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Eat33
January 3rd, 2014, 04:53 PM
Hi...

This time a year ago I was best friends with one of the hottest girls I know. We were as close as a boy and girl could be without dating. But this stopped as soon as I found out that she had sex with my best mate and then lied to me about it. I haven't spoken to her since May last year but i want to become close to her again. I don't speak to him either.

How do you suggest I could become closer to her again without making it awkward?

nathansubcri
January 3rd, 2014, 05:58 PM
1. the smart thing to do is to forget about her completely cause it seems you wanted to be more than friends if her banging your friend affected you that bad.
2. If you still want to be "friends" then you've to start from the bottom (how the two of you met) plus it will be easier since you should already know what she likes

Harley Quinn
January 3rd, 2014, 06:05 PM
As with anything, communication is key. You have to rebuild a friendship, usually if you're close and you do grow apart, when you start talking again, more time than not you end up actually picking up where you left off like nothing actually changed. However, you need to repair this relationship because you were clearly affected by how she lied to you about it, which will need you two to actually talk about it, which may not be easy.

Living For Love
January 4th, 2014, 06:57 AM
Casually text her, asking how has she been doing, and if she wants to do something with you. I'm sure she hasn't forgotten the good times she spent with you in the past.