A question for girls and guys-Hmm kind weird.

[kiwiteen]

If you discovered your 15 year old BF still wet the bed at night would that make a difference in your relationship Would you still go out with him?

Would you let him sleep in the same bed as you ?

Would you tell him you knew ?

[ninja789]

I would find that strange but he must be struggling with something so I would try and find a way to help him
I would tell him if its happened more than once

[Miri]

If he is still wetting the bed, he is probably facing some kind of struggle, either a psychological thing or a medical thing. Either way, it is probably very hard for him and he probably wants your understanding, not your judgement. In all likelihood, he wants to be treated like everyone else.

1. If I really liked a person who still wet their bed, I would honestly probably be more hesitant to go out with them, but it wouldn't necessarily be a deal-breaker. Before I went out with them though, I would see if there was anything I could do to help them.

2. If I were you, I would not tell him that you know, if he hasn't told you himself. It will probably just embarrass him more, and could cause a lot of problems. I might steer a conversation that way though, but don't approach him in a way that makes it seem as if you are accusing him of something, and definitely not around other people.

3. Would you let him sleep in the same bed as you ? Hm, that's a tough one. At my age, personally I probably wouldn't, but that's because I'm hesitant to let anyone who has assumed the role of "significant other" share a bed with me. If he were just my friend though, and the bed wetting wasn't a common occurrence, I would probably risk it, but also probably not in my own bed.

[Shadow08200]

I would talk to him about it, and ask him if he goes to the restroom before hopping in bed to sleep. I would tell him that you know about it, even though it may seem embarrassing for the two of you. I'd say let him sleep in your bed once, and if he pees in it, don't let him sleep in there again until he fixes his issue. Does he drink a lot of fluids during the evening? That might play a role. Does he wake up to go to the fridge to get a drink?

[pjones]

if he didn't say anything i would not let on that i know.
and i really doubt someone with this problem would want to sleep with another person in case he has an incident, especially if he didn't tell that person about his problem

[Your Captain]

If it were a girl I would still go out with her. Is would sleep in the same bed. And I would tell her I knew

[The_Glaswegian]

To be honest it wouldn't bother me. I would let them know that I am not going to judge them

[IcaJess]

It wouldnt deter me from starting a relationship, I wouldnt sleep in the same bed though :/

[grimoir666]

one of my sisters friends peed the bed at a party, we were so cramped i was supposed to sleep on the floor but climbed into bed with her, i woke up as she began to pee on me, i got hard right away, so i guess my answer would be yes i would still see them, yes i would sleep in the same bed as them and yes i would tell them and reassure them it was ok with me

[AlexOnToast]

It really wouldnt effect my feelings for the person, but mind you, I'm not the type who likes being soaked in Human Apple Juice...

[Croconaw]

That would be really weird. Honestly, I'd be grossed out.

[Liam Peter]

It wouldn't deter me from going out with them, however I would make sure that they started dealing with it so that they could stop, and I wouldn't sleep in the same bed till the problem was solved

[Luminous]

I don't think I would care.

[Hermes96]

i would still date them as it wouldn't afect my reasons for likeing them. i would share a bed and i would wait for him to tell me rather than bringing it up

[PatrickV]

who cares? that would be the shittiest reason for breaking up with your boyfriend, maybe he has bathroom problems or something.

[backjruton]

I personally don't think I would care. People are people

[Dario Argento]

If it was my girlfriend I would try to be as supportive as possible. I would tell her I knew but it wouldn't change anything for me. I would still sleep next to/ with her.

[MortimerB]

Definitely talk to him-slash-her about it and try and find a solution, which would satisfy us both.

[SadLove]

Lets say i had a girlfriend. if she wet the bed, it wouldn't bug me, there is often a deep psychological reason behind it, if not medical. I would be weary of sleeping in the same bed with them, I wouldn't anyway because my religion is against it, and im fine with that. If i wet the bed I would tell her.

[jayce_xt]

I agree with everyone else here. Bed-wetting is usually a sign that there's something wrong; that they need lots of help and support. Whatever you choose to do, just make sure he knows you're still there for him.

[PurpleLips]

ew yh, no and no