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DarknessUnicorn
January 5th, 2014, 05:01 AM
I feel like complete shit... I feel worthless and stupid and selfish and I don't even want to live with myself anymore. I'm not usually like this, in fact I've never felt like this. I need to talk to someone. Things are getting to me. They never used to, I'd just put a smile on my face and act like I'm happy. I've brainwashed myself into doing this. I'm actually thinking about other things while I'm typing this, half of me feels fine. Outside I feel fine. But way deep inside I'm screaming and I don't know what to do... Help me please...

Loca
January 5th, 2014, 05:16 AM
Well, take a deep breath. Think about all of ur gud characteristic s. Think about what makes u unique. I'm sad to say that this is a mood swing or summat. Puberty strikes again. Just hill talk to someone. U can PM or Vm me if u need to talk to someone. Think if u end this, ur life, about all the thing

EmmaJane
January 5th, 2014, 12:18 PM
^^ I agree with this. Take a deep breath and think about why you are still here, what makes you unique and different from everyone else. I recommend if you are feeling bad to talk to someone close to you whether it be family or a close friend it will help trust.

Green Arrow
January 5th, 2014, 12:53 PM
I would recommend listening to music that makes you calm and takes you away from what's going on. :)

DarknessUnicorn
January 5th, 2014, 09:06 PM
Thanks guys >.<

RavleIncarnate
January 5th, 2014, 09:14 PM
I think you may suffer from depression. I used to, but my confidante helped me get out of it.

Nombrak
January 5th, 2014, 09:35 PM
hi am nombrak hw a u

DarknessUnicorn
January 6th, 2014, 11:05 PM
I think you may suffer from depression. I used to, but my confidante helped me get out of it.
Damn, really hope I'm not. But I never felt like that before... I'm usually pretty happy in general.

Nombrak I'll leave you a VM o3o

RavleIncarnate
January 8th, 2014, 02:09 PM
Being quite happy on average is a very good sign, in more ways than one. I also have done the "just smile" tactic, it worked for a while, but not that much when I used it a lot. Because of that, I also learned to hide feelings really well. It helped a lottle, but not always. Try to keep a good attitude and outlook on life. Nothing lasts forever, just keep it up and it'll end.

etfboy
January 9th, 2014, 09:22 AM
Dont be sad im here for you im a fuck up just like you. iloveyou

AlexOnToast
January 9th, 2014, 09:33 AM
Damn, really hope I'm not. But I never felt like that before... I'm usually pretty happy in general.

Nombrak I'll leave you a VM o3o
Ive been exactly the same lately....Talking to people was my medicine :) Im here if you need me :)

DarknessUnicorn
January 9th, 2014, 07:55 PM
Thanks guys ^-^ I still get into these 'moods' sometimes but they've been generally better

TruthHunter
January 13th, 2014, 01:24 PM
I think that a great part of human development comes from crisis, situations in which the usual resolution mechanisms aren't enough - so we develop new ones.
At least with me, it helps to think about the causes/factors of my sadness and then check if are them worth of emotional feelings/things like these (or try to solve the causes).
It may be also useful to think "outside the box". It's natural to us to take our attention to our interests, things around us and our reactions to them (feelings, plans, anxiety...) - inside of the box - , what makes us to forget about directing our attention to existence at all. Considering it is very helpful.
Through pain we get mature and learn a lot of things, like leading with our emotions and urges, which aren't there with the purpose of making our lives awful, but for survival, protection, reaction, reproduction and perception reasons - so, if correcly lead, our lifes can be awesome :D