Unsafe/safe older man?

[Shannonsmith]

Ok so I met this guy when I was around 14 and I am 17 now and there is a seven year age gap between us, he was like a teacher towards me and then I quit, and he is still in the same job. We started talking online when I had quit, and we often talk now. I thought of us as friends, and he gave me advice on little things, so I never thought of him as possible boyfriend or anything, plus he is 7 years older than me so I always thought it would be weird.
Anyway we get to talking and then out of the blue he starts talking about sex like in real detail, and at first I was really disturbed and creeped out cause I haven't seen him in like a year and didn't think he was into anything like what he was saying. He kept asking me questions about what I would like so I tried to stop him but he just continued and I was feeling very very uncomfortable, and I didn't know what to do, so I kind of just ignored him and didn't talk to him, now he keeps messaging me even though it says I'm not online.
I don't really want to stop completely talking to him cause I kind of thought of him as like an older brother, and I really liked how we were friends before.
I don't know what to do, is he being way too creepy?

[Meganium]

Yeah...you may want to keep your distance from this point on. It could get pretty dangerous. If you suddenly feel uncomfortable for something unusual like what he said, then stay away.

[thelonelyassassin]

I agree with Branden, he sounds like the kind of person you'd want to stay away from. If he's making you feel uncomfortable, that's not good. Have you spoken to him about it? You don't think about him in a boyfriend way, and you don't like the way that he speaks to you, so he should respect that and stop discussing things like that around you. If you've talked to him about it and nothing's changed, he's being a jerk about it. And the constant messaging thing sounds quite creepy.

It can be hard to break off a relationship with someone when you used to be close with them, but it honestly might be for the best.

[ksdnfkfr]

The minute he started with the sex stuff his being like a big brother teacher went right out the window. Now he is just a creeper

[chieko]

You're talking online, yes? If its about your safety, you can just block him. Simple as that. I don't really want to judge him since you're the one who knows him better than us but he just seems to be like a creeper trying to hit on a girl. If you had a good friendship with him over the past, let it just stay in the past. People change~ You can't enjoy the same things anymore now that you feel uncomfortable.

[IcaJess]

Everyone is right, that can be pretty dangerous just ignore him.

By the sounds of it thats well enough to get him in trouble witht the law.

[EmmaJane]

Yeah...you may want to keep your distance from this point on. It could get pretty dangerous. If you suddenly feel uncomfortable for something unusual like what he said, then stay away.
I agree with you. It's best she keeps her distance.

[Second Chance]

The minute he started with the sex stuff his being like a big brother teacher went right out the window. Now he is just a creeper

I agree with this post and the other ones totally, and you should avoid this guy like the plague. Clearly, the guy is only now interested in you for your body whereas when you were younger you probably did not appeal to him sexually. I know it is easier said than done to stay away from this guy especially since he was probably nice at one point. However, this older guy has shown his true colors now that you're older, and it is not safe to be around him anymore.

[Melodic]

Yup, this is total signs that you need to keep your distance. No teacher just randomly talks about what type of sex you like, even Health Teachers don't go that far.