Should I get my bf this gift?

[biancachica]

So its my bfs birthday in about a month and I wanted to get him something special because weve been dating for over 3 years and he really loves me and I really love him. I was thinking of having a threesome with him and another girl. Weve been having sex for more than 2 years now and we really enjoy it. We have it quite often and we are a very adventurous couple that likes to try new things. He oftens suggests to have a threesome but each time I tell him Im not sure. Its ok because he is not try to force me to do it. I didnt want to do it because I was scared he would like it better with the other girl. But now I trust him more and I am not worried about it. The only problem is I dont know if I should do it with one of my friends or with someone else we know less. Do you think its a good idea? I know he will like it but will it cause problems in our relationship?

[Extreme586]

Tbh if it was me, that would cause some huge jealousy issues if my boyfriend were screwing another girl right in front of me. I mean you don't want to walk away from something like that hurt and feeling unwanted. I obviously don't know you or your boyfriend so it's hard to say what the right thing to do is but honestly it feels like this might not end well. Be careful with your decision and make sure your not sacrificing what you believe in order to please your boyfriend.

[deregisterme]

So its my bfs birthday in about a month and I wanted to get him something special because weve been dating for over 3 years and he really loves me and I really love him. I was thinking of having a threesome with him and another girl. Weve been having sex for more than 2 years now and we really enjoy it. We have it quite often and we are a very adventurous couple that likes to try new things. He oftens suggests to have a threesome but each time I tell him Im not sure. Its ok because he is not try to force me to do it. I didnt want to do it because I was scared he would like it better with the other girl. But now I trust him more and I am not worried about it. The only problem is I dont know if I should do it with one of my friends or with someone else we know less. Do you think its a good idea? I know he will like it but will it cause problems in our relationship?

Only if you think you can get someone that's effectively a FWB (friend with benefits) - someone that you can trust enough, that if you did it, it wouldn't break up your relationship.

[CRed]

Okay since you come into comfort with the thought I'm not going to try to talk you out of it but don't do it with your friends (that might cause issues), maybe his or someone else. Yea its an okay idea to spice up your sex life. It could potentially cause a problem cuz he could get to comfortable, if you don't set him straight afterwards. Or like you said like the other better. But both are unlikely to happen. And maybe just try some stuff you two haven't done before, something spontaneous and exciting. Maybe a lil strip show- lap dance type of thing who knows ;) lol.

[newkler]

don't do it with your friend

[IcaJess]

How about flowers?

Lol I dont really think its a good idea, but everyones different.

[Amber98]

i think you should do it because it will spicy up youre relationship and make it excited! after all its been 3 years youre together and u need something else so it dont become a boring relationship and eventually ends because u guys dont feel that adrenaline and excitement like in the beginning anymore.

if u both agree and want to do something i dont see any problems tbh.

my advice tho is that u find someone attractive entirely based on looks which will make the sex great but no emotions involved with that person! so no close friends unless u really want to and think thats a good idea to u to all of u.

[Romaana]

I wouldn't i understand its because you love him but sex should be about love shared between 2 people and 2 people only.

[KendraKnox]

If you are comfortable with that I think its an amazing idea. Thats like every guys dream and he would love you so much for it. I would tell him its a one time thing though.

[JamesSC]

He'd be a lucky man I'll tell you that!

[PatrickV]

Go for it. He'll love it!

[DarkHorse4eva]

you should only do it if you feel like doing it. it might be fun for your boyfriend, but it can also change your relationship with him

[SweetFang]

I think it is a terrible idea that will eventually ruin your relationship. If you love each other then you should be making love and with another girl it would just be sex.

Also, I'm not saying that he doesnt love you but if I had a boyfriend and he kept mentioning to me that he wanted a threesome, I would wonder if he was really satisfied with me. It sounds like he his only thinking of his penis. Would you sell your body to strangers if he asked you, just because he wanted money for a new phone? After all, that is just meaningless sex like a threesome.

Just my opinion. The choice is yours.:cry2:

[xban]

Would be a great idea. He'll love it for sure, but I don't know about you since I can't think like a girl.

[Dragon Grisu]

Yes this will be great gift for your boyfriend. But take my advice: Don´t make a threesome with one of your friend. This will cause problems in your friendships and maybe even in your relationship.
for this gift I would engage an escort model. I don?t now about the prices for an escort in your town but here in my city the fees for an escort in Berlin (http://www.escort77.de/FEES.html) are really moderate.
On advantage is that no one will know what you and your friend did. Another is that you can choos the girl from the look and make sure that she is really the hottest for both of you.
If you do it wit an escort model you surely will have a great time. Have fun:yes:

[Luminous]

I think only if you 100% trust not just your bf but also the other girl. You need to be completely positive that they won't try and separate you. If you are sure of these things, and you really think you will both enjoy it, then do it!

[ninja789]

So its my bfs birthday in about a month and I wanted to get him something special because weve been dating for over 3 years and he really loves me and I really love him. I was thinking of having a threesome with him and another girl. Weve been having sex for more than 2 years now and we really enjoy it. We have it quite often and we are a very adventurous couple that likes to try new things. He oftens suggests to have a threesome but each time I tell him Im not sure. Its ok because he is not try to force me to do it. I didnt want to do it because I was scared he would like it better with the other girl. But now I trust him more and I am not worried about it. The only problem is I dont know if I should do it with one of my friends or with someone else we know less. Do you think its a good idea? I know he will like it but will it cause problems in our relationship?

hi :)
its been a month since this and was wondering what you actually did?