What to do.

[Silvie]

I've never had any kind of sex except with myself. I finally have a boyfriend, and we are talking about different ways to have sex without doing IT. I really want to, but Im not sure about the kind to have. I mean, I know what I like to feel from maturating, but I don't have a real idea what to do, except from watching some porn.

[jessicaann]

Decide what you want to do. Try it together with patience . It can be awkward st first you'll be fine

[Miri]

By "IT", I assume you're referring to sexual intercourse, whereas you guys are discussing oral sex or different methods using fingers as "stand-ins".

Anyways, whatever it is you want, just make sure you both agree and are comfortable. Also, keep on communicating and discussing it, and don't be afraid to tell him what you do/don't want. It will be awkward at first, but just keep it safe and fun.

[jenna123]

just make sure you both are on the same page and comfortable with it. It may seem awkward at first but with practice it gets better

[anyone50]

Sounds like your on the right track just don't expect too much from your first time it's usually a little awkward especially if neither of you have had sex before. It gets better with time and practice

[carmen97]

just do whatever is comfortable for you both once you are comfortable you can experiment with different ways to have sex... thats the fun part of sex ;)

[jenna123]

first time it may be awkward but its ok. You will know what to do with practice, and make sure you guys are on the same page about this and about the things you wanna do. If there is trust and comunication there shouldnt be a problem

[laurakoller0815]

its really important to talk expections before to start something. missunderstood shouldnt annoy you;)

[stacy1203]

I think it also depends on your boyfriend's experience, I assume it won't be mindblowing the first time you get into it if he doesn't have any previous experience as well. But learnining it together should be very special, so you just do whatever you're comfortable with, the rest would follow.

[Tarannosaurus]

Asking for sexual techniques is not allowed :locked: