Caboose133
January 5th, 2014, 08:48 PM
Alright, well, I have this problem with a girl. We met about a year and a half ago in school. She made the first move and asked me to the movies. We went and I made an idiot out of myself and didnt do anything like hold her hand. Anyways, iver the next school year we got reallyclose, and when we first started talking I did want to date her. She has never had a boyfriend before and didnt really want to date in highschool I proposed we try something in between dating. It didnt work out because neither of us were really satiafied with it. Anyways, we kept on becoming closer and closer. Then during sophmore year we became like bestfriends. I had never really liked her or wanted to date her that much but now I really wanted to date her. We had a few fights about it but she always said she didnt see me that way. Anyways, during our fighta I had confided in a friend of mine about how much I liked this girl. Well, later on he asked her to the movies and wanted to date her too. This girl really liked him and such, so I got really jealous. I triwd to drop her, because it really hurt to see her with someone else. But we just started talking again. So we had a few more fights and then I finally thought I was for sure friendzoned because she started to talk to me about him. And she always talked about how boring he was to talk too. I figured out the only real reason she liked him is because hes nice to her. Which, on several occasions she has told me Im much more fun to talk to and just as nice. Well, a few weeks ago I asked her if she wanted to go to Winter Ball and she said no. Then later on she said that guy had a surprise for her and she was pretty sure he was going to ask her to Winter Ball. She promised me she would say no, but the next day when he asked she said yes. This pissed me off beyond belief and I confronted him. I told him I felt like he had stabbed me in the back and all he said was that he knew that and didnt care. I told her what he said but she just made excuses for him. So, a few weeks later she asked me to a dance and said that if she went with me, he would probably back off. So we went and had a good time. The next few days she asked me to her house to watch movies and we cuddled and all that stuff. Then after school one day she kissed me. I asked her if she wanted to date and she said not yet, but told me to tell the other guy that we had been talking... Well I did, but then she said she still wasnt sure she wanted to date, and really liked both of us. Well, we fought about it a few more times, and she told me she felt like I didnt fit into her family. But after that she asked me if I wanted to come with her during Spring Break to visit her family -_-. Anyways, she finally just told me she wasnt going to date either one of us and just wanted to be alone. But, then she told me things change and she might change her mind. Important things to add before I go on, she asked me to be her walking partner for graduation and wants to go on our senior trip together. We talj all the time it seems like, too. So, what are your guys opinions? Whats her problem? I still want to date her but dont know where to go from... What should I do or say?