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Caver
January 2nd, 2014, 08:57 AM
So basically a friend of mine and I use to talk quite a bit.
I messaged him various times in the past month and he hasn't been replying.
I checked his ask fm to see that he fancies someone.
Last night he put on facebook that he was in a relationship. I know now why I was being ignored. He chose his girlfriend/crush over me. I know I am always second best I am so annoyed and upset. He was one of the only friends I had and it's just so annoying ugh I officially genuinely dislike him with a passion. I did not even like him as in fancy because he just wasn't my type. We'd never met in person although he lived in my town. -.-
tundravortex
January 2nd, 2014, 09:17 AM
So basically a friend of mine and I use to talk quite a bit.
I messaged him various times in the past month and he hasn't been replying.
I checked his ask fm to see that he fancies someone.
Last night he put on facebook that he was in a relationship. I know now why I was being ignored. He chose his girlfriend/crush over me. I know I am always second best I am so annoyed and upset. He was one of the only friends I had and it's just so annoying ugh I officially genuinely dislike him with a passion. I did not even like him as in fancy because he just wasn't my type. We'd never met in person although he lived in my town. -.-
looks like your jealous because of the way you wrote it " He chose his girlfriend/crush over me " but i did read the part of you not fancying him tho but being second best aint that bad but than again it kinda is if you havent met in person either
Caver
January 2nd, 2014, 09:42 AM
looks like your jealous because of the way you wrote it " He chose his girlfriend/crush over me " but i did read the part of you not fancying him tho but being second best aint that bad but than again it kinda is if you havent met in person either
i'm not jealous of their relationship because anyone is better off without me but its not a reason to ignore me! nor should people favoritise their friends:l
Living For Love
January 2nd, 2014, 11:30 AM
anyone is better off without me
Don't say that. Perhaps it's because he have never met you before in person that he didn't even though about pursuing a relationship with you. Ok, you guys texted and stuff, but maybe he already knew the other girl a long time ago, and they were already good friends. The fact that he's not in a relationship, however, doesn't mean you can't be his friend, and he ignored you because he didn't want to give you fake hopes. Try to contact him again, tell him you want to be his friend and nothing else, and don't worry, you'll find someone.
Caver
January 2nd, 2014, 11:35 AM
Don't say that. Perhaps it's because he have never met you before in person that he didn't even though about pursuing a relationship with you. Ok, you guys texted and stuff, but maybe he already knew the other girl a long time ago, and they were already good friends. The fact that he's not in a relationship, however, doesn't mean you can't be his friend, and he ignored you because he didn't want to give you fake hopes. Try to contact him again, tell him you want to be his friend and nothing else, and don't worry, you'll find someone.
I said I DID NOT EVEN LIKE HIM AS IN FANCY.
i'm done.
bye.
Living For Love
January 2nd, 2014, 11:38 AM
I said I DID NOT EVEN LIKE HIM AS IN FANCY.
i'm done.
bye.
Okay, calm down, if you don't like him, what's the problem? Get past it, find other friends, and move on.
Caver
January 2nd, 2014, 11:40 AM
Okay, calm down, if you don't like him, what's the problem? Get past it, find other friends, and move on.
Don't even tell me what to do. Oh yeah, lets make some new friends like "BOOM" and I've got hundreds of friends. No, it doesn't work like that...
Living For Love
January 2nd, 2014, 11:47 AM
Don't even tell me what to do. Oh yeah, lets make some new friends like "BOOM" and I've got hundreds of friends. No, it doesn't work like that...
Omg, I'm just trying to help, alright? I know it doesn't work like that, but are you just going to hold some kind of grudge for him just because he seems to want nothing with you? NO! Why are you so mad at him anyway? You didn't even give him a chance to explain himself.
Caver
January 2nd, 2014, 11:51 AM
Omg, I'm just trying to help, alright? I know it doesn't work like that, but are you just going to hold some kind of grudge for him just because he seems to want nothing with you? NO! Why are you so mad at him anyway? You didn't even give him a chance to explain himself.
I hold a grudge because he's ignored me for ages, for no reason. How can he explain himself if he ignores me? He can't. He obviously doesn't like me ( AS A FRIEND ) thought I'd point that out again.
Living For Love
January 2nd, 2014, 11:57 AM
I hold a grudge because he's ignored me for ages, for no reason. How can he explain himself if he ignores me? He can't. He obviously doesn't like me ( AS A FRIEND ) thought I'd point that out again.
He doesn't like you as a girlfriend, and you don't see him and never have seen him as a boyfriend either. But the fact that he ignored you might not mean he doesn't like you as a friend, just that. If you want to ignore him from now on, fine, but it would still be nice if you demanded an explication from him. You still have the right to know why he ignored you.
Caver
January 2nd, 2014, 12:05 PM
He doesn't like you as a girlfriend, and you don't see him and never have seen him as a boyfriend either. But the fact that he ignored you might not mean he doesn't like you as a friend, just that. If you want to ignore him from now on, fine, but it would still be nice if you demanded an explication from him. You still have the right to know why he ignored you.
I genuinely give up now, I don't care why because deep down I know. If he wants to be a complete utter dickhead, he can feel free because it's not going to get him anywhere in life. He says hes popular, I mean that is the biggest fucking joke of the year... I await another joke on his askfm/facebook too... that's if I haven't deleted him yet. :p
earl_hun
January 2nd, 2014, 07:36 PM
I genuinely give up now, I don't care why because deep down I know. If he wants to be a complete utter dickhead, he can feel free because it's not going to get him anywhere in life. He says hes popular, I mean that is the biggest fucking joke of the year... I await another joke on his askfm/facebook too... that's if I haven't deleted him yet. :p
Found you again! Sorry, I don't want to be a creep... :)
I hate those extrapopular idiots... I had a friend... He was the same kind of, but we are still schoolmates. I helped him nights long when he was in trouble. But I never got a simple "How are you?" in return... Just try to get over him, He's an a*shole... :)
Pulp501
January 3rd, 2014, 06:00 AM
So basically a friend of mine and I use to talk quite a bit.
I messaged him various times in the past month and he hasn't been replying.
I checked his ask fm to see that he fancies someone.
Last night he put on facebook that he was in a relationship. I know now why I was being ignored. He chose his girlfriend/crush over me. I know I am always second best I am so annoyed and upset. He was one of the only friends I had and it's just so annoying ugh I officially genuinely dislike him with a passion. I did not even like him as in fancy because he just wasn't my type. We'd never met in person although he lived in my town. -.-
It will be okay, he seems like a jerk for ignoring you. Btw, you pm me and I wasn't allowed to respond but I did get it, thanks for the message, I'll have to talk more when I can PM.
Were
January 3rd, 2014, 07:16 AM
Never mind,he will realise the mistake he made and will realise your purpose in his life when he can't even find you
Cygnus
January 3rd, 2014, 03:03 PM
I genuinely give up now, I don't care why because deep down I know. If he wants to be a complete utter dickhead, he can feel free because it's not going to get him anywhere in life. He says hes popular, I mean that is the biggest fucking joke of the year... I await another joke on his askfm/facebook too... that's if I haven't deleted him yet. :p
In my humble opinion thats okay, he isn't worth your time and thoughts, don't let his life affect yours.
Alexwellace
January 3rd, 2014, 06:43 PM
Did you consider it's BECAUSE you where good friends he is ignoring you? He is now in a relationship, maybe he has been for quite a while but only just put it on Facebook. If you had a boyfriend and he was always getting texts off of a girl he says he has never met in person would it be so much of a stretch to think that you would tell him not to speak to her? When you are in a relationship, you will do anything to make the other person happy (speaking from experience), including ignoring people who where your friends. It's a horrible thing to do, but i have done it for my GF and i am sure other people have because i had to decide who meant more to me, the person i love or the person i text occasionally.
Now, you can choose to either be happy he found a girl he loves enough to choose over you or you can choose to be angry at the girl for making him. I would choose the first, but i am a positive person :)
Tdaykin877
January 3rd, 2014, 06:48 PM
He isn't worth it, just don't contact him again
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