Am I the only person worried?

[Polo2847]

I notice a bunch of guys on Virtual Teen saying that they're 17, 18, 19, and they're still a virgin, haven't got a girlfriend yet, or/and haven't had their first kiss yet. Do you guys ever worry you'll end up as the "40-year old virgin" guy? Haha, funny question but I sometimes think about it. :D

[mrmee]

I'm 14, but I've never had a hard time getting girls, so I'm not worried :)

[Curious24]

No I am 18 and I am not worried. One day it will happen. I am a shy guy and girls have never had an intrest in me so one day when we all mature more I know it will happen. I have kissed girls and a guy before.

[Were]

no i don't,am waiting for the right time and besides i have a number of opportunities but i don't do it and i have had girl friends

[Pulp501]

I'm only 16 but I am worried because I'm pretty unattractive and not very interesting.

[Synyster Shadows]

I'm not worry, even if I'm just 14-going-on-15 because my girlfriend lives 3,000 miles away but I know that we'll probably end up having sex at least once when we meet in person

[ryanpeterson832]

Yes but whatever if that is what happens, thats what happens.

[Steven1]

Meh, it doesn't bother me. Relationships and sex is one of those things to me where if it happen then it happens, if it doesn't then it doesn't. There's more important things.

[NeuroTiger]

For the moment, it's not a priority!
Later on, obviously, there'll be the need to make another stage in life! ;)

[Brown13]

I dont feel the need to worry because i truly believe everyone will eventually find someone special enough

[MortimerB]

Got a girlfriend right now and a lot of girls seem to like me. Not so worried about my future! 17 years old by the way.

[From Chris]

I notice a bunch of guys on Virtual Teen saying that they're 17, 18, 19, and they're still a virgin, haven't got a girlfriend yet, or/and haven't had their first kiss yet. Do you guys ever worry you'll end up as the "40-year old virgin" guy? Haha, funny question but I sometimes think about it. :D

I think there is a large portion of people on VT that have had sexual activities younger than 18, but that's hardly the case in real life in most places. You can't judge someone's future sexual or relationships based on their lack of teen exploitation to sexual activities. :)

-From Chris

[Rabbit2016]

Up until about a year ago I thought I would never get a girl or kiss one, until one changed my life :D

[joejoe]

Lol, relationships can sneak up on you when you arent expecting it..!

[jam98]

I've never had a girlfriend or done anything before but that is because there isn't really a big thing about going out with someone in the UK until you're 16, because sex and stuff is illegal before that age anyway

[Shadow08200]

They might be waiting for the right opportunity. You don't always need to have sex before you're 18-20. I haven't had sex, had a girlfriend or two, but i'm really not worried about being this "40-year old virgin".

[scyth]

Well yeah i am on of those 16 year olds that have never even been kissed yet, but to be honest i dont think i'll care if im a 40 year old virgin as long as i can get into a relationship with a girl i like.
a few girls have asked me out, ( not many granted ) but i've always turned them down, because i usually dont really know them and i like a girl already and have been trying to get her for the past year, and now she finally seems to be coming round, but no i dont really worry about, to me there are more important things to worry about, family and friends for example would be top of my list. people less fortunate than me would be more important than that at the moment tbh

[Cromm]

I've said it before and I'll say it again: Virginity is as antiquated a concept as phrenology!
The very existence of this concept is toxic.

If you're 16, or 25, or even 40, what does it matter if you've never had sex? Does that fact, in and of itself, say absolutely anything about you as a human being? NO. It does not.

"The 40y/o Virgin" was a comedy. The main character was clueless about things that any adult should know, regardless of the status of their 'virginity'. Hence the comedy. But it's core concept (IE: that something must be wrong with a guy who hasn't had sex yet) permeates the realm of satire and into normal everyday life. It's wrong and I really wish it could stop.

Virgin? Non-virgin? Don't stress. It's shouldn't be a big deal.


~CC

[dontfiguremeout]

Umm, I'm not some jerk guy who goes to girl after girl wanting sex, kissing up girls. I actually take my time to go find a girl who fits all of my standards. Just because I haven't had sex doesn't mean I'm going to be a 40 year old virgin. I actually care about who I'm going to do it with, and I only want to do it with one special girl whom I married and enjoy this special moment, and not waste it on some girl I'll never talk to like most teenage horny dudes.

[Brian_Stevenson]

i get the bitches

[everlong]

I'm just 13, so I have plenty of time to find a girlfriend and shit.

[Green Arrow]

No, I admire the people on here who're waiting for the right person to lose their virginity with. I lost mine with a person who I thought was my friend and turned ugly afterwards. It is probably one of my biggest mistakes I've ever made in my entire life.

[Polo2847]

i get the bitches

You're really rude and disrespectful dude. Not cool to call a girl a 'bitch'.

[thisguy505]

Personally no, I've already made out with a couple girls but they were people i genuinely liked and enjoyed being with, I take the same attitude with sex. For me it isn't as much if it will happen, but when it does, is it the right girl.

[Polo2847]

Personally no, I've already made out with a couple girls but they were people i genuinely liked and enjoyed being with, I take the same attitude with sex. For me it isn't as much if it will happen, but when it does, is it the right girl.

So for you, it didn't have to be with one specific girl that you would be in a relationship with? It's just if a friend that you're comfortable with wants to do it, you just go along?

[ShoeHead]

im 15 and i have had sex before with one girl but i would never force them into it. ive had a few gf but i would never force them unlesss they wanted to

[AlexOnToast]

It really just goes by the person. Everyone gets some eventually :)

[everlong]

I'm only 13, so I have plenty of time to meet that special someone! :D

[Fanta_Lover44]

I'm 15, I'm honestly not worried about having a relationship at my age, I don't really need it, however its your opinion. And I'm never with someone just for sex.

[JollyToes]

That's def a cool decision if you decide to wait. There is nothing wrong with making a choice and sticking to it.

[Fireangel]

No I am 18 and I am not worried. One day it will happen. I am a shy guy and girls have never had an intrest in me so one day when we all mature more I know it will happen. I have kissed girls and a guy before.

I am totally agree with you.

[Fireangel]

I'm just 13, so I have plenty of time to find a girlfriend and shit.

I am agree.

[Fireangel]

I'm 15, I'm honestly not worried about having a relationship at my age, I don't really need it, however its your opinion. And I'm never with someone just for sex.

I think the same.

[Zachary G]

What is there really to worry about? There is someone out here for everyone and all things come in their own time -- at least this is what I am told and what I wish to believe. :confused:

[Fireangel]

Why hurry? There is plenty of time yet. For Now you have to enjoy childhood and youth with family and doing productive things. Sex and girls can wait till we mature.

[TheWaterPrince]

I was 15 before I ever really had a girlfriend and I just kind of see having a relationship as an eventual thing. If I have one then good and if not it'll happen eventually. I think being around our age is a little to early to be worrying about serious relationships.