Is it wrong?

[AndrewU2]

hey guys and girls, im sorta new here (as in first post ever I think) and I have been thinking about something
is it wrong wanting to do 'stuff' with my guy best friend if we're both in relationships with girls?
we're having a sleepover soon and IF something does happen should I go along with it or say no ?
girls and guys opinions please, what would you do?

much appreciated :) x

[Caver]

It's wrong as in my opinion if you're both in relationships this guy best friend is better than your girlfriend/boyfriend. It's two timing and really isn't fair on the other person of this relationship. It's a very devious act, despite of no one knowing I'm sure you'd always feel at least slightly guilty.

[ksdnfkfr]

idk it's hard to say. With straight buddies it's just horsing around. But if it amounts to betrayal then don't go there.

[AndrewU2]

thanks for your opinions guys :)
take this into consideration, his relationships never last long, my girlfriend wouldn't care if we did stuff and if he hit on ME first ahah
what about now? :p

[Your Captain]

I think you should go along with it. Its not ring.
Just don't tell your girlfriend and don't tell his girlfriend

[MortimerB]

Heh, if something happens it happens and enjoy while it happens! But the shit that would probably follow, would happen as well.

I would consider it cheating - no matter the genders. Though if you find out that you're bi or even gay, it would probably be a good idea to inform your girlfriends. ;)

[Sean-]

Idk cos you're both in relationships but if not don't stop your self being curious to try

[Croconaw]

It's wrong only because you're both already in relationships.

[Pete_Dude]

No not wrong cos it's just having fun with your mate.

[Arsenalfan123]

I think it is wrong

[MortimerB]

Well, no matter what gender you are, it's still cheating, you know... If something should happen, you COULD go along with it but if you do, I would seriously evaluate what to do next... Best of luck.

[hockeyfan]

Only do it if u want to. Don't get pressured into anything. U might not wanna tell ur gf!

[Voodo]

If it is just experimenting then it dont mean anything. it shouldnt matter... do what makes you comfortable

[hoboliz]

Only if you're being dishonest about it. If you have to lie to her, it's no good. Also, if she were doing the same with her friend, how would you feel? If you don't immediately know that you'd be OK with it, it's not OK. Otherwise, it's not like you've talked about marrying her, right?

[Liam Peter]

I don't think the action is bad, and personaly I think you should go along with it, because if you don't you will regret it later. But you will have to decide weather or not to tell your gf.