Best friend

[shark_attack]

My best friend was over my house over Christmas, and we were sitting in my room in the Xbox playing GTA. Well he then said wouldn't it be great if something happened it be like Christmas again, I was like ahha that's odd and just carried on... So then he said something else similar then touched my crotch and started to rub, I got freaked out and pushed him off and was like I'm not gay.... So then he starts jacking himself off. I was like wtf and he got really awkward and left.... Did I do the right thing?

[jane92]

how long have you been friends?

[ksdnfkfr]

Well you did not do anything wrong, you just reacted to an unexpected situation. If you do not want to mess around with him then I think he got the message. It was just his hormones getting the better of him. If you want to still be friends, prolly best you act like nothing happened. He may act different out of embarrassment, but you can just act normal and friendly.

[Thomas01]

Yeah, you did nothing wrong.

If you felt uncomfortable or violated, then you had the right to do what you did.

[ska8er]

if u don't want to mess round-u gave him the message.
if u want to keep him as a friend explain y u got upset or
if ur interested after all of this whip urs out. if not hope
he understands.

[Catholic Guy]

Well if you felt uncomfortable then you did the right thing but you might be regretting it now and if you are just call him over and say you overreacted and you are actually interested, but the most important thing is don't do anything you don't want to

[The_Glaswegian]

You did the right thing pushing him off if you felt uncomfortable. I would have a chat with him and sorta talk it through. Chances are it's just going I be his hormones that are getting the better of him. we all have days like that

[Your Captain]

Well if your not gay and don't want it to happen then what you did was perfectly reasonable

[Lost in the Echo]

Damn, that's a bit random. But I think you should just act like nothing happened. If he tries something like this again, though, just simply tell him you're not interested.

[ryanpeterson832]

If you felt uncomfortable then that was the right thing to do.

[casperathome]

Dude this is your best friend and his hormone's were probly raging. I don't know how old you guys are but I bet he is pretty embarrassed and freaked out and thinks you hate him. If you visit here a lot then you understand that shit like this happens and you are not the only one that something like this has happened to.

Go easy with him. Have a talk and let him know that this is something you don't want to do but don't want to lose him as a friend. If you are at all interested then have him over for a sleep over and talk about it and see where it goes. You can set the limits. It's REALLY common to be super horny and curious at our age and sometimes it may make us do things which aren't quite normal.

Hell, we all j/o and I personally like to j/o with my buddies, it feels really good, and has mostly helped us bond really close. BTW I come from a really 'huggy' family and we are all close even with my stepbrothers. I like to hug and get hugged back. (mostly in private tho when we are alone,like not in the school halls and public places) I guess I consider myself to be Bi. Good luck and forgive your friend.

[Baileyy]

You did nothing wrong, if you don't want to do anything with him then you don't have to. Don't feel bad, just talk to him perhaps and tell him that you were not comfortable with what he was doing.

[RavleIncarnate]

Um...random much?

You had a right to do what you did. But still, that is really random...

[Shadow08200]

You did nothing wrong. It's seems like you were uncomfortable with what he was doing, which is totally fine. If he tries doing that again, just tell him how you feel about it.

[MattPainter]

If you felt uncomfortable you did the right thing. Just maybe let him know again of he does it again.

[nklarke]

He was SUPER horny.

I think the best thing you could do with your friend is TALK.

[NeuroTiger]

Depending on your degree of how 'angry' you were, I assumed you did the right thing.
For the sake of your friendship, talk to him kindly and be friendly with him.
He is growing up...these kind of things may happen to any teen!

[Fireangel]

My best friend was over my house over Christmas, and we were sitting in my room in the Xbox playing GTA. Well he then said wouldn't it be great if something happened it be like Christmas again, I was like ahha that's odd and just carried on... So then he said something else similar then touched my crotch and started to rub, I got freaked out and pushed him off and was like I'm not gay.... So then he starts jacking himself off. I was like wtf and he got really awkward and left.... Did I do the right thing?

It´s pretty normal for most of the teenagers, your friend got horny and just want to experimenting, that´s all. I think nothing wrong. How old are you both?

[Tdaykin877]

Just pretend like nothing happened? Best thing to do? Maybe have one conversation about it and then put it behind yous, you didn't do anything wrong

[Jtyler]

Unless he was angry you didn't do anything wrong

[GeorgeBoy]

if its OK to you ... do it

[Pulp501]

You did the right thing, he has no right to touch you without your permission, and I don't know if you jack off together ever, but that kind of adds insult to injury, if you are good friends tell him how you feel and he should understand. Hormones aren't an excuse for sexual harassment.

[From Chris]

My best friend was over my house over Christmas, and we were sitting in my room in the Xbox playing GTA. Well he then said wouldn't it be great if something happened it be like Christmas again, I was like ahha that's odd and just carried on... So then he said something else similar then touched my crotch and started to rub, I got freaked out and pushed him off and was like I'm not gay.... So then he starts jacking himself off. I was like wtf and he got really awkward and left.... Did I do the right thing?

It's up to you honestly. It's perfectly normal to experiment with other guys and not be gay! It's up to you if you think you did the right thing because it is about something that some people like to do and others don't. It doesn't make you gay either. :)

-From Chris

[Brown13]

Your response was completely appropriate. It isn't like you were prepared for that or anything

[mynameisJ]

Of course it was expected to be surprised at what just happened. You should express the discomfort & awkwardness as your response to what happened. Hope things work out between you and your friend.

[MortimerB]

I think he crossed a line. He shouldn't do something like that without your permission. And of course, wanking afterwards didn't do much good either. I think you made a good call. But perhaps it would be good for you to get a little chat with your mate, just clarify what exactly he meant by doing that and also get a chance for you to explain why you reacted as you did. Peace out.

[CRed]

You did nothing wrong.. But if you want to keep your friendship with him then you should probably talk to him about it and move past it.

[Tdaykin877]

It's up to you honestly. It's perfectly normal to experiment with other guys and not be gay! It's up to you if you think you did the right thing because it is about something that some people like to do and others don't. It doesn't make you gay either. :)

-From Chris

Totally agree with him, if totally normal to experiment if you wish and it doesn't mean your gay but you don't have to if you don't want to? And you didn't do anything wrong

[Liven]

I would've reacted the same way. You reacted normaly to a situation like that.

[KoolKid96]

Well if u're uncomfortable with it then you did the right thing by expressing yourself

[Crispybacon]

Like every other person in this post has said, you reacted normally. You were shocked and needed a chance to comprehend what was happening

[joejoe]

It's your body, you have every right to push him off of you.

[dontfiguremeout]

I would be a bit freaked out if that happened to me if it happened out of the blue. But you didn't do anything wrong, he should have said something about it before doing it.

[SkiJoey99]

If you're not comfortable being with him while he masturbates you have ever right to leave.

[curiousme]

You just did what you felt was right, not everyone likes to experiment with other guys. Some people like it, some don't maybe you could've said no in a better way so he didn't get all awkward and leave

[sdude]

Yeah, call or text him, tell him you want to talk and get it out in the open. He is likely very embarrassed and you need him to know that, while it wasn't ok for him to grab your junk (without asking first!), u want to be his friend and go from there...

[ddbumblebee]

You obviously didn't want him touching your junk so yeah, you did the right thing by you :) But like everyone else is saying, you need to talk with him :)

[lacheyman]

you did nothing wrong he shouldnt have just forced it on you he should ask

[loki2000]

Yeah..you did the right thing...its your body... if your not comfortable with him doing that ...you need to tell him that you don`t like him doing stuff like that ! And if he don`t stop...he`s not a true friend ..

[topher3141]

if you didnt want to play then yes you did.

[Stuey1]

What you did/ do is your choice

[Andrew2499]

You didn't do anything wrong, you felt uncomfortable. Talk to him and tell him why you got upset. he will probably understand.

[AlexOnToast]

I dont think either of you did anything wrong, you reacted to a situation that made you uncomfortable, and he was just probably quite horny. Nothing to get worked up about unless he tries it again, in which case you should talk with him and let him know you arent comfortable

[connorftw]

I dont think either of you did anything wrong, you reacted to a situation that made you uncomfortable, and he was just probably quite horny. Nothing to get worked up about unless he tries it again, in which case you should talk with him and let him know you arent comfortable

^thats great advice

[Cjk_20]

I would let him know that you didn't really appreciate that and if he was a good friend and you want to continue your friendship then just let him know.

[everlong]

Just pretend that nothing ever happened. Hopefully he got the message and won't do anything like that again.

[azza955]

You didn't do anything wrong, but it might be a good idea to talk to him about what happened.

[Jakie23]

Yeah you did nothing wrong. It's a naturalish human reaction to an uncomfortable situation