sits right next to me. Should I ask my parents if I could get circumcised? The thought of being the only uncircumcised makes me uncomfortable. I like circed so ... What style should I take, if I decide to get cut? The same as the ohters or another? Too many questions. I hope you can help me how to deal with the new situation.

Well I would really encourage you not to, I can see you regretting it in the future...especially if it's just to Fit In.....consider the fact that you will be sacrificing a lot of pleasure sense neves and the head will become dryer and less sensitive. You are lucky to have been left intact, not all of us had that privelage. And by the sounds of it, you're classmates dont think of youre foreskin in a bad way :) Remember to think VERY, VERY carefully, because you cannot get your foreskin back, once it's gone, it's gone forever. And also consider the fact that in many european countries, including Germany, a Doctor can't perform a circumcision without a valid medical reason.... Please be wise and don't do something you will regret. Hope i could help :)

[Catholic Guy]

I would say just because they are circumcised and you aren't that's no reason for you to change, perhaps you should tell them that you are completely comfortable and it's no reason for them to be embarrassed and they can feel free to open up and be naked around you. Obviously if you are up for it you can tell them that they can come and have a look at your dick and it's not a big deal to you. Otherwise you should just tell them you don't mind being different to them and they can get naked around you, you don't mind, the main thing is don't change because you are different, embrace it and show off about it a little, don't be afraid of being different you are still the same person with or without a foreskin, it doesn't change you at all!

[Green Arrow]

Just because it seems like you're the only one, I doubt you are. You shouldn't have to change something like that just to "fit in" with everyone else. Don't make a decision that you'll regret because you can't stick your foreskin back on with glue!

[Brown13]

I don't really see a reason to get circumcised. Fitting in means you are like everyone else and i always believe that you should be yourself and do things because you want to and not because you are influenced by the people around you to do so. I cannot make the decision for you but even as a circumcised male i strongly suggest against it

[Luke91]

I chose to be circumcised when I was 13. I will admit that my main reason was that I did not like the way I looked compared to my cut friends. I was one of only 2 boys in my class that had a foreskin. Once I asked my parents if I could get circumcised, it was done and I love the results. I love everything about being cut and the pain was truly not that bad at all. I have no regrets and I would never want a foreskin back. If you like the idea of being circumcised I would encourage you to go for it and not wait. If you are comfortable with talking about it with your friends, you could ask them how they like not having a foreskin. I agree with the person that said it sounds like you looked then over pretty good. They probably would be willing to talk about what the advantages of being cut.

[AlexOnToast]

I chose to be circumcised when I was 13. I will admit that my main reason was that I did not like the way I looked compared to my cut friends. I was one of only 2 boys in my class that had a foreskin. Once I asked my parents if I could get circumcised, it was done and I love the results. I love everything about being cut and the pain was truly not that bad at all. I have no regrets and I would never want a foreskin back. If you like the idea of being circumcised I would encourage you to go for it and not wait. If you are comfortable with talking about it with your friends, you could ask them how they like not having a foreskin. I agree with the person that said it sounds like you looked then over pretty good. They probably would be willing to talk about what the advantages of being cut.
I dont think it's fair to tell him to "Not Wait".....nobody should ever rush into a serious decision like that without careful thought and condieration

[Pulp501]

Well nowadays most places in the world, doctors will recommend circumcision at birth. There isn't anything wrong with your penis either way, no one will care. I wouldn't get cut unless you think you really need to, not just because your friends are, I seriously doubt they are jealous or think any less of you for not being cut.

[deregisterme]

I dont think it's fair to tell him to "Not Wait".....nobody should ever rush into a serious decision like that without careful thought and condieration

I agree with this. There's no maximum age limit to get circumcised, and no real way of going back. Unless there is a medical reason to do it quickly, it is down to personal choice, and I wouldn't force someone to one decision or the other. The other people looking at the OP (original Poster) may have been curious as they were used to being cut.