To Do or Not to Do?

[becca07]

When you get horny/aroused during the day do you usually find yourself wanting to find privacy immediately to "take care of it" or do you just let it pass and wait it out?

What usually makes you want to do it or not?

[freakyindiangurl]

for me it's really a matter of the right place right time. I will admit pleasuring myself and getting to an orgasm faster is easier when I take care of it when I'm aroused. but sometimes I just have to wait until I can take care of the itch.

[Sminkelaks]

If I'm at home when I get horny, I just retreat to my room (or take a shower) so I can take care of it. If not, then I really have no choice but to let it pass.

[jessicaann]

Sometimes I can/have to wait. Sometimes I'm so horny I need to find a quiet place for a "self quickie." Just like sex with a partner, sometimes the desire is too strong to wait.

[nancy_moon]

I always wait...i prefer the privacy of my room

[Sandra Main]

Depends on the circumstances of where I'm at or what I'm doing at the time.
I try and wait untill i get some alone time to take care of business .

[emily-candace]

If im at home, I just take care of it. I have been driving home from a friends and get the urge and just take care of It on the way home, or at least get it started and then finish in the driveway while sitting in my car. LOL

[jenna123]

for me it's really a matter of the right place right time. I will admit pleasuring myself and getting to an orgasm faster is easier when I take care of it when I'm aroused. but sometimes I just have to wait until I can take care of the itch.

same here, it depends on where are you at that moment. If im home im gonna take care of it straight away. But if im at school or some other public place i have to wait even though i wished i could masturbate right there.

[carissaurus]

I wait til later! So the anticipation builds up and the orgasm is just that much more powerful. :)

[becca07]

Yeah I am the basically the same way here like most of you have mentioned. For me too however i find that when I have reached a certain kind/level of horniness is when I think to myself "O.K this really needs to be dealt with". I am not talking about the random tingles here and there but when those tingles start to snowball and add up.

Is it like this for anyone else too?

[lilmisslucylee]

If i hit the level of super horny i just take care of it where ever i am.

[IcaJess]

Most of the time i just let it pass, unless I have an opporunity to releive it c;

[jenna123]

If i hit the level of super horny i just take care of it where ever i am.

and what if you are in class for example? or in the bus or some other public place?

[becca07]

If i hit the level of super horny i just take care of it where ever i am.

How do you get away with it...is there a sneaky way of getting it done while others are around?

[anyone50]

when I was younger I would have just found a private place to rub on out but now I wait and sometimes the desire just disappears depending on what's going on at the time

[lenka11]

i evertytime find nice quit place ;)

[KellyNC]

I let it pass most of the time and maybe use it for 'fuel' later on, but right on the spot I've never really been able to feel very comfortable doing it outside of a secure, trusted place.

[Miri]

I always let it pass. I wait until I'm in a private place where I have time and where I can get comfy.

[CutieHoney]

I tend to instantly get myself off if I get horny - no matter where I am.
Even if I was on a long bus-ride I'd try to somehow stealthily do it !

[Ashthefox]

I just let it pass unless I'm at home..

[CheekyLinda]

I contain myself as much as I can until I can find a private place to relieve it, unless I'm with my friends where it's just us, then I masturbate and they don't care

[becca07]

I contain myself as much as I can until I can find a private place to relieve it, unless I'm with my friends where it's just us, then I masturbate and they don't care

Curious...you mean you will m-bate to orgasm in front of them or just kind a rub and they wont mind? You must have some good understanding friends:yes:

[CheekyLinda]

Curious...you mean you will m-bate to orgasm in front of them or just kind a rub and they wont mind? You must have some good understanding friends:yes:

With friends, I mean my teammates from the volleyball team I'm part of. We're superclose and superopen with each other, so; when I'm with only them, and we're talking about or watching something that makes me horny, or if I'm just horny from whatever, they don't mind if I m'bate to orgasm in front of them :)

[becca07]

With friends, I mean my teammates from the volleyball team I'm part of. We're superclose and superopen with each other, so; when I'm with only them, and we're talking about or watching something that makes me horny, or if I'm just horny from whatever, they don't mind if I m'bate to orgasm in front of them :)

Thats very cool that they dont mind and that you can take care of it in front of them..do they mind if you get naked( like pants down and everything) or do you give them a little respect and just do it over top of clothes?

[CheekyLinda]

Thats very cool that they dont mind and that you can take care of it in front of them..do they mind if you get naked( like pants down and everything) or do you give them a little respect and just do it over top of clothes?

Well, we do have nude sleepovers sometimes, so I do it naked on those occassions (sometimes we do it all together, and more), but if it's other kinds of gathering between us, I just slip my hand down whatever I have on at the moment and go for it

[jenna123]

With friends, I mean my teammates from the volleyball team I'm part of. We're superclose and superopen with each other, so; when I'm with only them, and we're talking about or watching something that makes me horny, or if I'm just horny from whatever, they don't mind if I m'bate to orgasm in front of them :)

same here with my soccer team. All the team is very close and we have bonded together. We have lots of confidence and dont mind at all being naked around each other. As far as masturbating infront of them ive never done it but i guess it wouldnt be a huge deal. One of my teammates already did it in the gym shower when all the team was taking a shower and there was no problem

[Sarah_Ward]

I try to like keep the feeling going till i can find somewhere private so i can 'fix' it but mostly I have to wait till i can get to my room so i can masturbate as long or short as i need to. :O)

[becca07]

I try to like keep the feeling going till i can find somewhere private so i can 'fix' it but mostly I have to wait till i can get to my room so i can masturbate as long or short as i need to. :O)

Yeah if i have to wait I can and i'll be throbbing/squeezing my legs together for the whole day until i can get to a private spot/bed room to really go at it and give it a good rub.

[NotShortButFunsized]

Like the others said, I let it pass unless I'm in a place where I can feel safe and comfortable, like my room or a shower

[taurus97]

If i hit the level of super horny i just take care of it where ever i am.

I'm the same here, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.:yes:

[hoboliz]

same here with my soccer team. All the team is very close and we have bonded together. We have lots of confidence and dont mind at all being naked around each other. As far as masturbating infront of them ive never done it but i guess it wouldnt be a huge deal. One of my teammates already did it in the gym shower when all the team was taking a shower and there was no problem

My swim team and dance team are the same way! I wonder how common that is. I mean, we try to keep it secret at school because of backlash, but if it's pretty normal, maybe being more open would be good.

[ImAurora]

Normally I try and hold it in until I'm somewhere I feel comfortable doing it, but occasionally I will try and find a bathroom or something and take care of it quick there.

[Evaboo]

I would find a bath room or hold it in for later to make it a huge orgasm!

[vickilynn]

I am usually horny before bed and spend m6 special time before I fall asleep. But my one friend, she seems to be horny alot. We were in class and was working on a paper. Me and her was sitting in the back. I'd looked back and saw her with her hand under her mini skirt. I'd told her to stop. She said she was almost done. She covered her mouth and then slumped in her seat. When we left the class, I'd told her she can't be doing that. But she has been so horny and being masturbating a lot. I'd told her see needs to go to the bathroom then.

[Amsey]

Like most of the girls here i'd say it depends on when and where, but when im out and about with say my mum dad etc: i do often find myself needing to "use the bathroom", and the thing that make me that horny that i find a bathroom are usaully silly things like a girl with tig bitties or skater guys (yum) :D

[Kristihey]

I'm like almost everyone else here :P I can usually wait it out and find someplace comfortable to work up a good hard orgasm :D

[heyChelsea]

I guess I'm like most, I can let it wait, I've never been that "horny" that I just HAD to take care of it right then and there

[jenna123]

My swim team and dance team are the same way! I wonder how common that is. I mean, we try to keep it secret at school because of backlash, but if it's pretty normal, maybe being more open would be good.

well at school we dont really say it, only my close friends that are not on the team know about it. We havent told any guys, because you know how guys can be if they find out something like that is going on in the girls lockeroom haha

[hoboliz]

well at school we dont really say it, only my close friends that are not on the team know about it. We havent told any guys, because you know how guys can be if they find out something like that is going on in the girls lockeroom haha

Oh no kidding! I get accused sometimes of doing things just to get attention from guys, but honestly, if guys weren't such creepy assholes about sex, I'd probably be way more open it.

[jenna123]

Oh no kidding! I get accused sometimes of doing things just to get attention from guys, but honestly, if guys weren't such creepy assholes about sex, I'd probably be way more open it.

haha well teenage guys are full of hormones and more often than not they think with their dick instead of their brain, and if they knew that girls walked around naked in the locker room and some of them even masturbated in the locker room who knows what they will do, they might put a camera or something creepy haha. Besides we in the soccer team have a reputation of being all lesbians( some girls are, not me) and if they found out those private locker room things it wouldnt help

[hoboliz]

Oh, I meant life generally, not just the locker room. I've been seconds away from jumping a guy's bones at a party, and he'll say something that makes himself sound like a tool, so I go find someone else. But, yeah, I totally Dr what you mean.

[cutie123]

It all depends! If I'm super horny then i will do whatever it takes to take care of it!! But if I'm not that horny then i will try to let it pass!

[Elysium]

It all depends! If I'm super horny then i will do whatever it takes to take care of it!! But if I'm not that horny then i will try to let it pass!
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