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Wheatley
January 2nd, 2014, 03:13 AM
Hey,

How would you react if someone came over and told you that they had feelings for you? What is your sexuality?

Try in these different scenarios
1. You like-like the person
2. You like the person as a friend but wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with them
3. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around and they are kinda your type
4. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around before and they aren't your type
5. It's a complete stranger on the Internet but they are your age (or at least in your age range and not a 70 year old pervert)
6. A popular person in your school admits they like you and you don't like that person in that way
7. Same as 6 but you like the popular person
8. The "runt" of the school who no one really likes admits they love you and they fit into your type
9. Same as 8 but hes not your type.
10. Your best friend for several years confesses their love to you (of the same gender)

Thanks

workingatperfect
January 2nd, 2014, 03:25 AM
(Pretending I'm not in a relationship in order to answer these.
I'd react positively unless he creeped me out for whatever reason. I'm mostly straight..

I'd probably agree to go on a date and see how it goes for all but 5 and 10. Even if they don't seem like my type, you never know, so assuming I wasn't spoken for and they weren't a jerk or creepy, I'd go on a date with them. Then see how it goes.

5. Complete stranger? Probably tell them I don't date over the internet. (Which I guess I do as I'm in an LDR, but it's an easy way to not hurt their feelings too much)

10. I had a best friend I loved, but being with a girl wasn't satisfying. So none of my female best friends would expect anything more than friends or sex from me since they would obviously know that about me, seeing as they are my best friend. If they shared feelings with me, I'd remind them of the last time I dated a best friend and the effect it had on the friendship. Probably suggest we distance a bit for a few weeks until she got over it.

Living For Love
January 2nd, 2014, 11:11 AM
Straight-curious.

1. You like-like the person. Agree in going out.
2. You like the person as a friend but wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with them. Tell her that.
3. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around and they are kinda your type. Get to know her better.
4. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around before and they aren't your type. Still get to know her better.
5. It's a complete stranger on the Internet but they are your age (or at least in your age range and not a 70 year old pervert). Try to meet somehow.
6. A popular person in your school admits they like you and you don't like that person in that way. Be honest and tell her it wouldn't work.
7. Same as 6 but you like the popular person. Agree in going out.
8. The "runt" of the school who no one really likes admits they love you and they fit into your type. Agree in going out.
9. Same as 8 but hes not your type. Be honest and tell her it wouldn't work.
10. Your best friend for several years confesses their love to you (of the same gender). Agree in dating.

Miri
January 2nd, 2014, 04:03 PM
I'm straight.

1. You like-like the person : Agree to go out with them if they asked.

2. You like the person as a friend but wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with them : I would tell them that I see them only as a friend.

3. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around and they are kinda your type : I would probably want to get to know them better first, but if they asked me out I would probably go.

4. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around before and they aren't your type : I would want to get to know them better as well, because if you don't know someone how can you tell if they aren't your type?

5. It's a complete stranger on the Internet but they are your age (or at least in your age range and not a 70 year old pervert) : If an internet stranger professed romantic feelings towards me, I would just keep on being their online friend, but nothing more than that.

6. A popular person in your school admits they like you and you don't like that person in that way : Try and be their friend.

7. Same as 6 but you like the popular person : I'd go out with them.

8. The "runt" of the school who no one really likes admits they love you and they fit into your type : I would probably go out with them.

9. Same as 8 but hes not your type. : Try and be their friend.

10. Your best friend for several years confesses their love to you (of the same gender) : That's kind of already happened (not my best friend), and it wasn't love just an interest, but they know of my sexual orientation, so we're still friends and that's it.

Waleedbt
January 2nd, 2014, 05:57 PM
Try in these different scenarios
1. You like-like the person --- Tell her the same, and ask her out ..
2. You like the person as a friend but wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with them Tey to be honest, but im not sure how would i say it
3. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around and they are kinda your type How do i know shes my type if shes a stranger? But ill get to know her
4. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around before and they aren't your type Try to be friends, but if shes a creep .. Well ill just end the friendship slowly lol
5. It's a complete stranger on the Internet but they are your age (or at least in your age range and not a 70 year old pervert) This only depends on how much i know the person ( talked to online for how long ) and if i could, i will try and meet up
6. A popular person in your school admits they like you and you don't like that person in that way Not sure.
7. Same as 6 but you like the popular person Ask her out
8. The "runt" of the school who no one really likes admits they love you and they fit into your type I don't care about other people, but this will depend on why everyone dislikes her, but since shes my type, i will go out with her.
9. Same as 8 but hes not your type. wait!! Is this for girls!?.. Meh ill answer, ill be honest, but also be friends
10. Your best friend for several years confesses their love to you (of the same gender) Would never happen, all my guy friends text " i love you " alot though.... Lol i don't know, but ill just laugh

Edit:
10 has happened, a close friend though, and we are both straight, so its nothing to do about lol

MortimerB
January 4th, 2014, 05:57 PM
1. You like-like the person Probably kiss them.
2. You like the person as a friend but wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with them Tell them exactly that, though perhaps in a more descrete manner... If that's possible.
3. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around and they are kinda your type A stranger would have no possible reasons to like me - and I generally value wit, personality and humor above just looks. Of course, if I had somehow observed that, I might consider it.
4. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around before and they aren't your type Hmm... Tricky, probably question them why, and then politely deny them afterwards. (Deny? Harsh word. Well...)
5. It's a complete stranger on the Internet but they are your age (or at least in your age range and not a 70 year old pervert) Nopeti nope nope nope.
6. A popular person in your school admits they like you and you don't like that person in that way See number 4.
7. Same as 6 but you like the popular person See number 1.
8. The "runt" of the school who no one really likes admits they love you and they fit into your type If I know the person, I might do something about it.
9. Same as 8 but hes not your type. Say "Bugger off" as politely as possible.
10. Your best friend for several years confesses their love to you (of the same gender) Come here, you sexy beast! (No, seriously, he's hot!) I might consider it, as I am just a tiny bit bisexual but I would really need to think that through.

The Flash
January 4th, 2014, 06:18 PM
I'm bi, but I'm more emotionally attracted to guys.

1. You like-like the person- I would freak out-on the inside- and then ask them to be my boyfriend
2. You like the person as a friend but wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with them- I'd be like "aww that's sweet" and hug them or something
3. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around and they are kinda your type- I would try to get to know them better and then ask them on a date
4. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around before and they aren't your type- "that's cute"
5. It's a complete stranger on the Internet but they are your age (or at least in your age range and not a 70 year old pervert)- If theyre cute, then I'd try to get to know them better
6. A popular person in your school admits they like you and you don't like that person in that way I'd say "cool, how long have you had feelings for me?" and just talk with them
7. Same as 6 but you like the popular person- "Same"
8. The "runt" of the school who no one really likes admits they love you and they fit into your type- If theyre my type, then I'd ask them out.
9. Same as 8 but hes not your type.- My reaction depends on why people don't like him
10. Your best friend for several years confesses their love to you (of the same gender)- omg all my "best friends" are NOT my type. But I'd be surprised.

EmmaJane
January 4th, 2014, 06:33 PM
I'm bisexual.

1. You like-like the person - Freak out then ask them to be my boyfriend/girlfriend
2. You like the person as a friend but wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with them - Tell them that I don't have feelings for them in that way but agree to stay friends.
3. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around and they are kinda your type - I'd be a bit freaked out.
4. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around before and they aren't your type - Just say to them I don't have feelings for them then walk away.
5. It's a complete stranger on the Internet but they are your age (or at least in your age range and not a 70 year old pervert) - Depends on how well I knew them.
6. A popular person in your school admits they like you and you don't like that person in that way - Tell them I don't have feelings for them then walk away.
7. Same as 6 but you like the popular person - Ask him/her out :3
8. The "runt" of the school who no one really likes admits they love you and they fit into your type - Ask him/her out.
9. Same as 8 but hes not your type. - Say sorry but I don't have feelings for you that way.
10. Your best friend for several years confesses their love to you (of the same gender) - Ask him/her out :3

chieko
January 4th, 2014, 06:49 PM
i'm straight.


1. You like-like the person

He has to wait.

2. You like the person as a friend but wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with them

I'll tell the truth.

3. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around and they are kinda your type

Well, I'm a full-time stalker.

4. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around before and they aren't your type

Move on.

5. It's a complete stranger on the Internet but they are your age (or at least in your age range and not a 70 year old pervert)

But i don't believe in long distance relationship :/

6. A popular person in your school admits they like you and you don't like that person in that way

I'll say thanks

7. Same as 6 but you like the popular person

I'll do my best to stop my overwhelming infatuation haha

8. The "runt" of the school who no one really likes admits they love you and they fit into your type

i'll date them haha

9. Same as 8 but hes not your type.

i don't know how to react, prolly i'll just be still nice to them but will not return the same feelings

10. Your best friend for several years confesses their love to you (of the same gender)

it would be be really uncomfortable to me. maybe i'll stay away for awhile but ofc i'll tell her what do i feel about it in a good way

LouBerry
January 4th, 2014, 07:17 PM
Hey,

How would you react if someone came over and told you that they had feelings for you? What is your sexuality?

Try in these different scenarios
1. You like-like the person
2. You like the person as a friend but wouldn't wanna be in a relationship with them
3. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around and they are kinda your type
4. It's a complete stranger (in person) but you've seen them around before and they aren't your type
5. It's a complete stranger on the Internet but they are your age (or at least in your age range and not a 70 year old pervert)
6. A popular person in your school admits they like you and you don't like that person in that way
7. Same as 6 but you like the popular person
8. The "runt" of the school who no one really likes admits they love you and they fit into your type
9. Same as 8 but hes not your type.
10. Your best friend for several years confesses their love to you (of the same gender)

Thanks

I don't really know. I'd be mildly uncomfortable in all those situations due to the fact that I'm in a relationship, but if I wasn't, I'm be flattered. Except the ones about the strangers, especially the internet stranger, because that's a bit creepy.

Brown13
January 4th, 2014, 09:38 PM
Well since im bi i would give a chance to all exept 4,5,6,9

Wheatley
January 5th, 2014, 07:36 PM
Don't know if it sounds desperate but I'd take all as a confidence boost and a compliment. I'd talk to them and get to know them a bit better then make my mind up if there's anything I want to be part of. I just don't understand those people who freak out and never talk to you again