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princess09
January 3rd, 2014, 11:07 AM
im 15, i met this guy over a dating site you could say, one that was made for teenagers like me. hes 17 hes really nice sweet funny, cool. we have so much in common. i think ive slowly fallen for him, but i dont know it would be okay to date him because of the age difference. he understands the things i tell him about my ,life and he can relate to it. he makes me feel beautiful and happy with who i am. please help me out. whats your opinions of this, what would you do. do i ask him out i really like him and think it could go somewhere. i know hes like legal for sex and all that and that is the big concern from people that know but i dont think hee would force me to do anything that i didnt want to. i know the signs ive been in a relationship like that before. the guy tryed to force me to have sex with him and i didnt want to loose my virginity. i am ready but im too young by law and so was he. but i know the signs very clear of the dangers of stuff like that please help me i dont know what to do .

Living For Love
January 3rd, 2014, 11:12 AM
The age gap isn't that big, if you two are compatible, then go for it. He can't force you to do anything you don't want to, and it would be actually nice if you could meet him in person.

Seemyheart
January 3rd, 2014, 11:15 AM
im 15, i met this guy over a dating site you could say, one that was made for teenagers like me. hes 17 hes really nice sweet funny, cool. we have so much in common. i think ive slowly fallen for him, but i dont know it would be okay to date him because of the age difference. he understands the things i tell him about my ,life and he can relate to it. he makes me feel beautiful and happy with who i am. please help me out. whats your opinions of this, what would you do. do i ask him out i really like him and think it could go somewhere. i know hes like legal for sex and all that and that is the big concern from people that know but i dont think hee would force me to do anything that i didnt want to. i know the signs ive been in a relationship like that before. the guy tryed to force me to have sex with him and i didnt want to loose my virginity. i am ready but im too young by law and so was he. but i know the signs very clear of the dangers of stuff like that please help me i dont know what to do .

In my opinion, 15 and 17 aren't that bad. You seem mature enough to know what you do and do not want in a relationship. But my advice is to be careful, I've never tried a dating site, but I've heard stories so just be careful:) (goodness I sound like my mother! Lol) anyways, I hope everything works out:) I wish you the best of luck!

Sandra Main
January 3rd, 2014, 11:18 AM
I think that age doesn't matter as long as you both are happy .
Age doesn't form a relationship. Trust, happiness can build a relationship and it can grow from there.
You only 2 years different so build on that trust and happiness. and let it grow into something beautiful. Just enjoy it some people doesn't get the chance.

princess09
January 3rd, 2014, 11:29 AM
In my opinion, 15 and 17 aren't that bad. You seem mature enough to know what you do and do not want in a relationship. But my advice is to be careful, I've never tried a dating site, but I've heard stories so just be careful:) (goodness I sound like my mother! Lol) anyways, I hope everything works out:) I wish you the best of luck!

Thankyou, yes i am completely aware of the dangers of dating sites, it wasnt an offical dating site a bit like facebook but just complete strangers. i know who hee is because weve been caming 4 weeks straight almost everyday :) Thankyou

I think that age doesn't matter as long as you both are happy .
Age doesn't form a relationship. Trust, happiness can build a relationship and it can grow from there.
You only 2 years different so build on that trust and happiness. and let it grow into something beautiful. Just enjoy it some people doesn't get the chance.
Thanks :D

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Synyster Shadows
January 3rd, 2014, 11:33 AM
If you know he's real, and you feel ready, then go for it. It seems obvious that you have strong feelings and you recognize them. Go for it.

drew6
January 3rd, 2014, 01:30 PM
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