Top vs. Bottoming

[Speedy29]

So my boyfriend and I have recently discussed the whole top and bottoming issue. We've done it with each other but he doesn't feel right topping me because im both bigger then him down there and physically in build. But i enjoy it even though I am bigger. So for all my fellow gays out there, how do you feel on this issue? Do you feel who ever is bigger MUST top or vise versa.

[nino51300]

Its totally fine ^_^ It doesn't matter who has the bigger dick, if he prefers topping and you prefer bottoming, thats a okay (:

[sdude]

There are many couples that have difficulties over this, it is not a definite whom is top or bottom and while you may feel you like it to be more passive than aggressive in your sex role, just relax and please each other the best u can and the "roles" will work themselves out....I recently had my first real "relationship" and while I was more "bottom" in that, since I have been out of it, I've been more of a top lately...love it both!

[Curious24]

Yes, I think who ever is bigger should be on top.

[From Chris]

So my boyfriend and I have recently discussed the whole top and bottoming issue. We've done it with each other but he doesn't feel right topping me because im both bigger then him down there and physically in build. But i enjoy it even though I am bigger. So for all my fellow gays out there, how do you feel on this issue? Do you feel who ever is bigger MUST top or vise versa.

Personally i don't think size matters who is the top or bottom. I think it's best judged off what is most comfortable and enjoyable for you! If you guys both like both positions then simply switch off. :) That's what i would do since i like both!

-From Chris "Your fellow gay friend"

[sieg]

do what makes both of you guys happy. roles=restrictions.

[Brown13]

Im kinda in the same position as you but the opposite. You can say im in your friends position but not 100%

[kenny89]

i always top even if the other guy is bigger

[chiisaiaoiryu]

I don't care about who's bigger or smaller when it comes to topping or bottoming. I've had sex with two guys, both ex-boyfriends and not random people. One was bigger, in body and dick, than me and the other smaller, in body and dick. Both though were tops. It ultimately doesn't matter to me; I'm fine so long as they know how to properly drill my hole. lol

[AlexOnToast]

I've suffered from this problem. I'm always the smaller person so I ended up being bottom. It's really unfair in my opinion

[Zachary G]

I say discuss it before you really get into it then just go with whatever feels natural

[Ainsleyshea]

id rather the smaller person on the top don't know y but ye

[gloverjake]

Just switch it up he can top you and you can top him. It doesn't matter whos bigger as long as you guys are both having funn

[Foxyturtle]

Just curious what type of top and bottom? Like sucking his dick? Anal or?

[deregisterme]

I've suffered from this problem. I'm always the smaller person so I ended up being bottom. It's really unfair in my opinion

Has the other person never given you the option? If you get the opportunity next time, could you not suggest that you try and be on top?

[Ariesboy]

If I was gay I would say that who ever has a bigger d!¢* should top

[Andrew2499]

It doesn't matter who's bigger.

[Gopher]

The age old roles problem, from my experiance i dont really like bottoming for people that are really small (like less than 5 inches) because i have bottomed for larger, largest being 9 inches, soo small isnt fun for me as a bottom. that being said im versatile, i enjoy both and am happy to please my partner. just talk about it, ultimately your role shouldnt be about your cock size, instead it should who is comfortable where.

[ComfortableInChaos]

You could just do it if you like topping... But size doesn't mean whether or not you can top. I could have a small dick and still be able to fuck.

[Justdance613]

I don't think it matters

[darthearth]

It does seem weird to have the bigger guy bottom if it was like a missionary position, but what about doggy? That wouldn't be weird. Not weird at all.

[sieg]

just switch off positions until it feels right. i personally like to do both.