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amsbc
January 5th, 2014, 03:59 PM
Im 16 yr old male and there a boy who I have loved for such a long time, he knows i 'like' but he doesn't know that I really really love him, i've asked friends what I should do some just say get over him some say, 'experiment' by hugging him or kissing him when he's at mine or whatever, but I don't want him to absolutely hate me if like he's doesn't at all like guys, on the other hand if he does like...'kiss me back' or 'hug me back' then it would be the best day of my life, some people have also said it would be good to just tell him how much i actually do love him, dunno what to do

sqishy
January 5th, 2014, 04:05 PM
Find out if he is gay/bi or not,

sherlock
January 5th, 2014, 04:19 PM
listen to ye m8s then speak to him or try making a move im sure its fine

MortimerB
January 5th, 2014, 06:03 PM
It's a pickle but I would not proceed before I knew his sexuality. As recommended by CTL; Find out what his preferences are and if he's open - well, maybe kiss him on the cheek. By the way, does he know that you're a homo- or bisexual?

amsbc
January 5th, 2014, 06:11 PM
He knows I like guys yes, and he's fine with it

Hermes96
January 5th, 2014, 07:40 PM
the only thing i could suggest is that you should talk to him say that you like him if he's a true friend he should be flattered not offended believe me i was in the same boat i tried and it worked out quite well

Brown13
January 5th, 2014, 10:55 PM
As an alternative to what the other guys said, you could always just hint at it just by hugs and jokes. You could also have him over and try getting the two of you in the 'experimenting' mood and see his reaction. That seems to work for me.

workingatperfect
January 5th, 2014, 11:37 PM
If you know him well enough to "love" him, surely he's given some sort of inclination in the past as to what his sexuality is... You could always ask him (when you're not around others) if he's ever been curious about guys. It's not nearly as straight forward as asking if he's gay.

joejoe
January 5th, 2014, 11:43 PM
First, find out if he is interested in guys. If he is, then you have a shot!

austeen2
January 6th, 2014, 03:52 AM
THIS IS THE SAME SITUATION IM IN. I THINK About him all day and dont know how to approach him :(