View Full Version : Is it fine to hang out with girls more than with boys?
shyguyXDXD
January 2nd, 2014, 06:16 PM
I've been hanging out with my girl classmates than the boys. Probably because I don't really like their company and I feel more comfortable with the girls. But it affects my social relationship with the boys and they even think that I'm kinda gay-ish.
What should I do? Should I hang out wih the boys more or should I still hang out with my girl friends?
IcaJess
January 2nd, 2014, 06:23 PM
Ofcourse its fine, I know alot of guys that do and its not "gay-ish" at all. (:
As for who you hang out with thats really up to you.
PinkFloyd
January 2nd, 2014, 06:36 PM
Dude, like 95% of my friends are girls. Sure, someone called me gay once or twice, but I don't let it get to me because I'm the one getting all the action... lol :rolleyes:
Okay, my point is that of course it's fine to be friends with girls! I think they're more interesting that guys because you can't tell how a girl's mind works! It's like watching a new episode of your favorite TV show versus watching a re run of Full House from 1992!
fordgtguy
January 2nd, 2014, 06:48 PM
you must be gay
ksdnfkfr
January 2nd, 2014, 08:36 PM
Since you don't care for their company, then don't care about whatever derpy rumor they start.
Synyster Shadows
January 2nd, 2014, 08:48 PM
Hang out with whoever you want, man. Don't let them tell you who you can't hang out with.
shyguyXDXD
January 2nd, 2014, 10:43 PM
Thanks guys! I appreciate your comments. :yes:
ImagineRepublicCity
January 3rd, 2014, 12:24 AM
Whoever you hang with is no ones problem. I used to hate the girls at my old school so I would hang out with a ton of guys and yeah, some people called me a whore but I didn't particularly care. If what you do makes you happy, then keep on hanging with them. c:
Ashthefox
January 3rd, 2014, 03:40 AM
hang out with whomever you like.
Living For Love
January 3rd, 2014, 09:12 AM
Hang out with whoever you want, really, there's nothing wrong with you if you appreciate girls' company more than guys' company. And hanging out with girls definitely doesn't make you gay.
ausley
January 3rd, 2014, 09:44 AM
Dude its fine just hangout with people you like have interests with and want to be around boy or girl. I used to hangout with a lot of girls too but now with more boys and it doesn't really make a difference, just doing different things
hermanthefish
January 3rd, 2014, 10:11 AM
Thats totally fine! Most of my friends are girls, and I only hang out with a few guys. I just enjoy their company better and, honestly, they're not as weird as most of the guys in my class.
ArtemisLianCrock
January 3rd, 2014, 10:57 AM
Hang out with whoever you want. I have more guy friends than girls.
EmmaJane
January 4th, 2014, 04:28 PM
That's totally fine! I prefer to hang out with guys than girls. I find girls cause too much drama and arguments so I hang out with guys instead! So it's totally fine! Hang out with whoever you like don't let others tell you different.
joejoe
January 6th, 2014, 12:48 AM
Totally fine. People will be mean any way they can.
Danny Phantom
January 6th, 2014, 03:46 AM
People called me gay because I hung out with girls a lot too... to base something as fluid and not all that meaningful as sexuality on that one aspect is something that I couldn't fathom myself.
Prior to High School, all my friends were girls, mainly because I didn't like the stereotypical things that prepubescent boys like (didn't care for sports or sneakers or action figures although I loved cars.) I preferred Art, fashion and music so I naturally gravitated towards girls.
Going to HS, I had more in common with boys and girls but I also learned that you don't always have to have that many things in common with people to become good friends with them. All my guys friends in school are on the sports teams and love sneakers and love hooking up with girls. These are all things that I don't care much for. But putting those things aside, I still have become closer friends with a good group of guys and found that I have more internal things in common with them (which is the case with Anybody really.)
My suggestion is find a good group of guys to be friends with if you want to. You might find a life long best friend. Don't ditch the group of girls though. If they are loyal and trustworthy and make you happy, there is no point of ditching them.
DarknessUnicorn
January 6th, 2014, 05:53 AM
Pfft those guys are just trying to get on your nerves :l I've been called lesbian several times because some guys think it's weird when girls hug other girls (it really isn't though :P)
teen.jpg
January 6th, 2014, 11:06 PM
Why wouldn't it be OK?
And whatever connection people have made with this and being gay ... no. No. No. Nononono.
daniel 2014
January 7th, 2014, 01:29 AM
Same here bro your fine
Shailene
January 19th, 2014, 09:12 PM
people are going to talk shit regardless. Hang out with the people that make you happy.
AlexOnToast
January 20th, 2014, 08:36 AM
Who you choose to hang around with does not make any implications on your sexuality. I have nearly all guy friends and i'm gay. I know straight people who hang around with mostly girls. It's a cool, and those guys dont sound like the type of people you need as friends
Cjk_20
January 20th, 2014, 08:41 AM
Who you choose to hang around with does not make any implications on your sexuality. I have nearly all guy friends and i'm gay. I know straight people who hang around with mostly girls. It's a cool, and those guys dont sound like the type of people you need as friends
I agree. That does not determine your sexuality.
XZoDiaCX
January 20th, 2014, 01:35 PM
hang out with who ever you want ;) maybe you will find guys that yo ushare the same interest and you will ike them :)
Green Arrow
January 20th, 2014, 01:42 PM
Of course it's fine! I find girls easier to talk to... they hold more empathy than boys usually do. Do whatever you want, don't let those guys stop you from talking to who you want to.
JamesJB
January 20th, 2014, 01:50 PM
sounds fine dude
everlong
January 20th, 2014, 01:50 PM
Of course, why wouldn't it be?
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