How to meet other gay guys

[The_Hunger_Games]

I am not openly gay. Only 3 people know that I'm gay. But it makes me Sad because I can't have a relationship with other gay guys. No one at my school is openly gay. What should I do because I want to have a relationship with a guy?

[TapDancer]

I am not openly gay. Only 3 people know that I'm gay. But it makes me Sad because I can't have a relationship with other gay guys. No one at my school is openly gay. What should I do because I want to have a relationship with a guy?

First of all, Hunger Games, absolutely love it. Now, you need friends first of all. Any guy going to ask out a girl, would ant his mates support and advice. Being gay doesn't change that, you need to be out. There are lots of stereotypes towards gay people,, but these days, people realise that they aren't always true. For example, I have a deep voice, I'm overweight and love food, and a very proud homosexual. But, I'm not your typical stereotype. My point, is, there is really no definition of a gay person. Therefore, not every gay guy is gonna walk down the street and straight away realise who you are. You need to be a bit open. It's also not easy to be in the closet, for a whole bunch of other reasons.

Another point, statistically, arguably one in every twenty or so men have homosexual feelings. Statistically, if there are 40 guys in your school (I bet there is more) then there would be two homosexual guy, one being you. You are in the closet, and you probably aren't the only one. If you come out, there is a chance that others may follow.

Having said all that, coming out is hard, believe me, I know. If you need any further advice, reply or shoot me a message on here. Good luck!

[chieko]

The person above me is right :D It will help a lot if you're open especially to your friends because if they're good friends, you can ask them if they know other gay guys and they will help you in your search for a relationship. When you get older you can meet other gays by going to clubs x)

[ewht]

Only my best friend knows that I am bi. He is completely straight. He rejected my invitations to experiment even when I have asked him a few times. Fortunately, he still accepted me as his best friend and our friendship got closer after I told him I had feelings for him.

[newkler]

gays are everywhere. they will give you the look if they are interested :)