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CheeseChaser
January 1st, 2014, 08:57 PM
The girl that I love receives a type of therapy that apparently changes that way someone is supposed to think and act on a situation. She has been doing this for several months because she is being forced to by her parents, but whether or not she wants to do it, I don't know.

The problem is that I don't like the changes because she has become different from the person that I fell in love with. She acts, talks, and thinks differently and it's making me insane. She doesn't know that I know what type of therapy she's getting (and she hasn't told me either...) so I can't straight up tell her this, but I have told her she has been acting different but....

I don't know what to do because I DO love her a lot, but this person she has become is not someone I love. I hate it, actually. What should I do?

Blood
January 1st, 2014, 10:20 PM
If you want, confront her about the therapy and talk to her about how you feel. Honesty IS actually the best policy in these situations.

And if after talking about it with her you still find you don't love her, break up with her. Quite frankly I wouldn't have stayed with her when I found out she was in therapy that intense without telling me.