View Full Version : Closing your room's door
lifelies
January 1st, 2014, 01:11 PM
Ok now I know this will sound ridiculous :yawn:
I've never closed my room's door (at my mother's). For some reason, it feels kinda weird, but I don't care about that. The thing is that my mother is paranoid as she can be and if I close my door she will start thinking I'm doing drugs or something (seriously she says I smell like cigarettes and I don't smoke anymore lol).
When I'm at my room with the computer I always have to have a "safe window" because she loves to walk in front of my room and look what I'm doing. That's really annoying and I'm darn tired of having to minimize this window while I'm writing this because of she would start thinking I'm talking to pedophiles or something.
Even if I close my room's door at night, when she goes to sleep (she goes to sleep later than I do) she opens it. It might have sense now because we have a cat and he would start scratching the door if it was closed, but she did that before we had the cat.
On the other hand, at my parent's it's like LOGICAL to close my room's door when I'm sleeping. It's natural to close it even when I'm not sleeping. Although I don't feel like I need to, because my father doesn't come into my room to see what I'm doing. But sometimes, if he comes into my room to tell me something, he will close the door when he goes out... And then I'm like "ooooh this is heaven."
And the cats aren't an issue there, we have 2 cats and 2 dogs lol
So... how on eart can I get to close my door on my mother's. Should I just close it? I don't think so, because even if the door is open but it's a too acute angle, she will come and open it more lmao.
So I guess I need help before I go madddddd!
PS: Bonus for having read all that, here's a little survey for you to fill.
Age:
Sex:
Any pets?
Are you allowed to close your room's door?
If so, how often do you close it?
Do you sleep with your room's door closed?
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed?
At what age did you start closing your door?
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone?
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?
Thanks :smile:
Eat33
January 1st, 2014, 01:20 PM
Age: 15
Sex: Male
Any pets? Yeah, 2 dogs + 2 cats
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Most of the time
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? When i got my own room (i was 10)
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yep :P
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yess
lifelies
January 1st, 2014, 02:02 PM
Age: 15
Sex: Male
Any pets? Yeah, 2 dogs + 2 cats
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Most of the time
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? When i got my own room (i was 10)
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yep :P
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yess
Thanks :)
How do you suggest that I should start closing my darn door?
Without my mother thinking I'm smoking lol
PinkFloyd
January 1st, 2014, 02:11 PM
Age: 15
Sex: mlae
Any pets? 2 cats
Are you allowed to close your room's door? yes
If so, how often do you close it? Every time I'm in my room basically
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? on some occasions
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Well, my mom is always link "Keep your door open so missy (the cat that I bond with lol) can come and go! She doesn't really care though."
At what age did you start closing your door? As long as I can remember
EneasR
January 1st, 2014, 02:25 PM
Age:13
Sex: Male
Any pets? Dog
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Always
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? My dog sleeps with me so i leave the door opened for him to go to the bathroom
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? no
At what age did you start closing your door? 12
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?Yes
Steven1
January 1st, 2014, 02:29 PM
Age: 16
Sex: Male
Any pets? No
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Probably about 95% of the time I'm in my room
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No, in fact they think it's weird if it's not haha
At what age did you start closing your door? On and off for about 5 years, but only most of the time for about a year or so
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Sometimes, but not much
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Sometimes, but not every single time
Shadow08200
January 1st, 2014, 04:01 PM
Age: 16
Sex: Male
Any pets? A tuxedo cat (never leaves me alone, love that), and a chihuahua. I've got birds too and a turtle.
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? All the time
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Most of the time
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Sometimes because they want my room to air out because it gets hot in there.
At what age did you start closing your door? Well I had to share a room until 2007 so since then I guess.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes
I think really the only way for her to stop "spying" on you is just to talk to her about it. Tell her that you'd like some privacy when you're in your room, and that you won't be doing anything bad in there.
Miri
January 1st, 2014, 04:11 PM
I would just talk to her about it if I were you, just let her know that you need more privacy. Or, instead of closing it all of the way and incurring the wrath of the cat, keep it open maybe an inch or two so it can push it open with its head. You could also sit with your computer screen facing the other way, if you have a laptop.
Age: 15
Sex: F
Any pets? 3 dogs 4 cats
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? I usually leave it open.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? I sleep with it closed most of the way.
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No.
At what age did you start closing your door? I can't remember.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Sometimes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Sometimes
Taryn98
January 1st, 2014, 04:32 PM
I always have my bedroom door closed when I'm in there.
pjones
January 1st, 2014, 05:04 PM
try closing the door part way and see what the reaction is. might be able to slowly get it completely closed at some point.
Age: 13
Sex: male
Any pets? 1 cat
Are you allowed to close your room's door? yes
If so, how often do you close it? when we sleep or want to masturbate
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? no. they do knock in the morning if they don't hear us moving around before they come in to make sure we're awake
At what age did you start closing your door? for masturbating this year. been closed for sleeping for years
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? yes
Storm'sGame15
January 1st, 2014, 05:43 PM
Age: 14
Sex: M
Any pets? Yup 1 puppy and 1 cat.
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yup
If so, how often do you close it? Almost always
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? Since I was 6
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes but only in the morning
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes
IcaJess
January 1st, 2014, 05:50 PM
Age: 16
Sex: F
Are you allowed to close your room's door? : Yes, but I only started to when I was about 14, around then I always thought that it seems like im doing something suspicious.
If so, how often do you close it? : Almost all the time i'm in there.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? : Always
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? : Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? : mentioned above
My parents dont mind, hopefully your parents start to realise you need your privacy :s
Typhlosion
January 1st, 2014, 07:25 PM
Age: 17!
Sex: Male
Any pets? None :(
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Thank god!
If so, how often do you close it? Always
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Always
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? It was out-of-place at first, but now it's a-ok
At what age did you start closing your door? 14 I think
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Aye! I'm almost never home alone
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Where else?
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I would definitely suggest talking to your mother about it. She'll probably understand.
ksdnfkfr
January 1st, 2014, 07:40 PM
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vickilynn
January 10th, 2014, 04:45 AM
We have no pets. I keep my door is open unless it is noisy or the hallway is cold. But we are nude in our house. When I masturbate, I would just do it. They already saw me and I have seen them. I can close my door at anytime but my family is so laid back and easy.
nklarke
January 10th, 2014, 02:14 PM
It's kinda obvious that your problem with your mother is a enormous lack of confidence and according to what you wrote, you did something some time ago so that's why .....
PS: Bonus for having read all that, here's a little survey for you to fill.
Age: 14
Sex: M
Any pets? 1 dog (my 16 y/o cat passed away :-(
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yeah and lock it
If so, how often do you close it? Every day but not locked
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? yeah
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? If it's not locked, no
At what age did you start closing your door? To sleep has been always closed.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? yeah with door closed AND locked
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? same above
Arsenalfan123
January 12th, 2014, 05:26 AM
Age:14
Sex: male
Any pets?yes
Are you allowed to close your room's door?yes
If so, how often do you close it?all the time
Do you sleep with your room's door closed?well yeah
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed?no
At what age did you start closing your door?since i was born my doors closed
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone?yea
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?yea
ECSTASY
January 12th, 2014, 05:41 AM
Age: 17
Sex: male
Any pets? Nope
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yup
If so, how often do you close it? Its closed the rest of the day:p
Do you sleep with your room's door closed?Yup
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door?Since i was 7:p
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Sometimes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?yup
Sanctum
January 12th, 2014, 05:59 AM
Age: 17
Sex: male
Any pets? a Dog
Are you allowed to close your room's door? yes
If so, how often do you close it? whenever i'm in my room.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? No
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door?Since i was 14:p
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? i'd rather not answer
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?
RavleIncarnate
January 12th, 2014, 07:16 AM
I think you should! Doesn't your mother respect your privacy at all?! Oh my word, like, really? And I think its cool that you stopped smoking. Good move. And she should learn to trust you more.
!!SURVEY PART!!
Age:13
Sex: Male
Any pets? 2 dogs, 2 cats and a parrot.
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Whenever I'm in my room, except when I sleep, cuz I listen music when I'm in my room very loudly and this makes Mom upset. At night its softer, so she doesn't care.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? No. But I can.
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No.
At what age did you start closing your door? Since I started seeing things at 4.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes, but I always assure no-one looks.
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes, almost always.
itgetsbetter747
January 12th, 2014, 07:48 AM
This may sound kinda weird, but if you have a mobile device that you can use to access the internet, the best thing to do is to just sit in the bathroom and do what you need to do there. I doubt your mum will ever barge in when you're in the bathroom, or mind that the bathroom door is closed. However, don't take too long, or she'll realise you're not just taking a dump:)
Justdance613
January 12th, 2014, 07:58 AM
I sort of know where your mom (I think you said mom) is coming from. I think before you go mad you should ask her for a little more privacy.
PS: Bonus for having read all that, here's a little survey for you to fill.
Age:13
Sex: male
Any pets?yes
Are you allowed to close your room's door? It is really hard to keep a sheet open. So yes I am aloud to close my door.
If so, how often do you close it? All the time
Do you sleep with your room's door closed?yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed?no
At what age did you start closing your door? 12 Because that was when I got my own room and when I got the room it had a wooden door.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? YES!
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes
XZoDiaCX
January 13th, 2014, 10:30 PM
Age:18
Sex: M
Any pets? Nope
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yeah
If so, how often do you close it? All the time
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yeap
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? 14
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yeah
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yeah
Romaana
January 13th, 2014, 10:35 PM
Damn .-. I cant remember when i ever left my door open. Im 16, 17 in 3 weeks i think. Just close it and if she opens it just close it again. We have 2 cats and if they come to my door, well they never come to my door. Good luck keeping your door shut.
AlexOnToast
January 14th, 2014, 03:09 AM
Age: 13
Sex: Male
Any pets? Yeah, a cat
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? When I feel like it
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Sometimes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? Hmmm probably 3 years ago
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yeah
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yeah
CostumerServiceGuy
January 14th, 2014, 03:54 PM
Age: 13
Sex: Male
Any pets? Does a pet hamster count?
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Often
Do you sleep with your room's door closed?- Half-way (i'm afraid of the dark!)
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? 5 years ago
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yeah
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yeah
Croconaw
January 26th, 2014, 04:32 PM
Age: 16
Sex: female
Any pets? 1 dog
Are you allowed to close your room's door? yes
If so, how often do you close it? at night
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? not really
At what age did you start closing your door? 14
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? never
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?yes
JonBarleyCorn
February 9th, 2014, 02:50 PM
My mom HATED it when I first closed my door but I kept doing it. We have worked it out now but it took awhile. I close AND lock it whenever I want.
ClaireMarie
February 10th, 2014, 01:18 PM
Age: 16
Sex: female
Any pets? Nope
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yeah
If so, how often do you close it? rarely
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yeap
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? dunno
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yeah, and my room's door isn't closed
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? usually yes, but I can masturbate or "touch myself" in the living room sometimes
Yugen
February 10th, 2014, 04:05 PM
Age: 15
Any pets? Two dogs and a cat.
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Anytime I'm in there, especially at night.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes.
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? In the day time.
At what age did you start closing your door? 10 at first, but then I wasn't allowed to after an incident until I was 13.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? No.
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? N/A
ImAurora
February 10th, 2014, 04:17 PM
Age: 16
Sex: Female
Any pets? A dog
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Most of the time I'm in there
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? No
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Not normally
At what age did you start closing your door? 13 or so
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes
Zachary G
February 10th, 2014, 04:17 PM
Age: 13
Sex: M
Any pets? 2 dogs, 3 cats
Are you allowed to close your room's door? yes
If so, how often do you close it? few hours thru the day
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? open
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? no
At what age did you start closing your door? 11
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? sometimes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? sometimes there or in my bathroom
mychalo
February 10th, 2014, 08:43 PM
Age: 13
Sex: Male
Any pets? No
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Not very often, mostly to study
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? No, share with 2 younger brothers and they want the door open
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No
At what age did you start closing your door?
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes when I can
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes when my brothers are asleep
Jay98
February 16th, 2014, 03:32 AM
Age: 16
Sex: female
Any pets? Nope
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yeah
If so, how often do you close it? rarely
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yeap
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? dunno
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yeah, and my room's door isn't closed
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? usually yes, but I can masturbate or "touch myself" in the living room sometimes
Thats really cool, my family and I are nudist so we are naked almost all the time at home. You say you can touch yourself in the livingroom? Do you mean home alone or while people are home? I was always raised to love my body and to never be ashamed of it. Since i was really young i would sometimes masturbate in the livingroom but my parents would neber say anything. My siblings and sometimes i still do but not all the time.
Jay98
February 16th, 2014, 03:39 AM
Age:16
Sex: male
Any pets?yes
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Once in a while, i like to leave it open for the dog.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Sometimes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No never
At what age did you start closing your door? Idk 12ish
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? All the time!
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes but not all the time.
Your Captain
February 16th, 2014, 04:32 AM
Age: 15
Sex: male
Any pets? Cat and parrot
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? All the time
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Only to say its stuffy so leave door open
At what age did you start closing your door?6 I would say
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes
Ben101
February 16th, 2014, 04:51 AM
Age: 14
Sex: Male
Any pets? 2 Cats
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? When im in my room
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Most of the time
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Sometimes ( Because of the cats wreaking the carpet)
At what age did you start closing your door? 12
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes (In bed at night)
jjj8995
February 17th, 2014, 12:58 PM
Age: 15
Sex: Male
Any pets? no
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? always
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Nope
At what age did you start closing your door? 12
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yea
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes
DarkHorse4eva
February 17th, 2014, 01:02 PM
Age: 16
Sex: male
Any pets? 2 cats
Are you allowed to close your room's door? yea
If so, how often do you close it? every night
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? no
At what age did you start closing your door? 16
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? only at night with my door closed
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? only in my room
ilikehorses2
February 17th, 2014, 01:06 PM
Age:14
Sex: Female
Any pets? Dog
Are you allowed to close your room's door? No
If so, how often do you close it?
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? It has to be open a crack
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Yes
At what age did you start closing your door? Never
ImAurora
February 17th, 2014, 01:10 PM
Age: 16
Sex: Female
Any pets? 1 dogs
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yeah
If so, how often do you close it? Pretty much all the time I'm in there
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Sometimes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Not normally
At what age did you start closing your door? 12, I think?
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yeah
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yeah
Seth Green
February 17th, 2014, 02:08 PM
Age: 15
Sex: Male
Any pets? 3 Cats (They're not allowed in my room because they pee in it)
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Pretty Much every time I walk in.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes every night.
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No.
At what age did you start closing your door? Around 24 Because I started skypeing people and when I skyped I would yell, so I started closing my door to avoid bothering them, and now It's just become habit.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Only when I'm Really horny and I know I won't get caught. Or at night, which is when I usually do it.
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Only place I do it.
JacobIN
February 17th, 2014, 03:59 PM
Age: 16
Sex: Male
Any pets? 2 cats
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes, but I don't because its at the top of the stairs (my room is a converted attic)
If so, how often do you close it? N/A
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Mostly, cracked so the cats can get in and out
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No
At what age did you start closing your door? N/A
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes
green white
February 17th, 2014, 04:26 PM
Age: 15
Sex: Male
I not have pet
Are you allowed to close your door? of course
If so, ho often you close it? when iin my room
do you sleep with your room's closed? yes
Do you parents complain: no
I start in.... I'm forget about it
Mastrubate when I'm not alone? yes, why not?
Mastrubate when i'm alone? always
schoolgirlz
February 17th, 2014, 10:14 PM
Age:16
Sex: F
Any pets?2 dogs
Are you allowed to close your room's door?yea duh
If so, how often do you close it?always
Do you sleep with your room's door closed?yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed?no
At what age did you start closing your door?forever
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone?yes always (lock the door)
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?yes alot of times but rare because I have a large family. I dont usually masturbate in my room, my house has lots of guest rooms.
backjruton
February 17th, 2014, 11:08 PM
Age: 17
Sex: male
Any pets? I don't see how that is too relevant but 1 cat
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? A lot of times in the day... every time I masturbate so DEFINITELY a lot.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? They did, I used to have to keep it open at night so they could tell I was asleep but they then learned I won't go to sleep when they tell me to because I prefer being awake at night time and I masturbate a lot at night so it's really embarassing to have a chance of them walking in on me. Atleast they know to knock now :)
At what age did you start closing your door? 12/13/something
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes!!
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yep :yeah:
Kjcj
February 17th, 2014, 11:39 PM
Ok now I know this will sound ridiculous :yawn:
I've never closed my room's door (at my mother's). For some reason, it feels kinda weird, but I don't care about that. The thing is that my mother is paranoid as she can be and if I close my door she will start thinking I'm doing drugs or something (seriously she says I smell like cigarettes and I don't smoke anymore lol).
When I'm at my room with the computer I always have to have a "safe window" because she loves to walk in front of my room and look what I'm doing. That's really annoying and I'm darn tired of having to minimize this window while I'm writing this because of she would start thinking I'm talking to pedophiles or something.
Even if I close my room's door at night, when she goes to sleep (she goes to sleep later than I do) she opens it. It might have sense now because we have a cat and he would start scratching the door if it was closed, but she did that before we had the cat.
On the other hand, at my parent's it's like LOGICAL to close my room's door when I'm sleeping. It's natural to close it even when I'm not sleeping. Although I don't feel like I need to, because my father doesn't come into my room to see what I'm doing. But sometimes, if he comes into my room to tell me something, he will close the door when he goes out... And then I'm like "ooooh this is heaven."
And the cats aren't an issue there, we have 2 cats and 2 dogs lol
So... how on eart can I get to close my door on my mother's. Should I just close it? I don't think so, because even if the door is open but it's a too acute angle, she will come and open it more lmao.
So I guess I need help before I go madddddd!
PS: Bonus for having read all that, here's a little survey for you to fill.
Age:
Sex:
Any pets?
Are you allowed to close your room's door?
If so, how often do you close it?
Do you sleep with your room's door closed?
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed?
At what age did you start closing your door?
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone?
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?
Thanks :smile:
My grandma is the same way, But I wouldn't say anything to her.... No need to create a fuss about it....What I would do at my moms is 1 (if your was completely pissed about it) tell her you want your privacy and that if you didn't get it you weren't going to come back for a while.... or 2 (my mom called the cops and told them I barricaded myself in, but when I done this I was actually cleaning lol) close my door and put my dresser in front of it .... then again... you could close it and sleep naked and uncovered.... you might just wake up to a closed door.... lol
Age:18 in March
Sex: Male
Any pets? at moms yes... my grandparents house (thats where I live) no
Are you allowed to close your room's door? At moms, I am now.... at my grandmas, not with out interrogation...:(
If so, how often do you close it? any time I am in the room at mommas
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? At mommas I do
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? my grandma does, but my mom suggest I close it now
At what age did you start closing your door? 12-13
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? yea.... carefully
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? yea... carefully
Kjcj
February 17th, 2014, 11:50 PM
Thats really cool, my family and I are nudist so we are naked almost all the time at home. You say you can touch yourself in the livingroom? Do you mean home alone or while people are home? I was always raised to love my body and to never be ashamed of it. Since i was really young i would sometimes masturbate in the livingroom but my parents would neber say anything. My siblings and sometimes i still do but not all the time.
somehow I kinda wish my family was like that......
Lune
February 18th, 2014, 01:00 AM
I think you should just close your door if you want to.
At your age it's normal to need some privacy, your mom will probably be able to understand.
If she doesn't, just tell her, calmly explain it to her.
Age: 17
Sex: Female
Any pets? No
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? My door is ALWAYS closed, even if I'm not in my room.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No
At what age did you start closing your door? 10-11
Jay98
February 18th, 2014, 02:21 AM
I like the comment someone made earlier saying you should go to bed naked with no covers and when you wake up in the morning, your mom will have probably closed your door LOL
alecbramham
February 18th, 2014, 05:00 AM
I normally have my door either open or mostly closed when my sister is listening to crappy music.
Age: 17
Sex: The one with the penis
Any pets? A dog called Coco
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yeah
If so, how often do you close it? Only when I'm trying to study or block out music
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Just slightly ajar
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Not really
At what age did you start closing your door? I don't know
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Normally only when I'm in bed (bunk bed makes masturbating really easy)
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? I either masturbate in my room, bed, the toilet or the bathroom.
alecbramham
February 18th, 2014, 05:16 AM
I normally have my door either open or mostly closed when my sister is listening to crappy music.
Age: 17
Sex: The one with the penis
Any pets? A dog called Coco
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yeah
If so, how often do you close it? Only when I'm trying to study or block out music
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Just slightly ajar
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Not really
At what age did you start closing your door? I don't know
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Normally only when I'm in bed (bunk bed makes masturbating really easy)
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? I either masturbate in my room, bed, the toilet or the bathroom.
scott757
March 2nd, 2014, 06:54 PM
Age: 17
Sex: m
Any pets? 2 fish lol
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yeah
If so, how often do you close it? All the time
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yeah
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No - they actually like it - keeps the noise from my tv/computer down.
At what age did you start closing your door? When I stopped playing with toys and going in and out of the room every 2 minutes.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yeah
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yeah
Luminous
March 2nd, 2014, 09:32 PM
Try talking to her about it. Or try a compromise - have the door closed but not shut. Just slightly open so the cat can just push it open and your mom won't feel like you're hiding anything.
Age: 14
Sex: Girl
Any pets? 3 cats
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Almost always. I share a room with my sister and she insists. I like it closed too.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No
At what age did you start closing your door? Always I guess
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes, if I had to wait until I was completely home alone I'd be waiting weeks between masturbation sessions.
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Occasionally. I prefer my bedroom but since I share it I usually go in the bathroom since I share my room.
SadLove
March 2nd, 2014, 09:50 PM
Age: 15
Sex: M
Any pets? 10 cats 2 dogs
Are you allowed to close your room's door? yes
If so, how often do you close it? always closed unless I forget
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? nope.
At what age did you start closing your door? always have
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? yep.
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? yep.
SciMassKid
March 4th, 2014, 10:54 PM
Age:19
Sex: male
Any pets? dog
Are you allowed to close your room's door?yes
If so, how often do you close it? a lot
Do you sleep with your room's door closed?yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed?no
At what age did you start closing your door? idk
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone?yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?yes
Cognizant
March 4th, 2014, 11:31 PM
Age: 16
Sex: Male
Any pets? 3 dogs :D
Are you allowed to close your room's door? yes, but my family barges in on me all the time
If so, how often do you close it? Pretty much all the time (even when I'm not home)
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? no
At what age did you start closing your door? um idk :P
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? only at night when everyone's asleep
blacknite
March 4th, 2014, 11:49 PM
Age:14
Sex:*Male
Any pets? 2 dogs
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Every night
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Usually
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Not really
At what age did you start closing your door? 10
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?
Sometimes
Snowfall
March 5th, 2014, 08:21 AM
I sort of feel sorry for you, teenagers should be allowed to lock their doors. *insert obligatory moral lesson about privacy only for it to be countered with the teenagers are horny logic and cause movement is suspicious*
Age: 15
Sex: Male
Any pets? Not anymore
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? More or less always, because it usually isn't suspicious so long as I don't lock it unless I'm changing
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? If it's locked when it shouldn't be
At what age did you start closing your door? More or less always
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes
Liven
March 5th, 2014, 10:11 AM
Age: 15
Sex: Male
Any pets? 1 dog
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? I crack the door sometimes, just to make sure no one is going to go into my room before I know.
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Sometimes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No, they never complained.
At what age did you start closing your door? Around 12 or 13.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Every night, when everyone is asleep, or in the middle of the day when everyone is downstairs.
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Yes.
Sminkelaks
March 5th, 2014, 02:11 PM
Age: 13
Sex: Female
Any pets? One parrot
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? All the time, regardless of my plans for the night. ;)
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No
At what age did you start closing your door? For as long as I can remember.
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? Most of the time. Some times in the shower.
Suave
March 5th, 2014, 02:55 PM
Age: 15
Sex: M
Any pets? Not anymore
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? all the time
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? no
At what age did you start closing your door? 13
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? yes
I had the same problem a while ago. Just keep closing the door and if she opens it close it again. Kinda defiance but if she asked just say its for privacy. I used to paranoid about what she would think or do. Now the only thing that paranoias me is not hear her walk in or knock with my headphones on.
Rascaldog24
March 5th, 2014, 06:56 PM
Age: 15
Sex: A few times a month
Any pets? 2 dogs and a duck
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes
If so, how often do you close it? Of a night when I go to bed
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? Yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? No
At what age did you start closing your door? Just allways have
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? Only when I'm home alone
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?
MakksKidd832
March 5th, 2014, 10:45 PM
Age:19
Sex: male
Any pets?dog
Are you allowed to close your room's door?yes
If so, how often do you close it?a lot
Do you sleep with your room's door closed?yes
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed?no
At what age did you start closing your door?idk
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone?yes
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone?yes
Hardcatch
June 18th, 2014, 01:14 PM
Age: 17
Sex: M
Any pets? YES 2 BOXERS
Are you allowed to close your room's door? YES
If so, how often do you close it? ABOUT 25% OF THE TIME
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? NOT ALWAYS
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? NOPE
At what age did you start closing your door? DONT REMEMBER
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? OF COURSE
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? YES
TheN3rdyOutcast
June 18th, 2014, 01:24 PM
Perhaps, you should politely tell her that you would like a little more privacy.
Body odah Man
June 18th, 2014, 01:28 PM
Age: 15
Sex: M
Any pets? No
Are you allowed to close your room's door? Yes, no lock
If so, how often do you close it? ABOUT 75% OF THE TIME
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? ALWAYS
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? Sometimes
At what age did you start closing your door? 5
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? In bath/shower
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? No
Luminous
June 18th, 2014, 01:30 PM
Age: 17
Sex: M
Any pets? YES 2 BOXERS
Are you allowed to close your room's door? YES
If so, how often do you close it? ABOUT 25% OF THE TIME
Do you sleep with your room's door closed? NOT ALWAYS
Do your parents complain about your room's door being closed? NOPE
At what age did you start closing your door? DONT REMEMBER
Do you jerk off/masturbate when you're not home alone? OF COURSE
If so, do you jo/masturbate in your room when you're not home alone? YES
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