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Ainsleyshea
January 5th, 2014, 03:47 PM
I know im bisexual but how to tell people I don't want to be judgedby other people well I will I know but I want to come out but im scared and for me to admit im scared that a step in the right way
Seahawks15
January 5th, 2014, 04:46 PM
Me too,I'm scared people will judge me
ImagineRepublicCity
January 5th, 2014, 08:04 PM
Unfortunately, it does happen. There are some people which do dislike Bi, Gay, Lesbians, you name it but that's why you have to come out strong. :D
From what all my friends says and stuff, it somehow just pops up in their conversation and then they're just like "Yeah, I'm bi. What of it?"
So they put it out in a very casual way. I think if you make a big deal of it people will be more "URGH" about it (I can't find the right words) but all the best for the both of you and I hope everything goes well. c:
casey_2014
January 5th, 2014, 08:12 PM
don't worry I'm in the same kind of situation
Brown13
January 5th, 2014, 11:30 PM
There will always be those people who make you feel scared to come out but once you realize that you dont care about what they think and that you are just being you, you gain confidence and stop caring how those unimportant people feel about you.
The best way to do it is gradually i guess. Tell only your closest people then moving on to more and more people. Don't try to force it. Make it casual so you don't feel awkard saying it to people
hockeyfan
January 6th, 2014, 12:21 AM
Ppl that care won't judge
From Chris
January 9th, 2014, 06:06 PM
I know im bisexual but how to tell people I don't want to be judgedby other people well I will I know but I want to come out but im scared and for me to admit im scared that a step in the right way
Unfortunately, with the act of coming out of the closet, you will have to be prepared to face some opinions are judgement. But it's important not to care what others think! As long as you accept yourself, that is all that matters. :) I think it's important that when you come out to people, you should reassure them you are the same person and this doesn't change anything between you and them. Good luck!
-From Chris
ksdnfkfr
January 9th, 2014, 07:28 PM
I personally see no advantage in coming out at a young age
MarcPierre
January 15th, 2014, 01:24 AM
It's very easily to say the for Example first you can say how can i help you sir.
AlexOnToast
January 15th, 2014, 05:45 AM
Unfortunately, it does happen. There are some people which do dislike Bi, Gay, Lesbians, you name it but that's why you have to come out strong. :D
From what all my friends says and stuff, it somehow just pops up in their conversation and then they're just like "Yeah, I'm bi. What of it?"
So they put it out in a very casual way. I think if you make a big deal of it people will be more "URGH" about it (I can't find the right words) but all the best for the both of you and I hope everything goes well. c:
^ this is great advice
Carson99
January 17th, 2014, 08:29 PM
Why is it necessary to make any public announcements? It is a personal preference, a part of you, not a label that you need to hang on yourself. If how others might feel worries you, then don't make it public. Just find friends, act on your preferences, live your life. If you want, have friendships and hookups (privately) with who you want to.
Seems like you are listening to others too much. Is it ever necessary to come out?
Lost in the Echo
January 18th, 2014, 05:36 AM
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