In love with my best friend

[Zosozeppelin99]

Im a guy and im in love with my best friend. We know eachother very well. Shes crazy :), i mean this in a teasing way, and i love it, shes the most beautiful girl ive ever seen. We had been friends for almost a year and then we were best friends and i began to want to be even more than that so i finally asked her out (face to face) and i straight up told her "i love you". After a very painful WEEK of wating for her answer, she said no and i avoided her and we didnt talk for like 2 months. It felt like forever. We finally talked for the first time two days ago when we hung out at the peir (there were some other friends too). It was weird. We havent talked in person for two months and all of a sudden she was acting so comfortable with me. Too comfortable and too soon. She talked to me a lot. We took a lot of selfies. And now shes saying "ily" to me a lot over text like she always used to do. She doesnt mean it like that though. And she gave me a hug when i had to leave, even though she was soaking wet from the waves. I still like her a lot. I want to do all the cute stuff with her. Shes in my head 24/7. How can i get her love me for real? Even after all of this has happened?

[PsychoticAngel]

Bro, I know exactly how you feel right now. My position is almost identical to yours. Goodluck to you dude

[Zosozeppelin99]

Ya and you could say that i tried and failed and now this my second try. If u find out please tell me

[WeAreOneRepublic]

May have been a bit blunt telling her that you have feelings, and also, saying that she is becoming friends again too soon is weird, because you end up making it more awkward and further apart the more you delay it. You probably should have eased into telling her your feelings a bit more. She will only have feeling for you if she has them and you cannot force her to, you can be all nice and cute to her and that may help but no forcing.

[ksdnfkfr]

sounds like she liked your friendship the way it was and wants to get back to it as if nothing happened.
i guess maybe what you did was just too soon for her is all.

[Shailene]

Can see this ending o.k., not well, and terribly. Have to say it but most girls (and boys) are idiots when they are teens - caught up in themselves and superficial, and can't appreciate a nice guy/girl. Went through that stage myself. Anyhow, simply put, be honest - ask her out on a date and see how she reacts. Whiles she likes having you as a friend and probably wants to keep it that way, if she's not willing to go out on a date with you then you have your answer. It may be painful, but don't put yourself through months of torture without an answer. Good luck.

[KiyoshisIsland]

Ask her again and she what she does

[etfboy]

dude no there are 2 kinds of best/friend
someone you ask out
someone you dont
in this case you dont ask her out cause your friendship will just crumble.but hey thats just my opinion.