Really Confused.

[SoRandom]

Anybody here who's sexually aroused with boys (j/o to boys) with no love at all but at the same time awfully inlove with a girl(with no sexual intentions, you just really love her)? Oh shizz. I hate puberty. hahaha.

[lifelies]

Oh, that sounds exactly like me lol. I guess I'm bi.
I don't *love* men, I just find them sexy (well only those around my age) and I usually j/o at them or gay porn. But i'm deeply in love with that girl I've known forever and we're going on a date soon...
I also have like three online "friends with benefits", we talk about everything but when we both are horny we send nudes to each other lol.
So you're not alone :)

[From Chris]

Anybody here who's sexually aroused with boys (j/o to boys) with no love at all but at the same time awfully inlove with a girl(with no sexual intentions, you just really love her)? Oh shizz. I hate puberty. hahaha.

This post belongs in the 'Teen Sexuality' section, for future posts with this inquiry. :) Anyways, it's perfectly normal for this to happen. I think you could be a mix of bisexual and biromantic (Being attracted to a sex with the lack of sexual attraction.) Both are normal, and honestly i used to be like this. Although i'm gay, i used to be sexually and just overall attracted to guys, yet i felt like i like girls in a romantic way for a little bit. Just wait a couple years and you'll figure it out. :) Certainly in no rush i hope! ;)

-From Chris

[ksdnfkfr]

Anybody here who's sexually aroused with boys (j/o to boys) with no love at all but at the same time awfully inlove with a girl(with no sexual intentions, you just really love her)? Oh shizz. I hate puberty. hahaha.

You have pretty much described puberty for most boys in a nutshell. We all might as well have "Really Confused" stamped on our foreheads.

[ska8er]

Jeeze I know how u feel-ur not alone.
I wish it was not like this.

[ElliotJ]

same story here, almost word for word haha.

[Baileyy]

Absolutely normal, your hormones are doing this to you - But don't be afraid to explore with other people, and be yourself man :)

[daniel 2014]

Bryan!!! PM me I have the exact same thing!!!!!!!!!! I thought I was the only one.

[Thomas01]

As From Chris had said, there are different types of attractions.

The suffix -sexual means attracted sexually
The suffix -romantic means attracted romantically

It's possible to be homosexual and heteroromantic

[deregisterme]

Dude, Ur not alone :-)

[casperathome]

I am exactly in the same position. I have a g/f but am not sexually active with her. I experiment with my buds a fair amount. I think it's NORMAL to be curious and I can't seem to control my sexual urges. I am not in 'love' with my buds but the whole sex thing is just TOO exciting. It's a very personal and private thing between us and has brought us closer.

[Fireangel]

Anybody here who's sexually aroused with boys (j/o to boys) with no love at all but at the same time awfully inlove with a girl(with no sexual intentions, you just really love her)? Oh shizz. I hate puberty. hahaha.

Yeah, Don´t worry, It´s pretty normal, Let it go, If you like boys too enjoy it, A lot of boys got hard and j/o to boys, How old are you?

[Fireangel]

Oh, that sounds exactly like me lol. I guess I'm bi.
I don't *love* men, I just find them sexy (well only those around my age) and I usually j/o at them or gay porn. But i'm deeply in love with that girl I've known forever and we're going on a date soon...
I also have like three online "friends with benefits", we talk about everything but when we both are horny we send nudes to each other lol.
So you're not alone :)

Cool ! I also like to have a friend with benefits to talk about everything, especially when I'm horny.

[Tdaykin877]

This is exactly like me! I think it's normal, just hormones aahaha

[Jtyler]

I'm the same

[Liven]

Anybody here who's sexually aroused with boys (j/o to boys) with no love at all but at the same time awfully inlove with a girl(with no sexual intentions, you just really love her)? Oh shizz. I hate puberty. hahaha.

Same here. Hormones I guess.

[Bradley 97]

Sexual and emotional with guys and only emotional to girls it sucks!

[joejoe]

Oh jeez... I can relate... LOL

[meow101]

Im exactly the same!

[kylem]

Totally not alone dude, yeah I feel the same way to when I get way horny. I actually j/o with a friend long time ago because we we're both horny and wanted to see what it'd be like. It was pretty awesome seeing each other cumming but we only did it one time. We talked about doing it again but we never did.

[Catholic Guy]

Not right now but I have been there, don't worry it will all change just give it time

[JohnJack]

Oh my god yes! I am going to sound really confused even answering this question, but yes I frequently find a girl really attractive, but only in a romantic sense, I don't really know that I'd want to fuck her. At the same time though if a guy took out his cock I would suck it. Of course other times my feelings are completely reversed. However, I think it might just be puberty because while my feelings can reverse I never feel romantically attracted to guys, it's just the sexual attraction that sometimes changes.

[any1]

I feel the exact same, I have no sexual attraction to girls but I want a relationship with them and with boys I an sexually attracted to them but I don't really want a relationship. Puberty sucks sometimes :/

[Boar]

Yep! You can thank puberty for that one!

[tom17]

I feel like I'm reading a story of mine... You're not alone.

[LunarScorpio]

No, I personally have never had an attraction in anyway for boys, but I do know that it is a natural stage of going through puberty