Fighting with my Friend

[ImagineRepublicCity]

So today I was talking to my friend and I was trying to get him to go on this outing but he said he'll be going to a sleepover and everything and he told me he was going to decide tomorrow, which was the day of the outing which got me really annoyed because he always says maybe to everything and I have to pretty much use all my energy just to get him to go and it's really irritating. Not only that, but saying maybe just gives me that sense of false hope and then they don't come which is really stupid because you're either going or not. I got really annoyed at him so I just started saying a whole ton of stuff I didn't like about him like the fact that he always promises me things and never does them and the fact that whenever I ask him to do me a favour, he says later and never does it until I remind him 50 times. This time I don't want to apologise to him first because I always have to apologise first and I'm just sick and tired of it. I don't want to think that I'm just someone he can just do whatever he wants to me whenever but it just feels that way. What should I do?

[Living For Love]

If you feel you are being used by him, then try to back off for a while, give yourselves some time to think. If he's a good friend, he'll probably realise he has been acting wrong and he might try to change it.

[Brown13]

That sounds like a one sided friendship. If this friend makes no attempts to include you or not even make plans with you then they really aren't someone you should continue to make such an effort for

[Melodic]

I'm not sure how this is a friendship if they aren't making one bit of effort to keep you around and show you they care. I had to do the same thing with one of my friends. I was always making an effort and making sure she was okay but I got used for it. But these friendships end up hurting you and I'd suggest just getting out of it and finding a new social circle.