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Passenger
January 3rd, 2014, 04:44 PM
Hi

So I'm 16 and I'm trying to stop masturbating but it's really hard to stop! I get turned on by almost anything with sexual connotations and obviously this is mainly when I'm in bed and I get an erection so its really hard to resist masturbating because I know it feels soooo damn good! Hahaha. But ip after I orgasm I feel really disgusting and dirty and guilty. I really want to stop but how can I resist the urge to masturbate when I get turned on?

Thanks Danny

HiWorldItsYanna
January 3rd, 2014, 04:57 PM
It's not weird to want to stop masturbating, just not common. The best way that I can think of you to stop masturbating would be for you to think ofthe consequences after you masturbate. If you focus on that feeling afterwards instead of how good it feels, you'll not only hopefully get turned off, you won't feel the urge to madturbate.

Fallen_Eagle
January 3rd, 2014, 05:37 PM
I understand what you mean, I have similar feelings after masturbating. I feel like a pervert who really needs to just do something with his life... I'm learning myself to ignore these feelings though, and so should you. You shouldn't morally judge yourself for your bodily functions. Sexual tension exists to be released, and it doesn't matter if someone else does it or if you do it yourself, it's not unjust or unclean or anything like that. Just tug your pork and forget about the rest XD

VenezuelanGuy
January 3rd, 2014, 07:09 PM
There's a subreddit called /r/nofap. We are a community of over 80k people who wants to stop masturbating, you will find it very helpful

Your Captain
January 3rd, 2014, 07:26 PM
There was a point when I wanted to stop, but know when I look back it was a stupid idea. There was a point when I went 19 days without jizzing, even though I still masturbated all of those days

ksdnfkfr
January 3rd, 2014, 08:06 PM
To me it is a normal thing teenage boys do and just part of nature,
I don't see what there is to feel dirty or guilty about.
A good wank before bed releases stress and helps me fall asleep.

Shadow08200
January 4th, 2014, 01:53 AM
I understand that it gets difficult at what could be your peak in puberty to stop masturbating, but the urges can get to you. I'd stay away from any porn, dirty pictures, etc if you want to try to resist anything. Try to keep yourself occupied as much as possible. If you get an erection in bed, try to get on your phone and do something else or watch TV if you have one in your room.

ddbumblebee
January 4th, 2014, 03:38 AM
If you really want to stop it, do all of the above lol. Um, but you'll eventually have a wet dream or alternately come around to having to do it in the end...because you'll get blueballs, legit I'm being serious haha. Unless of course you have sex with someone? Not trying to get you down, but you have to realise it will have to be released eventually haha :)

PythonProject
January 4th, 2014, 03:44 AM
It's not weird at all, even though its uncommon.

joshmz
January 4th, 2014, 04:40 AM
Stay active. Play sports and do things to keep you occupied. Just try not to think of it too much

Chargerfan21
January 4th, 2014, 01:12 PM
Pretty much near impossible haha

Ethan
January 5th, 2014, 03:42 PM
There is no way that I could stop masturbating. I’ve never felt guilty or dirty about doing it. Why do you feel so bad?

Arsenalfan123
January 7th, 2014, 02:48 PM
Not weird and normal loads of people want to stop for doffernt reasons. Feels like sin, think their addicted, see how long they cab etc