Question

[JonnyH]

I have this best friend who invites me to have BJ, HJ and anal with me (but he says it in like a joking manner). My question is does he mean that he wants to do it with me?

[ksdnfkfr]

When I'm in a situation where I don't know if someone is joking or serious...
I ask them "are you joking or are you serious?".

[austeen2]

Lucky you ahaha.. Teenage hormones aka curiousity is the case here. I personally would love to try but havent had the opportunity

[Your Captain]

No. He is probably joking. I say that kind of stuff to my friends all the time. Even my friends say it to me. E.g. me and my mate were playing CoD Ghosts, then he said if I fie I have to give him a bj, but I went 10 kills to 0 deaths.

[deregisterme]

I have this best friend who invites me to have BJ, HJ and anal with me (but he says it in like a joking manner). My question is does he mean that he wants to do it with me?

Not really sure without asking him. And weather or not you ask him may depend on weather you want to do anything with him If you do, know your boundaries before you ask him, just in case.

[Thomas01]

It's not easy to tell. He could be joking or serious, just talk to him or joke around back just to see his reaction

[ska8er]

I think the key word here is "invite".
does he say it with a straight face or
is he laughing? next time he asks-ask
is he serious.

[lifelies]

Ask him.

[Catholic Guy]

Well just ask him, there's no other way to be sure of it or invite him over for a sleepover and see what he does and then tell him how you feel about it. How do you feel about it?

[Shadow08200]

I would just ask him about it.

[mww113]

I think openness and honesty is always the way to go. I think you should have an open dialogue with your friend if it's something that you're interested in.

[Canadian Dream]

When I'm in a situation where I don't know if someone is joking or serious...
I ask them "are you joking or are you serious?".

^^^ Pretty much that ^^^

[Brown13]

No way to know for sure without asking

[Baileyy]

Honestly you can't figure out whether he is joking or not, how do you find out? Ask.

[devon14]

It's not easy to tell. He could be joking or serious, just talk to him or joke around back just to see his reaction

He might be testing the water by seeing if you are open to experimenting by asking it in a joking manner - it's happened to me a couple of times like that - I'd test the water back by asking / telling him the same stuff in a joking manner and seeing his reaction :cool:

[kinger]

I have this best friend who invites me to have BJ, HJ and anal with me (but he says it in like a joking manner). My question is does he mean that he wants to do it with me?

You just gotta ask him if he is joking or not man

[nklarke]

No. He is probably joking. I say that kind of stuff to my friends all the time. Even my friends say it to me. E.g. me and my mate were playing CoD Ghosts, then he said if I fie I have to give him a bj, but I went 10 kills to 0 deaths.

And you don't want?

[ComfortableInChaos]

Maybe he does. Only way to find out is just go over to his house. Just tell him you wanna hang out and don't mention the other things he said. If he asks you to do anything, make sure you have a couple condoms on hand. JUST IN CASE. You might not know if he wants you to do him anally... Just bring condoms.

[From Chris]

I have this best friend who invites me to have BJ, HJ and anal with me (but he says it in like a joking manner). My question is does he mean that he wants to do it with me?

haha, i think it depends on how exactly he says it. :) Ask him if he's serious!

-From Chris

[AlexOnToast]

Yeah, I would pretty much just ask him and go from there XD

[ugaboy]

You are either gonna have to ask him if he is serious, or the next time he says that just say "OK, lets get on with it then!", and see what his reaction is.