1st time sex choice

[Polo2847]

If you're still a virgin guy, would you lose your v-card to a friend who wants to do it with you, not intending to have a relationship with you? Or would you wait until you had a relationship with a partner?

Would you have sex, just to have sex? Or would you make it special with someone, which can take some time to meet someone?

Pass an opportunity for someone you truly love, or do it now? Because the day after, it would be the same day, nothing different.

A friend of mine that I know for 4 years wants to have sex with me during prom, but I'm not sure if I should pass on this, or experience it. I dont know if I should lose mine with a partner or with a friend like a fwb. She's already lost her v card and has done it with several other guys.

[Berad]

Depends on you, nobody can really tell you.
If you're the sentimental type, then you may want to wait. But if you're not very sentimental, and don't really care about the 'first time' being super romantic or anything, then go for it. I personally, would probably go for it.
But like I said, it just depends on you. Whatever you're comfortable with.

[MattPainter]

From personal experience I lost it to a girl I was actually close to and cared about ,but I would do it with a friend even if I did not have much romantic feelings for her.

[Baileyy]

Personally I'd like to lose it to someone I care about, but absolutely this is your choice - Just don't do anything you'll regret :P

[Kjcj]

I would wait until I was like going to get married! At least that's my plans....

[ska8er]

relationship-make it special-someone I truly love

dude she is too easy.

[From Chris]

If you're still a virgin guy, would you lose your v-card to a friend who wants to do it with you, not intending to have a relationship with you? Or would you wait until you had a relationship with a partner?

Would you have sex, just to have sex? Or would you make it special with someone, which can take some time to meet someone?

Pass an opportunity for someone you truly love, or do it now? Because the day after, it would be the same day, nothing different.

A friend of mine that I know for 4 years wants to have sex with me during prom, but I'm not sure if I should pass on this, or experience it. I dont know if I should lose mine with a partner or with a friend like a fwb. She's already lost her v card and has done it with several other guys.

It's honestly up to you. :) If you feel like you want to have sex for the first time with someone you love, or with your friend it's totally up to you! :) If you're that close with the friend then i guess why not? :)

-From Chris

[Your Captain]

For me I would do what ever comes first.
If I were you I would have the sex with that girl at prom

[Curious24]

I would have sex with a friend. I would want a meaningful time when I am in a relationship but practice makes perfect.

[Lost in the Echo]

I seriously recommend you wait until you feel like you're with a girl you actually want to lose your virginity to. It sounds like you don't really want to have sex with this girl, so don't. Also, as you said, she's been with a bunch of guys, so there's a decent chance she has an STD. I don't think you should risk catching anything.

[arrows]

I seriously recommend you wait until you feel like you're with a girl you actually want to lose your virginity to. It sounds like you don't really want to have sex with this girl, so don't. Also, as you said, she's been with a bunch of guys, so there's a decent chance she has an STD. I don't think you should risk catching anything.

I agree with waiting since he doesn't seem like he wants to have sex with this girl, but I wouldn't say that there's a decent chance that she has an STD. People who have sex with more than one person don't all have STDs.

[pjones]

i'm planning on waiting for the right person.

[Liven]

Personally I would wait until you are married to have sex with someone.
But it depends on what you think, to be honest.

[Jtyler]

I would personally do it with a parter on a special occasion but I might with someone at another time, it depends

[angel0907]

Waiting until ur with someone special feels more emotional but if ur not going bor that then go for it. You will remember it more clearly 20 years from now if its with someone special

[Polo2847]

I seriously recommend you wait until you feel like you're with a girl you actually want to lose your virginity to. It sounds like you don't really want to have sex with this girl, so don't. Also, as you said, she's been with a bunch of guys, so there's a decent chance she has an STD. I don't think you should risk catching anything.

I think she's been with about 3-4 guys, but she said "I never let them cum in me so I'm clean." I don't think that really means anything does it? I mean you can still catch STD's even without guys cumming inside a girl.

[Catholic Guy]

Well if she's already done it that's good because she's got experience and knows what's she's doing which is better than doing it with someone who has no experience, yes STDs can still be passed on without ejaculation so wear a condom anyway. I lost mine when I was 11 and did it just because it was sex but now I wish I had waited not necessarily for someone special but so we were both more ready for it, if I were you I think I would probably do it.

[Synyster Shadows]

I'd rather lose my virginity to my girlfriend then some random girl

[Bradley 97]

Depends on you, nobody can really tell you.
If you're the sentimental type, then you may want to wait. But if you're not very sentimental, and don't really care about the 'first time' being super romantic or anything, then go for it. I personally, would probably go for it.
But like I said, it just depends on you. Whatever you're comfortable with.

completely agree! I lost my v card to someone I can't even remember the name... That's embarrassing! So I know what its like to just want to get rid of it, but if you're going to just give it away might as well be someone you know well. From my experience my personal edvice just wait till someone you really deserves comes along... Trust me masturbation can sometimes be better than a bad experience!

[daniel 2014]

I have heard takes on the virginity issue. Some say sex period. Others say you can have sex but not truley lose your virginity unroll it is with someone you love. If your up for it I say do it! Just use a condom! Sex is great. You'll enjoy it.

[Pulp501]

Well, does it count if I did it with a guy for about ten seconds? Idk but if a guy asked me I would probably say yes, but if a girl asked, not unless we were serious, because even though I'm bi I plan on marrying a girl, but would still like to experience sex with a guy if that makes sense

[Polo2847]

Well, does it count if I did it with a guy for about ten seconds? Idk but if a guy asked me I would probably say yes, but if a girl asked, not unless we were serious, because even though I'm bi I plan on marrying a girl, but would still like to experience sex with a guy if that makes sense

Same with me dude.

[Polo2847]

completely agree! I lost my v card to someone I can't even remember the name... That's embarrassing! So I know what its like to just want to get rid of it, but if you're going to just give it away might as well be someone you know well. From my experience my personal edvice just wait till someone you really deserves comes along... Trust me masturbation can sometimes be better than a bad experience!

Since you lost it with a person you cant remember his/her name, do you regret losing your virginity then? Someone said sex should be done with someone who you trust and know, and have a good time with them, and that the "virginity" issue is created by society as a social status. I'm not sure if I should take the opportunity to enjoy and have a good time with someone I know, or pass the opportunity and wait longer for a relationship.

[Polo2847]

I'd rather lose my virginity to my girlfriend then some random girl

I didn't say "some random girl." I've known her for 4 years. I'm just contemplating whether to remember my first time with a friend or with a girlfriend.

[Polo2847]

Well if she's already done it that's good because she's got experience and knows what's she's doing which is better than doing it with someone who has no experience, yes STDs can still be passed on without ejaculation so wear a condom anyway. I lost mine when I was 11 and did it just because it was sex but now I wish I had waited not necessarily for someone special but so we were both more ready for it, if I were you I think I would probably do it.

You said you wish you had waited, so did you say "let's just do it" at that time too?

[Bradley 97]

Since you lost it with a person you cant remember his/her name, do you regret losing your virginity then? Someone said sex should be done with someone who you trust and know, and have a good time with them, and that the "virginity" issue is created by society as a social status. I'm not sure if I should take the opportunity to enjoy and have a good time with someone I know, or pass the opportunity and wait longer for a relationship.

I mean I'm not too sentamental so I don't think it's big deal my first was a blow off plus kind of like practice for someone better cause reality is no one is keeping virginity anymore so might as well

[Catholic Guy]

You said you wish you had waited, so did you say "let's just do it" at that time too?

At the time they said, let's just do it and I was up for it but now looking back on the situation I realise that neither of us were really ready I'm not saying it wasn't good it just wasn't as good as it is now, now I'm ready for that level of intimacy and I have a better understanding of what I'm doing sex is a lot better but that's come with practice and learning what the other person likes, often by fingering them first

[Synyster Shadows]

I didn't say "some random girl." I've known her for 4 years. I'm just contemplating whether to remember my first time with a friend or with a girlfriend.

Oh, wait, right. Well, I'd still rather lose it to my girlfriend than just have a friend with benefits.

[Loca]

I would wait until I find someone special.

[SkiJoey99]

I'd prefer it be with my wife on our wedding night.