How important is it to you?

[Wheatley]

Hey,

I realise I may now be spamming this forum with posts (I'm sorry for that but they are legit)

How important is a relationship to you? Would you make the effort to go out and meet people in hope of one forming or would you just like to do stuff because you have to or enjoy it (school /work, after school clubs etc..) and hope that a bond forms?

In simple terms, would you make a special effort to go out and meet potential boyfriends/girlfriends or would you rather "let things flow"?

[workingatperfect]

I would not make that effort. I mean, I might turn down less offers to go out and stuff if I was feeling lonely like I wanted a boyfriend. But I wouldn't go out of my way to find one.

[Melodic]

True feelings don't come with force. I'd rather let things flow then make an obvious effort on trying to find a relationship.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Considering how much of a noob I am to relationships, it's quite important to me, but I really think I should stop forcing all these crushes to actual liking.

[Sandra Main]

True feelings don't come with force. I'd rather let things flow then make an obvious effort on trying to find a relationship.

I think Maddie said it best.
Relationship can't be forced it just needs to happen .

[ksdnfkfr]

There is no way I could make it happen, nor would i be inclined to try. Definitely go with the flow for me.

[Living For Love]

Let things flow. It's easier to handle rejection (in case it happens).

[IcaJess]

I dont go out and look for relationships, most are just spontaneous.

[Waleedbt]

I go with the flow :)

[Wheatley]

I'm actually really surprised that so many people just let it happen. I was starting to think I was lazy lol my friends try hard (and do get rejected most of the time)

[Waleedbt]

I'm actually really surprised that so many people just let it happen. I was starting to think I was lazy lol my friends try hard (and do get rejected most of the time)

Trying hard makes someone look desperate.

[fordgtguy]

im 18 had my fair share of girls and have no interest right now in any form of relationship its time to have fun not worry about that bullshit

[Synyster Shadows]

True feelings don't come with force. I'd rather let things flow then make an obvious effort on trying to find a relationship.

I agree with Madie. It's best to go with the flow. As it's been said, trying too hard makes one look desperate.

[Paladino]

If you go out and look for it and take it at the first chance you get then its probably not going to last very long, its better to just let things flow and that old saying "what ever is meant to be will be" will kick in and you'll have the right relationship when the time is right!

[LouBerry]

Hey,

I realise I may now be spamming this forum with posts (I'm sorry for that but they are legit)

How important is a relationship to you? Would you make the effort to go out and meet people in hope of one forming or would you just like to do stuff because you have to or enjoy it (school /work, after school clubs etc..) and hope that a bond forms?

In simple terms, would you make a special effort to go out and meet potential boyfriends/girlfriends or would you rather "let things flow"?

Relationships are very important to me. But not in a, "I have to be dating someone or I'm a loser and I'm going to die alone" kind of way.

I only date guys who might be husband material, and there is only one way to know that, and that's to form a relationship.

But not even just romantic relationships, but relationships between friends as well. If just gives an extra level of intimacy, and I'm a very open, trusting person. I love making friends, and I expect every single one to be a life-long best friend.

So, I guess I do make a special effort, but while doing that, I just "let things flow", if that makes any sense.

[Wheatley]

Oh yeah, of course, you need friends lol that's exactly what I'd call letting it flow.

I've seen it happen many times where people rush things and get rejected, so that's enough for me not to want to do that. And yeah, they are desperate, but then everyone here seem to be at the moment, so it's just a big shallow sesspool of "sluttiness" and 5 minute relationships

[EmmaJane]

Hey,

I realise I may now be spamming this forum with posts (I'm sorry for that but they are legit)

How important is a relationship to you? Would you make the effort to go out and meet people in hope of one forming or would you just like to do stuff because you have to or enjoy it (school /work, after school clubs etc..) and hope that a bond forms?

In simple terms, would you make a special effort to go out and meet potential boyfriends/girlfriends or would you rather "let things flow"?
Relationships are really important to me. I don't go out and look for a girlfriend/boyfriend I simply just wait for the right time I guess. I always think that one person will come along when you least expect it. I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of almost 5 months and it's getting pretty serious.

[Loca]

Atm i really need a good relationship and i need a 1st kiss. I knowbthisbsounds sad but last year was the first timeninhugged abgirl outbof my family!

[chieko]

I believe having a good relationship with someone can contribute to a healthy and happy life so it is important to me. I did honestly go out sometimes in hope that I will meet someone. i thought perhaps i could do something if the right person might be probably just standing there waiting to be found. I mean if you just do nothing, nothing will happened. If your goal is to love and to be loved, you can live and strive towards that goal. I also believe at the right time, but destiny isn't granted, it is earned. Right now, I wouldn't want to make special efforts and waste an awful lot of energy for nothing. I'm better off alone.

[kylem]

Totally depends on the situation to. You don't want to come off as desperate and creep the girl out, but you don't also want to lose her just in case you might have a chance. I've found that if it's meant to be, it will happen. If you like someone and they totally don't know you like them, then you might have to make a effort to let her know, but do it without coming off creepy.