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VictoriaGotaSecret
January 2nd, 2014, 12:44 PM
First, let me say they aren't crazy.

Yesterday a friend of mine was trying to talk me out of doing a really hard drug because "I have no experience" and because I said I don't care, I want to do it anyway, she cut. She sent me the picture of her fresh cut thigh and everything. Then last week I was having a panic attack so I needed to go calm myself(usually by cutting) and I told her I needed to go so I could calm myself. Because she found out I was cutting she took a bunch of pills with the intent of overdosing. Luckliy she ended up throwing them up but that doesn't matter! She took them because of me. If it weren't for me none of this would happen. If it weren't for me there wouldn't be people dying. Another friend a few months ago attempted suicide because of being bullied but she needed someone to talk to, SHE FUCKING ASKED ME 20 TIMES OVER FACEBOOK TO ANSWER HER, but I didn't I stupidly wasn't there. She says that I helped talk her out of suicide in May too, I did not, if I talked her out of it how come she was in the hospital for a week with both of her arms wrapped up because she cut them open enough to have to get put under for surgery. The same thing happened in August. I wasn't there for her.

If it wasn't for me these people and everyone else would be better off. I can't do this anymore. I think of all the ways I could do it but I am afraid to fail for the fifth time in three months. I want to die and I want everyone to have peace knowing that I am gone. I want everyone to be able to stop putting themselves through this shit because of me. I WANT IT ALL TO STOP. This isn't a suicide note but I don't know what to fucking do anymore.

carissaurus
January 2nd, 2014, 03:11 PM
Do you think suicide is the solution? Do you think killing yourself will make any of these people feel better? If you are the person they come to, then obviously they care for you. You have the power to save lives, which not many do. I think it would be a terrible mistake to commit suicide. You can't blame yourself for not answering her, and you're not a bad person for leaving your facebook on. I leave mine on all the time. You're only human. And every human has limitations. People can only do so much before they wear themselves out. Cheer up hun. xo

VictoriaGotaSecret
January 2nd, 2014, 04:32 PM
Do you think suicide is the solution? Do you think killing yourself will make any of these people feel better? If you are the person they come to, then obviously they care for you. You have the power to save lives, which not many do. I think it would be a terrible mistake to commit suicide. You can't blame yourself for not answering her, and you're not a bad person for leaving your facebook on. I leave mine on all the time. You're only human. And every human has limitations. People can only do so much before they wear themselves out. Cheer up hun. xo

Yes, I do think that. There is nothing here for me and it would stop any chance at putting people through more pain. People will forget about me. No more of my friends and the people I care for would be able to do that. They can stay and not worry what happened to me or what I will cause them to do.

Melodic
January 2nd, 2014, 05:27 PM
You know, you seem like you really care about your friends, and it seems they care about you as well or they wouldn't ask you for help. They would be sad along with other people you probably wouldn't even imagine. In times like these you and your friends should pull through this pain and struggle together and have a tighter bond then ever.

Yonkers
January 2nd, 2014, 06:56 PM
abcd

VictoriaGotaSecret
January 2nd, 2014, 09:37 PM
You know, you seem like you really care about your friends, and it seems they care about you as well or they wouldn't ask you for help. They would be sad along with other people you probably wouldn't even imagine. In times like these you and your friends should pull through this pain and struggle together and have a tighter bond then ever.

But everyone will forget about me. I'm not wanted in anyones lives and I just cause more pain and suffering for everyone that I care for.

Firstly, you have to remember that your friends were already feeling suicidal and depressed. Your actions couldn't have changed that, so how can it be your fault?

Secondly, if you chose to commit suicide, you will eliminate the possibility for you to help your friends in the future. What happens if your friends has no one to turn to because you killed yourself? Suicide will not fix the problems at hand, only eliminate the possibility of them being solved. If people have turned to you in the past, then that means they will in the future and you need to be hear to listen and help them. You must stay, not just for yourself, but for your friends as well.

But thats the thing, I never really helped them. The one who I talked about first was the one who wanted to help me. We never talk about her. And my other friend, I never truly helped her. If I did she wouldn't have been in the hospital. And we always say "I love you" or she says "look to the stars." We never talk about anything. And now that shes happy we talk about me and I don't want that. I just want to be gone and stop hurting everyone. It would be better if I left.

Yonkers
January 3rd, 2014, 05:59 AM
abcd

VictoriaGotaSecret
January 3rd, 2014, 11:48 AM
What I'm trying to say is that you can help them again in the future. Even if you didn't help when you could have, you still can should they need that help again!

I don't know what to do for them. I'm too caught up in everything that I can't try to help anyone. I've failed everyone.