How to meet people

[The_Hunger_Games]

I am not openly gay. Only 3 people know that I'm gay. But it makes me Sade because I can't have a relationship with other gay guys. No one at my school is openly gay. What should I do because I want to have a relationship with a guy.

[Wonder.]

Obviously if you don't know any guys who like guys then you can't get into a relationship with someone. You'd have to meet people online or join a GSA or something to meet someone. The only advice I can really give is to not want a relationship. It sucks, but you have to realize that you don't really have many options. Being single's not that bad anyway. I don't understand why everyone wants to be in a relationship so badly. Enjoy the time you have all to yourself!

[From Chris]

I am not openly gay. Only 3 people know that I'm gay. But it makes me Sade because I can't have a relationship with other gay guys. No one at my school is openly gay. What should I do because I want to have a relationship with a guy.

I have a similar situation in my life, but unfortunately you can't do much about it unless you want to online date or try to find someone in your area. I think the best way would to wait till you're older. :)

-From Chris

[ewht]

Only my best friend knows that I am bi. He is completely straight. He rejected my invitations to experiment even when I have asked him a few times. Fortunately, he still accepted me as his best friend and our friendship got closer after I told him I had feelings for him.

[Wheatley]

Same situation, and it sucks to fall for a straight person. Believe me, you do not want to get into that situation, I agree with wonder (without being hypocritical), I've been trapped in that situation for 4 years now (which also sounds identical to ewht).

The only way to do it (if you don't want to pursue online) is to come out, but I would highly advise against that too (depending on how your peers are).

[Tdaykin877]

It sucks ahaha, try joining more groups and meeting new people? You'll find someone

[joejoe]

You could come out... Or find an online friend