sex

[cry4eva]

me and my boyfriend are thinking about having sex.
well we have already thought about it and decided to do it but i want advice
i need to know how to get a condom and no one find out
like u can buy them in bathrooms right? no one will know?
are there anythings that guys perfur? like shaved or not? idk wat else but please give me tips!

[Sugaree]

No you can't buy condoms in a bathroom. You can buy them at a pharmacy or local store such as Wal-mart or Target or whatever.

Second of all if you don't want anyone to know then just let your bf buy it. After you've used it then just throw it away or get a bag in then quickly hide it in the trash can.

If you want more info on this then go to the Relationships and Dating forum and click on the sticky "A guide to safer sex" to find out more

[Serenity]

No you can't buy condoms in a bathroom. You can buy them at a pharmacy or local store such as Wal-mart or Target or whatever.

Yes you can. Some bathrooms have condom dispensers, next to the tampon dispensers. I don't reccomend them, though, they're much less reliable than the namebrand ones.

[Sapphire]

I've seen Durex condoms in those condom dispensers so they aren't all crappy

[jay92]

this is just my opinion, and i dont mean to insult you and there is no offence intended.

but if your not mature enough to go into a pharmacy to buy them then i wouldnt think your mature enough for sex.

think about it, almost everyone has sex, so almost everyone will have to go into a pharmacy and buy them. It wouldnt be awkward

[ThatCanadianGuy]

^^^^ Points go to jay here!

If you feel even the slightest bit nervous or worried about doing this then just simply DON'T. Of course my first and main piece of advice wherever this is concerned is that there are TONS of things you can do besides sex that are 100% safe and still get you "what you're looking for". Oral sex should still require a condom (imagine getting herpes on your mouth EWWW). Mutual masturbation (handjobs/fingering) has almost no chance of STD's and NO chance of pregnancy.

So think about it :yeah:

As for your concern towards being shaved "down there" or not, the preference really depends on the guys own taste (eveyone likes something different). So basically you should ask him what he likes. Don't be ashamed or embarrased to talk about sexuality with him; if you ARE then you definitely ARE NOT ready to have sex yet!

[cry4eva]

i think that i would go into a pharmacy and buy it but i would just be kinda embarrassed. i mean wouldn't you? even if u were older. but thanks for the info.

[NextToNormal]

i think that i would go into a pharmacy and buy it but i would just be kinda embarrassed. i mean wouldn't you? even if u were older. but thanks for the info.

even if you feel that it would be kind of embarrassing to go into a pharmacy and buy condoms, that may mean you arent exactly ready to take that step yet. but, if you have the courage to walk in the store, pick out what you want, go to the counter and pay for it without the fear of judgement or being scared that someone is going to find out what you did, then maybe you are ready.
at least you are being smart about it and are going to use the condom

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Have you too done anything sexual before this? Like I said if you haven't started off with some safer things before taking this step then you should try to get "comfortable" sexually with eachother first before having actual intercourse.

[Zephyr]

You can go to your local health clinic (not like a hospital, but a clinic) to get condoms. Or if you're too embarrased, ask a friend if they have any.

[byee]

Bravo for you for recognizing the need for a condom! Let's just stay with that point, the awareness that sex=condoms.

Just go into a pharmacy or grocery store and buy them. They're really all the same, the only diff is lubed v. non lubed, receptacle end v. regular end. If you're not sure, ask your b/f (you guys should be talking about this, anyway), and if in doubt, go with lube/receptacle.

Don't worry about embarassment, the guy or gal working behind the counter at minimium wage for 8 hours a day isn't really looking too closely at what it is you're buying as they pass it under the scanner thingy. You're just another customer. If you're still unconvinced, get the condoms with other items, so they won't stand out.

Lastly, make sure you read the directions, and, maybe take one out on your own to see how they work and maybe practice.

Although sex=condoms, sex shouldn't be just about the condom. Do what you need to to familiarize yourself with them and their proper use so it becomes normal.

With regard to shaving, again, the best advice is to ask him. The last thing either one of you need is an unexpected surprise. Other than the one you're planning for.

[surf dude666]

well for things guys like my bf likes a bit of a tease first ;)

[sara1220]

Have you too done anything sexual before this? Like I said if you haven't started off with some safer things before taking this step then you should try to get "comfortable" sexually with eachother first before having actual intercourse.

I've never had sex, or been in a sexual kind of relationship but from my perspective, I totally agree with "the canadian guy" I dont know how old u are but i'm 13 & at my age, I would rather not jump right into intercourse without "preheating the oven"

As for buying condoms, you can get decent name brands from places like 7-eleven or other simmilar types of convenience stores.

And about being shaved or not? that is the guys preference. I know from having a brother that he likes shaved (i overhear him with his friends) but not all guys do... I shave mine just because i want to...

[Daniel91]

i have a gf that is 13 and shaves too, and i like it that she does it for me, but i think she does it because she likes it and not only for me . whow abut the others?

[Evaboo]

this is just my opinion, and i dont mean to insult you and there is no offence intended.

but if your not mature enough to go into a pharmacy to buy them then i wouldnt think your mature enough for sex.

think about it, almost everyone has sex, so almost everyone will have to go into a pharmacy and buy them. It wouldnt be awkward

Agree!!!

[somegirl]

Go to any store and buy them. Trust me, no one will care or think anything bad about you, people buy them all the time.

[dontfiguremeout]

Agree!!!

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