Love for sex?

[Polo2847]

Do you think there needs to be love in order to have sex? A girl I've known for 4 years asked me to go to prom and she's like "We should do it." She's experienced but i'm not. And now I have a devil sitting on one side of my shoulder, and an angel sitting on the other side.

Angel: I kinda feel like I do have to fall in love and have to have a strong emotional connection before I get to "Home" base. Like there needs to be trust that they'll support you emotionally also. I feel like I should take these things slow, if I do do it, then go as far as 3rd base, but not all the way to Home.

Devil: I also feel like if I said no to Home base, I would be missing an opportunity. But also, that would mean if I did do it, my first time wouldn't be with a girlfriend, more like a fwb or a one-night-stand. I kinda think it would be wayyy to quick to rush through all the bases right after prom.

Do you guys think there needs to be love for sex? When you lost your v-card, were u in a relationship or was it a one-night-stand/party/fwb?

[Plasma]

I dont think there needs to be love, although I do think that the two people should at least know and trust eachother.

[PinkFloyd]

I believe that there needs to be a strong physical and emotional bond to have sex. "Love" is pushing it since it is said that a small percentage of people actually feel love.

So yeah, you should know the person really well if you'r going to do something like that. The 2 girls I've been with in that way I have been close to for over 7 years.

Bottom line is that you need to really know them.

[Seahawks15]

It is my belief that sex should happen after marriage.

[nklarke]

Love is one thing and sexual attraction is another stuff.

Now, if you for a personal, ethic or something else reason you need both, great.

[Swagging god]

Do you guys think there needs to be love for sex? When you lost your v-card, were u in a relationship or was it a one-night-stand/party/fwb?

I personally do believe that there needs to be a connection(which could be love or just a solid friendship). In the end, as long as both "partners" share a common bond and won't regret it (your first time SHOULD involve someone who means something to you). I lost my virginity to my girlfriend at the time.

[Virginiakid]

I think you should honestly wait until you love someone to have sex with them.

[ddbumblebee]

I don't think there needs to be love, sex is fun and feels awesome and if people want you then you just do it :) I say go for it :D She's experienced so hopefully you'll have a good time :)

[MattPainter]

I don't thing there needs to be love just that you trust each other and know each other.

[dontfiguremeout]

Personally in my view there should be a love going on before you have sex. I mean so many people loose their virginity to a person they probably won't see again after they do it when they are teens. Don't you want to experience sex with someone you truly love? Someone who's beyond special to you? I mean now a days teens are just going to have sex to have sex and that's what they made normal, but it really is suppose to be a special thing between two people who love each other! I'm not letting any girl have sex with me cause I don't want a whore or slut taking my virginity away. I want the love of my life to be the only one who has sex with me. Only one lucky girl gets to have sex with me! So I mean, that's my opinion because it's more special if you guys love each other then do it just to do it.

[Ricky.h]

Rather you two are in a relationship or not, as long as you two have a good relationship and trust each other...I think you two should have sex. Get the pussy if she's throwing it at you. You two have a 4 year relationship and have some type of connection, so it's not a one night stand type of situation! Enjoy yourself man and get your dick wet lol

[Thomas01]

I don't think sex requires love. As long as people are willing to and want to, it is fine. Love might help and make things better but either way it is fine

[SkiJoey99]

I'm waiting until I get married. I'd rather it be with my wife who I'm in love with and spending the rest of my life with.

[Curious24]

I don't think their needs to be love. Especially if it is prom.

[From Chris]

Do you think there needs to be love in order to have sex? A girl I've known for 4 years asked me to go to prom and she's like "We should do it." She's experienced but i'm not. And now I have a devil sitting on one side of my shoulder, and an angel sitting on the other side.

Angel: I kinda feel like I do have to fall in love and have to have a strong emotional connection before I get to "Home" base. Like there needs to be trust that they'll support you emotionally also. I feel like I should take these things slow, if I do do it, then go as far as 3rd base, but not all the way to Home.

Devil: I also feel like if I said no to Home base, I would be missing an opportunity. But also, that would mean if I did do it, my first time wouldn't be with a girlfriend, more like a fwb or a one-night-stand. I kinda think it would be wayyy to quick to rush through all the bases right after prom.

Do you guys think there needs to be love for sex? When you lost your v-card, were u in a relationship or was it a one-night-stand/party/fwb?

I think people can do sexual favors, and also have sex for love. :) It's up to the two people really.

-From Chris

[Saint of Sinners]

Personally, I think there it's best have some form of relationship, or a good friendship, if not it's just kinda weird.

[AlexOnToast]

I don't think love is NECESSARY for sex, but it does make it a hell of a lot more special and meaningful...

[Robinblake]

Yes I think you should wait, you need to wait for the completely right person.

[Catholic Guy]

I don't think you should wait, I think when you get there you should ask yourself do I feel ready for this, is this the right thing to do and the first answer that comes to your head, not your cock, is the answer you should follow

[Green Arrow]

It depends what you want from it yourself and only you can know this. Do you want it to be something special and both of you are excited and just enjoy it because both of you love each other. Or you can just do it because it's biologically possible. Maybe I'm just old fashioned but I believe you have to have feelings for someone to have sex with them...

[Luke91]

You can be a virgin only once in your life. Once you lose it, it is gone forever and you cannot ever get it back. You said this girl is experienced and you are not. Congratulations. However, you now know that she has not waited for someone special. She just wants anyone. There are names for girls like this. Also, think ahead about the girl that you eventually will fall in love with. Will she be thrilled that you waited for her or will she be less impressed with you because you gave your virginity away to someone that wants to have sex with anyone and everyone? This person does not sound like someone I would want to remember as my first. Personally, I plan on waiting until I am married.

[chiisaiaoiryu]

I personally wouldn't say that love is needed for sex to happen. However, trust between you and the other person is a definite must have before it happens.

[kylem1229]

There doesnt have to be love, but there should be. Thats what its all about really, a way to show more love.

[hockeyfan]

I'd go out with her BEFORE the prom. If u love her do it if not dont.

[blarg2011]

i guess i think a little bit different... if u love the girl, then it's much more special... but hey, its just sex... after u find the right person and get married, u'll be with that person and only that person... my advice? try to experiment all u can before u find that special person... so many people get married or live in couple or stuff like that and regrets about it... then comes infidelity, divorce and maybe something worse...

ur still young... enjoy it, another time will come when ull find ur soul mate, till then.. just have fun and of course... always be carefull when doing it!!!!

[Arsenalfan123]

I dont think there has too be love

[Voodo]

I see sex as an act of love but everyone's view is different. Do what makes sense to you.

[MrIan]

I dont think there needs to be love, although I do think that the two people should at least know and trust eachother.

Yea that's right.

[DjBlazter]

I believe that the person you have sex with male/female you should love them uther wise the sex is meaningless so i believe you ned love to have sex

[Zachary G]

in most cases there is no love connection as far as first times go, but if you feel strongly about wanting to wait until you have feelings for someone, then go with it and dont let anyone (not even that devil on your shoulder) talk you out of it. i have been taught that love and sex should equal eachother, if they dont, then what you have is no good and might be something you regret doing.

[Tenoka]

Sex is sex. You can paint without being an artist. Love can make sex an experience worth it, but you can have sex for the sheer pleasure of it.

[jacksonthelan]

I dont think there needs to be love, although I do think that the two people should at least know and trust eachother.

this <3 this is what i think, although my first time was a 'one-night stand' it was with my best friend when i visited him (he lives a long way away from me)

[Ricardo]

You answered your own question..The Angel and Devil both told you that you should wait for the right one..so for you i would say wait.

To answer our question no i dont think you need to love someone for sex.For the first time though yes with someone you know and trust.

[daniel 2014]

I say go for it!

[Country Cowboy]

I may be a bit old fashion but yes, I think there needs to be love